my penis went to the well..need advice

[JONBALLS]

wives are a difrent story for the most part, wives arent offering it up for cash and that can be a big difrence.I have nothing against him but me and her have an understanding..a contract, really has nothing to do with him, it was formed without my initial knowlege of him and at her consent. i will explain that to him if he wants and he may want to explain some things to me, ''

I think we put ourselves in these situations and sometimes its in herent to take some lumps

,these two just coexhist as roomates for the most part..

also this guy knows a guy just a guy, but in the end you may get kicked around ,or cash and dashed or robbed

i would never buy the cow, these chicks are street wise and dont need my assistance, part of what i like about this type of chick, resourceful, when the sessions done shes as done with me as me with her
besides she aignt movin out to the country, she a city gal.

[Lexxxy]

I was going to bite my tongue but this feisty redhead cant help but say something. I would quit it for a while, let everything work itself out, if it doesn't... so what?
She is a "professional", she is aware of consequences for her actions. You are lucky he didn't destroy you or shoot you. "A crime of passion, or crime passionnel, in popular usage, refers to a crime in which the perpetrator commits a crime, especially assault, murder or rape, against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden rage or heartbreak rather than as a premeditated crime." See.... you could have been raped O_o
Unfortunately, as a provider, when you start this hobby you have to be prepared for getting outed, relationships falling apart, people getting jealous, getting stalked, losing a job/career if they find out, getting arrested, and so on. My advice to other girls is do your taxes, have a savings set aside, be as careful as possible with what you tell people in your life, have one girlfriend(usually another provider, both of mine are) that knows what's up that is a safety that knows where you are and who you are with, and always have a cover story. I am an independent contractor, I work in luxury lifestyle management as an elite traveling concierge with a provider friendly tax attorney and I have my entertainer license. Cross your T's and dot your I's Ladies!
Sounds to me like there is an underlying issues as to why she risked having her man walk in because she NEEDED the money. She clearly didn't care about her relationship or being a professional Lady therefore you shouldn't care either.
IMHO there is something else going on that you want no part of sugar.

[JONBALLS]

Im just sitting there though, he didnt "catch" us in the middle of anything, sitting and having a conversation as far as he can see regardless the "story' playing in his head..

same as getting pinched by the cops, you dont have to be nervous because you never did anything wrong.

remeber what george costanza says,,, "its not a lie, if YOU believe it"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vn_PSJsl0LQ

[Guest121613]

i may be off a bit, but lexxxy is right on, some serious issues on your friend's part...

a guy is a just a guy, that is just this Eccie fantasy crap, because we all done it with many of the same ladies, and we have gotten used to thinking that way is ok, real world, people get pissed about sharing pussy, or sharing cock.

[Guest121613]

if he pimping her, he wouldn't have interrupted

if he thinks she is his girl, and even if he believes you did nothing, he knows what your after

real world, guys don't just show up at a girl's house unless they're at least sniffing,

if is just talking, its lunch in a public place

[JONBALLS]

Im not his problem though , she is..

if shes a cheater, shes a cheater, he just cut his losses i would thinck

no reason to bother with me logically, he picked his battles and went to the source..

probably already knows he cant change her , she didnt just become a pro yesterday, i knew she was a seasoned pro the day I met her, wouldnt thinnck this guy to be that nieve.

I just recently had a bothersome problem with a providers SO, i saw no logical reason to bother dealing with stupidity, I did get the usual service but that was the last time, I will just cut out the problem in totality the easiest way possible, you cant change the behavior of another person, their going to do what they do,at some point logic says just cut your losses,

[Guest080314-1]

F getting them back together just coerce her into using her mom's house as her new incall.

[Guest120615-3]

Originally Posted by pmiddlebrook1225

F getting them back together just coerce her into using her mom's house as her new incall.

Duos perhaps?

That ship has sailed with the boyfriend. Setup a M&G and find a new dude to take her in. Many of us are chumps.

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by pmiddlebrook1225

F getting them back together just coerce her into using her mom's house as her new incall.

Originally Posted by mwebber

Duos perhaps?

That ship has sailed with the boyfriend. Setup a M&G and find a new dude to take her in. Many of us are chumps.

see! now this is what Im talking about. some SOLUTIONS we can sink our teeth into
keep them coming

[Maximum4]

Get her to go public and let is know when she's doing incall.

[vern0064]

This is a tough one JB, If she wants him back let it play its cousre all will work out in the end. If she doesn't want him back can't force her. She will find someone else and she seems to like sex alot thats why she has you over. So should be the same with the next guy she dates.
But if you need a stand in BF for her ill do it!! Gonna be a tough job but i'm willing to take one for the team and help you out.

[neversoft]

Let it go. It's not about you. If she was really that into him, she never would have done what she did. She probably was bored and looking for excitement (danger), or she may have possibly wanted to get a rise out of him and it backfired. Or maybe she wanted to end her relationship in dramatic fashion. She certainly knew what she was flirting with and knew the likely outcome if she got caught.

This type of feminine drama seeking is why I hobby instead of seeking a gf in the first place. Forget your good intentions, you're just playing into her hand.

[JC1052]

Waaaay too much drama for a hobby !!!

[GP]

Introduce her to OSD. He has the insight to solve all of life's problems. Just make sure he is wearing his pink JD hat.

[JONBALLS]

he moved her back in already.....told you she has a GREAT ASS!