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laoilman · 05-27-2010, 04:21 PM

I will have to agree with TGLover. If kissing isn't on the menu it's a deal breaker for me. I'm there for the foreplay as much as the sex and it adds a lot to the chemistry for me. Nothing turns me on more than a beautiful girl who has a sensual kiss.

Captin Kirk · 05-27-2010, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by laoilman

I will have to agree with TGLover. If kissing isn't on the menu it's a deal breaker for me. I'm there for the foreplay as much as the sex and it adds a lot to the chemistry for me. Nothing turns me on more than a beautiful girl who has a sensual kiss.

I will second that motion!!

causewaycommuter · 05-28-2010, 08:22 AM

Different guys want different things. Some guys are perfectly satisfied with an attractive woman that doesn't offer kissing, bbbj, or other gfe activities. So in that regard, to each his/her own.

For me, I really enjoy kissing. IMO nothing can heat up the time together with some hot, steamy kissing. Of course, there has to be "kissing chemistry" to get that. And the absence of bbbj is pretty much a deal breaker for me. On an occaison I asked to switch from bbbj to cbj because she was just TOO good (Dee), but I have to at least start with bbbj.

TallGirlLover · 05-28-2010, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by causewaycommuter

Different guys want different things. Some guys are perfectly satisfied with an attractive woman that doesn't offer kissing, bbbj, or other gfe activities. So in that regard, to each his/her own.

Regardless of that disclaimer you agree with us. No DFK or at least LFK is a deal breaker. If a Contractor wants to be considered in the class of Call Girl/GFE level Escort, she has to kiss the client. As someone else said, it's foreplay. What girlfriend doesn't want to kiss her boyfriend behind closed doors? A Girlfriend Experience, by definition, includes kissing between the Contractor and the Client.

BTW, only someone who has no reviews behind him, a lurker, would say this thread just gets longer and longer. The gorgeous Jaselle asked to know what she could do to improve her service, which is highly appreciated and commendable, and she's getting good and encouraging feedback.

TxTraveler · 05-28-2010, 07:15 PM

Outdoorsman hit it on the Head.

For Hobbyists new to you, you have no idea who you're seeing until you open the door. That initial greeting is special to the person and somewhat sets the tone for the rest of the appt.

A second thought.....

I'm curious if some of the negative reviews were from people that were, for some reason (hygiene, etc), particularly repulsive? If that occurs, you may want to just turn the person away with some reasonable excuse. Any opinions on how to handle this type situation if it happens?

TallGirlLover · 05-28-2010, 07:52 PM

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A second thought.....

I'm curious if some of the negative reviews were from people that were, for some reason (hygiene, etc), particularly repulsive? If that occurs, you may want to just turn the person away with some reasonable excuse. Any opinions on how to handle this type situation if it happens?

That is a possibility. Although I had done everything correct I apparently had something going on in my mouth. She told me right away I had bad breathe. She, someone else not Jeselle, took me into the bathroom to gargle and it went away. Kissing resumed. There is always the factor of the Client not being nice and doesn't deserve a kiss.

sixxbach · 05-31-2010, 10:44 AM

BBBBJ all the way............

TallGirlLover · 05-31-2010, 12:00 PM

Where is Jeselle? Where are you, Jaselle? You started this thread for tips towards better service and you haven't come back for any comments. I'm calling you out, Jaselle. It's time for you to speak. My question to you still stands. Tell me, in deference to that review I read, that you DO kiss. Tell us all that you not only kiss but you french kiss. Here's your chance. What say you?

gimme_that · 05-31-2010, 12:53 PM

I dont think theres a need to call her out. She will either change her methods toward her service to accommodate more types of sessions, or she will grow accustomed to her own specific preferences in lue of this thread and still not change a thing. Given some of her other posts about her concerns with lip to lip and skin to skin contact, I predict certain activities will still not be on the menu.
Her stance:

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=315689&postcount=1

The fact that she started the thread was probably to gather info from us as a consensus with respect to her own preferences. "Calling her out" wont motivate or faciliitate her to change or alter her service necessarily, it will still be up to her. I think she maybe contemplating changing and/or just gathering info. In any case I'm sure she is aware of both scenarios no matter what she decides to do.

jasellekennedy · 05-31-2010, 05:18 PM

Thank you all for your input and opinions. I don't advertise that I am GFE and everyone has their own opinion of what "GFE" consists of. To be clear, I don't kiss and everything I do is safe, covered and protected. I will not be heartbroken if that is a deal breaker because I'm just not a girl for EVERYBODY, but if you're a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady and wants to have some safe clean fun, I would love to hear from you!!

Stay safe out there guys!!

HobbyMan69 · 05-31-2010, 06:08 PM

a GFE is a Girlfriend Experience, not sure how many Boyfriends you have had who are ok with never kissing you, but i certainly would say thats not going to be my girlfriend for long. So there is no multiple definitions of GFE, it is defined as what the AVERAGE person enjoys with their Boyfriend or Husband. Claiming you are a GFE and not kissing is just plain lying/scamming, not saying you , because you said you do not claim to be GFE.

TallGirlLover · 05-31-2010, 06:41 PM

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....I don't kiss...

Hmmm....you do not kiss, huh? The review I read then was correct.

Let's asess. Streetwalkers don't kiss. They are not considered as Escorts because they don't kiss. That's why they are still walking the streets. The next higher class of provider would be a Call Girl/GFE Escort. The most distinguishing trait that would put a provider in this class is that she kisses on the lips. This is the main reason why $300 can be asked for and received by such a class of Escort. When did the hybrid class--a streetscort--she who refuses to kiss but expects the same donation of due a GFE arrive?

Tell me, Jaselle, why I would want to spend $300 to get the same action as I would from a streetwalker? It would be cheaper for me to get a room at the Ambassador on Tchoupitoulas; drive around; make my selection; take her back to my room; tell her to take a shower and clean up and then let the fun begin. She too wouldn't kiss me but I wouldn't have to pay $300 for the same level of service.

I'm all for safety and health. Real escorts, those who kiss on the lips, know where the boundaries are and what not to do for safety sake. After all it's their profession. One should always know what they are doing in their own profession.

gimme_that · 06-01-2010, 11:55 AM

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How can I rock your world better? Help me help you guys!!

Ok Im sorta confused about the original purpose of your thread. Was it more informational survey census type of thingy for you, or were you really "surprised" by the feedback. Was there ever a point originally where you were contemplating changing your service restrictions? It just seemed like besides the pictures and compliments of such and your original post......it was all just a tease in retrospect. I understand your stance now....but the original post you used to start the thread seems to have been to no avail and sort of misleading, Especially if you stance presumably then was steadfast and concrete as it seems the same as now.

TallGirlLover · 06-01-2010, 12:03 PM

Yes, for once I'm in agreement with gimme's comments, Jaselle, if you're not going take any of these suggestions to 'rock our world', we clients are all wasting our time. We're telling you that kissing, especially DFK, MUST be on the menu. My point a moment ago was that unless you're kissing the clients, ON THE MOUTH, you cannot consider yourself in the same class as a Call Girl.

jwillis13 · 06-02-2010, 11:23 AM

I have seen my fair share of girls that seemed board or with bad attitudes, once. Any provider that that seems like she is having a good time and enjoys what she is doing I have been back to see numerous times.