How to ask a woman about the hobby

[Chica Chaser]

Damn, just ask her out for a date. If she is an escort and wants to be compensated she will let you know one way or another. But the others are correct...YOU don't ask her. Nothing good would come out of that.

[Lust4xxxLife]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Don't say squat

Wise words. Pay attention.

[sky_wire]

"It really turns me on to pay to get fucked, but my wife won't take my money."

See where that gets you.

[guest043013-2]

I think the ladies have it right this time. And never, ever, approach someone in real life to discuss the hobby. Whether you have her seen her picture here, on BP, etc. We all have a right to a private life.

(1) If she ain't advertising her rates, don't assume.
(2) What will you gain by asking, versus what could you lose? Weigh the pros and cons. In this case, cons are too high. If nothing else, you have outed yourself.
(3) You may have a chance to make a real friend. DO you want to throw that away for a remote chance of finding a lady you can pay for sex? There are plenty here for you to choose without any of the risks.

[Papacorn]

Don't ask, just fantasize that she is.
And of course, watch the Welcome Wagon just in case!

[pyramider]

Let it go. Move on. If she is a provider she will post an ad somewhere, then you have confirmation. Its not worth termination or getting your ass kicked.

[FriscoKid]

HOB NOBBLIN ON YOUR HOB GOBBLIN...I'm still laughing...

Originally Posted by DFWRaven

Just ask her if she wants to make 20 Bucks the hard way....
If you feel a suddeen sting on your left cheek.. She aint a provider...
If she starts hob nobblin on your hob gobblin.. She's is..

[FriscoKid]

Dude, there's NO WAY you bring up the hobby...sounds like she's already into you with the chatting...it is ok to score without paying...LOL!