Spinning on my axis

[Guest030817]

Originally Posted by KCQuestor

I don't understand why any woman -- much less Ari -- would HAVE to go any length of time without sex.

To deal with "real life" unfortuntely. When I bunny hop all over town, occassionally I do have to stop and focus on the boring ins an outs of everday life. I guess I didn't HAVE to go without, I was just busy and didn't want to be distracted... then I realized that I was having withdrawls. I can think of nothing else.

I really was wondering how time consuming the hobby is for most hobbiest and what the hell is normal activity cause I feel like a nympho freak about now. Does anyone know, scientifically...is it because of the drastic decrease in the release of hormones if you typically have a very sexually active life?

Love ya my ECCIE friends. You bring much laughter to my life!

Arianna

[bartipero]

Actually, this has been studied in a sense. Men were found to have such thoughts on average very frequently. I can't recall the rate, but it was something like once every 12 minutes or at least very frequently. I don't recall the ladies in the study, sorry, but the real ones on here will likely offer up their comps I expect. It also varies by age, personality and so on, and yes, everyone--who is normal and will admit it--seeks release, whether manual or otherwise. Some have higher drives than others, but whether your nymphoesue or not, who knows. You probably can't get that analysis here, but it sounds to me more like young, less inhibited, fun and *gasp* normal. Nothing like that judeo-christian set of mores to sneak in some guilt and mess up a good fantasy. That's why Latins and Europeans view us as uptight in such things.

[KCSmutMonkey]

Don't worry! We've got your back (and your front for that matter)!! To answer your question, I can survive about two hours after reading this. Ok, maybe I misunderstood the question? ;-)

[Guest121212]

Ari - Bartperio and VK are correct, I found your post (which is a threAD, and a brilliant one at that - and there's nothing wrong with that [it being a threAD]) to be, well, absolutely brilliant - and I was offering a compliment. Hell, I'm jealous, and wish I had thought of it first . . . LMAO

Kisses,

- Jackie

[KCSmutMonkey]

Originally Posted by Ari816

To deal with "real life" unfortuntely.

I fucking hate it when real life gets in the way of sex. Priorities woman!

[Grizzly]

For me it has 6 months and I am going crazy. Plus my hand is getting tired and it just makes me want it more.

Actually had a friend the other day tell me I should go see someone (it was a lady).

I should have money come in this week and I am calling someone for a date. Ive narrowed it down, but still have trouble deciding.
Now I see this post and I am like darn another was added to the list

[Morrison]

There was a time in my life when sex with a girlfriend I had was so incredible it didn't seem to matter how often the sex occurred. I suppose the total sexual satisfaction I felt with her was enough to last until the next time which could be a few hours or up to 3 or 4 weeks. Over a 4 year period every time we had sex I would always think "I'm living a dream." I always wondered how the sex could be that good and we couldn't go 2 weeks without a major blowup. I guess that's life.

[BobInKC]

Sex is great and I enjoy it but I try to not let it run my life. Personally I have a lot of other things going on that need my attention than busting a nut.

When I'm hard and it won't go away I take care of it. When I'm feeling dirty I take care of it. If there's a woman involved then all the better. It's only sex.

[Guest030817]

Originally Posted by BobInKC

Sex is great and I enjoy it but I try to not let it run my life. Personally I have a lot of other things going on that need my attention than busting a nut.

When I'm hard and it won't go away I take care of it. When I'm feeling dirty I take care of it. If there's a woman involved then all the better. It's only sex.

I thought that I had more control over it too but I have moments...like today...where I can't focus. I kept thinking about Bristol with a blindfold on and those piercings that are so fun on the tongue... I don't know.

I admittedly have always had a strong sex drive...I believe the problem is that the more I have the more I want...and you can't go backwards once you see or experience certain things.

6 months...holy shit. I can't go 6 hours!

Ok, so guess I guess that I have to come clean. " Hello KC, my name is Ari and I'm a sex addict it's been 7 days since I had any pussy or penis"

[BobInKC]

I know what you mean. I guess I just never let it get the better of me(says the guy that years ago would plan his days off to whacking to porn). I know how those things can call you until you submit(as the sandy pecan cookies in the cupboard for my daughter's lunch are doing. Can't hear you! LaLaLaLaLa!).

[KCSmutMonkey]

Originally Posted by Ari816

I thought that I had more control over it too but I have moments...like today...where I can't focus. I kept thinking about Bristol with a blindfold on and those piercings that are so fun on the tongue... I don't know.

I admittedly have always had a strong sex drive...I believe the problem is that the more I have the more I want...and you can't go backwards once you see or experience certain things.

6 months...holy shit. I can't go 6 hours!

Ok, so guess I guess that I have to come clean. " Hello KC, my name is Ari and I'm a sex addict it's been 7 days since I had any pussy or penis"

Wow girl, you might just pop! Spontaneous combustion. Nothing but a fine mist, charred pantie fragments, and a hint of perfume remaining! You better go get that looked at!

[Fastcar]

Ari,you and I are really the same person! Sex dominates my thoughts and actions way more than I like to admit. I went to Walmart this weekend and walked in behind the thinnest woman I've ever seen and thought "wow,I'd like to fuck her". Five minutes later,I'm behind a curvy,bubble butt in a tight dress and I thought .......well,you know where this is going. Is it wrong to want to fuck everyone? BTW,3 hours til Bristol!

[Enchanterlingum]

Fastcar is Frank Booth.

http://youtu.be/-7NitmzzZX8

[woody4eroticfun]

[quote=Ari816;2339296]The hotline was in reference to like 1800betsoff or an SA meeting...my hope was that I would get some reassurance that I wasn't the only one.quote]

Ari, I'm thinking that you going to a SA meeting would be like taking alcohol to a AA meeting ;-)

I volunteer to be your hotline, call me anytime baby

[The DarkSide]

Originally Posted by Ari816

Ok, so guess I guess that I have to come clean. " Hello KC, my name is Ari and I'm a sex addict it's been 7 days since I had any pussy or penis"

Hi, Ari!