Hand jobs, just bust a nut or a lost art?

[Paven]

Using the term Hand Job is so mundane. I am all about taking my time and incorporating a full frontal massage while working the cock. Using both hands at times then wetting my finger and slowly rubbing it over the nipples, massaging the inside of the thigh as the cock is slowly stroked. Making sure that the balls are being tended too as you can't forget about them! Blowing air on the tip of the cock seems to put guys in a frenzy while massaging the chest then maneuvering my way down to the psoas muscles which are often neglected. It's a medley of sensations throughout the body but always with the most attention on said wienie. The head is so sensitive and I have this way of cupping my hands over it I've been told it felt better than a pussy! Who knew? lol I love the reaction that I get from it especially since I can make this last around 30 minutes or so, sometimes longer. I think it's wonderful to broaden peoples horizons, so many men tell me that "normally" they would have popped in 5 minutes. I am all about edging during my sessions, tease and denial, rather than fast and furious which anyone can do. One has to have special powers to go to this level . I also think it shows that you really care about what you're doing to take a fellow to that realm. No get in get off get out with me, be prepared to become a marshmallow.

Yes I do believe it is a lost art form, but I am doing my part to keep it alive!

[Jariou]

That's what I'm talking bout Paven.I do make freq trips to Austin may check u out

[burkalini]

Wow it seems alot of you feel the same way I do about a good HJ. I went to a AMP in LV once just to check it out and the gal while very pretty and young thought it you squeezed hard and went very fast that was the key to success. I took her hand away and smiled at her and showed her what to do. She apparently learned a little because she copied it very well and when I was ready to cum she put her mouth on it and let me cim with no extra donation. We don't always want a HJ but when we do it's nice to run into someone that's taken the time to learn just like it's good to learn to eat pussy well. Ok all you ladies get out the oil or lotion and go to HJ class. lol

[Valerie]

I like to incorporate HJ & BJ at the same time. HJ can be tricky as all guys like it a bit different, some are more sensitive than others etc...So once I know what "style" the guy likes, everything is good

[CJ7]

Originally Posted by CarolinaGent

I'd say it's about 50/50 as far as providers who do them well. Lots seem to have no idea that fast can be way too intense if done for an extended period of time

Alexis aka Newbubbles of days past, and her Lingham massage was unfkn believeable. About 30 minutes in you were quivering like a bowl of jello, 57 minutes and your but was sucking the sheets off the bed, ending lasted 4-ever.

(L1 only) Lauren at OES provided some of the best scenery for a rub in the state .. IMO of course.

[charlestudor2005]

@Paven - nice description. If you incorporate a good prostate massage, that might provide fireworks for me.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Wow it seems alot of you feel the same way I do about a good HJ. I went to a AMP in LV once just to check it out and the gal while very pretty and young thought it you squeezed hard and went very fast that was the key to success. I took her hand away and smiled at her and showed her what to do. She apparently learned a little because she copied it very well and when I was ready to cum she put her mouth on it and let me cim with no extra donation. We don't always want a HJ but when we do it's nice to run into someone that's taken the time to learn just like it's good to learn to eat pussy well. Ok all you ladies get out the oil or lotion and go to HJ class. lol

Someone once posted a link to a Youtube video a girl posted on HJ techniques. I was all excited because I thought I might learn some new tricks. It was a 10 minute vidoe, and she did show alot of different techniquesl, but to my disappointment, she didn't demonstrate anything that were new to me, and to be honest, there are a few eye popping tricks that I do that were nowhere to be seen. Oh well, it was still a good video and would surely be helpful to some ladies. I just tried to see if I could find it again to post here and it seems to have been pulled from Youtube. Bummer.

[Paven]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

@Paven - nice description. If you incorporate a good prostate massage, that might provide fireworks for me.

Dallas Rain is your girl for prostate massage .

[DallasRain]

--Thanks Paven!!

I can give a pretty damn good handjob!
{lots of oil!!!}

But even better is to give a nice oily handjob while I am doing a prostate massage or sticking my strap on up your bum! lol

[Missy Mariposa]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I do like a good HJ every now and then but have found most providers don't really do it well. I think alot of them have concentrated on the BJ more and that's not a bad thing but it is nice to run into one that really knows how to give it. What do you guys and ladies think?

You are absolutely right, it is a lost art. Let me say this in bold, to get my point across:

Jacking a guy off is NOT A HANDJOB.

My thoughts on a handjob are no top, sexy panties, use of both hands in several techniques, lots of GOOD silicone lube (never goes sticky), a slow build up, and a HUGE release...I mean if you wanted someone to use one hand and move it like a blur wouldn't you be at home looking at porn?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

I mean if you wanted someone to use one hand and move it like a blur wouldn't you be at home looking at porn?

Yep. And the hand would more than likely be mine. The downside: no lady to help me out. The upside: no donation.

[Shayla]

Guys are all different with hand jobs... Some like fast and rough and others prefer the slower, massage type. I prefer to just suck.

[Fastcars1966]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I fuggin LOVE Receiving hand jobs. HJ's are sooo underrated. My fingers are so much more nimble than my mouth is. I like mixing it up between BBBJ and HJ just to keep things interesting and draw out the foreplay. HJ's are truly an artform when done right, and I think its safe to say I've mastered the art - though of course, one can never truly perfect it

Only one in my area that has perfected it. Man she can kept you on the edge and then bring you to multiple climaxes like no other woman I have ever met.

[Guest081013-1]

I have discovered thanks to Jariou.... that I LOVE handjobs. They are sexy as hell. Nice and slow... grabbing the balls... rubbing them nice, slow, sexy. Grabbing them as I slide up to the top... rubbing both hands up and down... running the top hand over the head... slowly. Letting it grow bigger and harder... mmmmmmmmmmm..... This is HOT. I love doing them NOW. Thanks, Jari.

[john353]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Guys are all different with hand jobs... Some like fast and rough and others prefer the slower, massage type. I prefer to just suck.

I mentioned in my earlier post that I rarely get off from a HJ.

I prefer Shayla's method by a longshot!