What to do?

[realmadridfandc]

I never wrote any "harsh" negative reviews. On few rare occasions, I did call the agency owners and girls and told them what should be improved. They were cool about it. I would try to work it out with then first.

[SofaKingFun]

Do you really want to know what you should do? Do you want to help her? Do you want to help everyone in this community?

Write the review! It's called tough love. I don't know about the rest of these guys who are saying you shouldn't post a review/ID the gal, but I would be a MAD motherfucker if I were to somehow find myself in the company of this gal and she pulled that shit on me. Even more mad if I were to find that someone who had this valuable piece of intel failed to throw out the caution flag and warn me because they didn't want to hurt anyone's feelers.

Fuck all of that noise!
How is this YOUR fault? Then why should you feel guilty? This is on her. This is supposed to be a business transaction and you got hosed. (why you left the donation is beyond me..but you got hosed, just the same).

Shame on you if you don't post a review. If others before you experienced the same behavior, then shame on them as well. How in the world do you expect things to change and get better for her, if she keeps getting a pass?

That's precisely what you'll be doing if you don't post a review; giving her a pass on her behavior and allowing the cycle to perpetuate...not to mention leaving that trap set for one of your fellow mongers to fall right into....


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[Guest100314]

Grow a pair!!!

[greenhorn1960]

Dude, a review needs to be written!

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by playIVkeeps

Grow a pair!!!

[Guest041315]

Why even start the thread if you are not going to share the information? Advice? You already know you are not going to out her. I just don't know what the purpose of the thread is. I'm sure everyone here would like to know who it is for future reference.

[ck1942]

Not commenting on "Out her or Not" as others have already done so.

But, I am commenting (assumptions and hard data) on your hobbying.

You have posted one review in three years - it was an NCNS.

Your few posts include several about issues with NCNS.

Perhaps you should rethink your hobbying posture?

I'm not sure, and thus making no assumptions, about your hobbying plan.

-- Perhaps you are making poor choices of "targets" or

-- you lack the credentials to pass screening or you are unwilling to provide detailed personal data.

If the above are accurate, please consider seeing some providers who are newbie friendly and who can offer vouches for future encounters with others.

If you are making choices based only on "physical" characteristics.... rethink that.

Since you apparently do not have premium access, think about that, too, so you can benefit from the ROS info.

Sorry for your issues.

[dbeartx]

That's what reviews are for, to let other's know... There is a difference in telling the story emphatically and how it happened versus just being vindictive and hateful though, just don't be the latter. Who knows, maybe there are several others like you who have had the same experience, but no one reviews it, so the trend continues.

We're all accountable for our actions in the hobby, the good, the bad and the ugly. Had you shown up drunk/stoned and not kept up your part of the bargain, do you think the same question would have been asked on whether or not to say anything? (question, not a statement)