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Originally Posted by jokacz
I haven't decided if I should feel sorry for or just laugh at the providers that drank the kool aid about this being one big happy family of hookers watching each other's backs. Hell, we've had one dumb ass alerting out of one side of her mouth and vouching out of the other on the same client.
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That I think happened more than once. All starting with one side or both getting overly friendly with the other side. So from the gals side, a guy could be good for a time or two. Yet never let this one guy be a repeater, and alert on that.
At a bar I go one guy we call the "Tin Man". No heart. I on the other hand do have a heart when it comes to some providers. Too many guys when it comes to providers fall in LOVE or puppy love. This gets them in a mode of wanting to mother/father a provider. Or control or treat like SO. All bad.
errr but OSD you say ya have a heart.
well yes I do. By giving room to let them be them.
See I be thinking of letting one of my three go. So I stop calling all three. One called a week latter asking if I was ok. Then one it took only a day. I have done this before. With a bout the same result.
errr but OSD what about the 3rd
she may never call again. Or she will when she wants or needs something not even asking if I ok or what I have been up to. mmmm Or I will call and get about the same. That one use to play give and take. But seems only take to me now. And why I thinking of just let the relation die.
So from my point of view, if a guy is smothering a provider that is Alert worthy. Yet ok to see once or twice.
See I is not a Hobbyist. I will see for about 2 years before I say a keeper. For me it seems to take 3 years for them to be ok with me. I was seeing one for about 3/4ths of a year. Then she keep wanting me to go to a place or is that places that are just not me. Also was begging for a date, never wanted to just hang, so I ended it. It was
OSD for a time. But we do talk now.
Now at the last M&G one all know we know each other very well came. Others that where there can tell ya we hardly spoke to each other at the M&G. There was no need for her to talk to me, or I to her at that time. We just let each other do are thing. When I was ready for some time with. It only took a gesture. It only took a gesture back that she lined up some work. No problem.
It bothers me when I see some from here get too friendly too fast. As sometimes it ends with Drama here. But then I hate to say this, but I love the drama when it hits the board and not guilty of taking sides. But very guilty of stirring the pot. That stirring in my mind has given light to me anyways WHO was the more guilty and of what. Its about 50/50 on gender guilty in any one case. But always one more than the other in each.
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