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Old 04-22-2012, 12:57 PM   #16
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You may want to look around in some of the other forums... Seems like this is occurring with some frequency with one of the aforementioned "highly respected providers". There is no excuse for this type of thing IMO.
I may have mispoken but this information is somewat new. This is why guys need to step up and put it out there so the rest of us can stop rewarding bad behavior.

Knowledge is power so lets get the knowledge out there
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Old 04-22-2012, 02:51 PM   #17
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I may have mispoken but this information is somewat new. This is why guys need to step up and put it out there so the rest of us can stop rewarding bad behavior.

Knowledge is power so lets get the knowledge out there

Gee, you're contradicting yourself here based upon what you said in the NCNS thread in the sandbox. Your last two posts.

Which is it? You're going to stop rewarding bad behavior or you're going to justify the NCNS?
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Old 04-22-2012, 04:06 PM   #18
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I didnt say i was justifing a NC/NS. I believe in that thread I even said theres no excuse for it, i simply stated that there is a reason for it. There was a thread on this awhile back and I am simply repeating what a provider said in that thread. Again...

No excuse

But there is typically is a reason.
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Old 04-22-2012, 05:21 PM   #19
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Sure there's a reason--but it may not be legitimate.
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Old 04-22-2012, 05:48 PM   #20
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Gee, you're contradicting yourself here based upon what you said in the NCNS thread in the sandbox. Your last two posts.

Which is it? You're going to stop rewarding bad behavior or you're going to justify the NCNS?
Damn it MsElena let Ken flip flop without pointing it out.
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Old 04-22-2012, 06:28 PM   #21
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If you can't understand the point I was making then I don't know what else to tell you. I simly said there is a reason, even if you may not like it, but there is no excuse.

Not sure how else I can say other then i am not approving the behavior, but there has to be a reason for said behavior.
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Old 04-22-2012, 06:39 PM   #22
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sounds to me like you're blaming the victim---what exactly do you think is the "reason"?? Did it occur to you that the reason might be that the provider double-booked, just plain forgot, is incapable of planning ahead or scheduling things in advance, had another more lucrative opportunity come up with a regular customer, decided she didn't feel like working, etc? The "reason" may have nothing to do with the client. . .
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Old 04-22-2012, 10:10 PM   #23
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Did it occur to anyone else there are two sides of the story and somewhere in the middle is the truth?

It has been this way since the dawn of man... don't see why it would change now.
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. . . and sometimes the fault lies 100% with the provider--lol --who has yet to respond either in this forum or in pm/email. Someday kenmonk this sort of thing will happen to you --it's just a matter of time in this hobby--then maybe you'll understand and quit trying to be a whiteknight.
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Old 04-23-2012, 03:06 PM   #25
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no excuse for not making a phone call
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Old 04-23-2012, 05:37 PM   #26
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Did it occur to anyone else there are two sides of the story and somewhere in the middle is the truth?

It has been this way since the dawn of man... don't see why it would change now.
No, Disagree. He might be 100% right, or she might be 100%. That doesnt put anything in the middle. The fact of the matter is she failed to let him know for whatever reason she was not going to see him. A call is the answer. Simple.
And as long as she hasnt responded to him or cleared her name here then who can you go with? him! I have not seen her and dont know him so yes, my thought and your though could be in the middle but i doubt the answer is. Just my opinion, take it for what it is worth.
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Old 04-23-2012, 07:28 PM   #27
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I have been nc/ns and it hurts me far more then most of you. I live in Saint Joseph, so when I drive to the plaza to get nc/ns it really sucks. hour and 10 min or so drive time one way. Take into account gas and it adds up so I have been there and I was pissed off but I let it go. I didn't even bother to ask why. I sent a pm, never got a reply and I moved on.
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Old 04-23-2012, 11:42 PM   #28
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I have been nc/ns and it hurts me far more then most of you. I live in Saint Joseph, so when I drive to the plaza to get nc/ns it really sucks. hour and 10 min or so drive time one way. Take into account gas and it adds up so I have been there and I was pissed off but I let it go. I didn't even bother to ask why. I sent a pm, never got a reply and I moved on.
Well, damn Ken... after driving all that way from St Joe for nothing you could have at least driven over to the Bluebird for a Chupacabra...!
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Old 04-24-2012, 06:35 AM   #29
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Well, damn Ken... after driving all that way from St Joe for nothing you could have at least driven over to the Bluebird for a Chupacabra...!
Just be wary of the purebred miniature people!
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What a debate. The OP posted a NCNS as info for others in the hobby. Unless the provider in question posts her side of the story, it's just an informative post.

Right know it is a "he said, she said" but she has not said anything, just the WKs.
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