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mikkifine · 02-16-2012, 02:28 PM

I have had a few clients who have come to my rescue when I have bills that need to be paid right now.

They have been kind enough to advance me and I am more than happy to honor that debt. I don't feel like I am at their beck and call.

They do have wives and they have always treated me with respect.

It is nice to have that special someone that you can depend when times get hard.

dearhunter · 02-16-2012, 04:29 PM

I'm still looking for my sugarmomma......I'm a picky fucktard.....ijs.

TexasGator · 02-16-2012, 04:45 PM

You might get a few more bites if you'd upgrade that single-ply "sandpaper" at your incall. At the very least, use some fabric softener on the towels. ijs

Owlman · 02-16-2012, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by mikkifine

I have had a few clients who have come to my rescue when I have bills that need to be paid right now.

I have become friedly with some providers over time and have provided "loans" when they needed them. They were nice ladies and good people.

I have also commented here about a retired provider. I read some other comments by Brook and others. This lady retired and is being supported, but she is not "kept." She has a close relationship with the guy and they treat each other very well.

boardman · 02-16-2012, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Owlman

I have become friedly with some providers over time and have provided "loans" when they needed them. They were nice ladies and good people.

I have also commented here about a retired provider. I read some other comments by Brook and others. This lady retired and is being supported, but she is not "kept." She has a close relationship with the guy and they treat each other very well.

Give it time...

Wakeup · 02-16-2012, 09:00 PM

Patience young Padawan...loans lead to gifts...gifts lead to dating...dating leads to suffering...

Sarunga · 02-17-2012, 04:19 AM

Very enlightening, WU.

Tobor the 8th Man · 02-17-2012, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Patience young Padawan...loans lead to gifts...gifts lead to dating...dating leads to suffering...

Wow. A koan on ECCIE. Cool.

Wakeup · 02-17-2012, 09:58 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFnFr-DOPf8

Jemma Martin · 02-17-2012, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

Not all women wanna be "kept" ... I'd rather keep making $200/hr ... enjoy my freedom and live life the way I want to rather then get 15k a month to be at some mans beck and call.

Lots of my friends have sugar daddies and I don't envy them in the least.

+1

And if you don't do things their way then they lash out at you and start to get psycho over you. It's like buying a slave. I am no ones slave. I am no ones property either. I've learned the hard way about this, but I also have SDs who are actual gentlemen and are respectful towards their SB. It just all depends on trust and respect. Finding the right SD who accepts you and what you offer for them is rare, but there are some out there.

dearhunter · 02-17-2012, 11:37 AM

Some threads are the gift that keeps on giving.....too funny.

boardman · 02-17-2012, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

+1

And if you don't do things their way then they lash out at you and start to get psycho over you. It's like buying a slave. I am no ones slave. I am no ones property either. I've learned the hard way about this, but I also have SDs who are actual gentlemen and are respectful towards their SB. It just all depends on trust and respect. Finding the right SD who accepts you and what you offer for them is rare, but there are some out there.

Just how many "SDs" do you have?

I have a follow up question as well but let's just take them one at a time.

Nick11796 · 02-17-2012, 03:11 PM

I see comments from Jemma and Brooke that are right in some instances but wrong in others. A girl just has to be careful and prudent in dealing with guys. My wife had been an escort. Before retiring she received gifts, some of which were quite expensive from regulars. However, she turned down requests to go further. I met her from a recommendation from an agency. We had two paid sessions but became friends. Shortly thereafter she had two risky experences that made her feel uncomfortable. I offered to pay her for a period of time so that she could take a vacation from work. She agreed on the condition that the offer was from a friend and not from a guy who looked to be her only customer. The amount involved was pretty expensive, but I thought that it would be short-term. Our relationship went from friends to lovers.

Well one thing led to another, and the arrangement went on for several years. Then she said that she thought that I loved her and if I wanted things to continue I would have to divorce my wife and marry her. Although it caused a lot of family and other problems, we did get married.

Jackie S · 02-17-2012, 04:08 PM

I don't get the SD-SB thing. Why in the world would you want to be tied to someone who you are having to pay to be with. Because she will be "true" to you? Yeh, give me a break.

Sure, I have a ATF, and she is the only Hooker I see. And hell yes I am exceptionally good to her. But why not. She fucks me silly, is a great companion, and treats me like a king when we are together. She doesn't get into my busines, and I don't get into hers. Thi arrangement will last as long as I am willing to pay for the pleasure.

I figure it is money well spent, being with Sarah, whether BCD or in a nice restaurant, is simply put, a lot of fun. And I can walk away any time I please. And so can she.

A lot of Guys can't handle an arrangement like this. They always are wondering if "they are getting their monies worth." But for that, I say there are people who can tell you the price of everything, but know the value of nothing.

Guest041413-2 · 02-17-2012, 07:02 PM

SMH, not because you found love. But, based on how you described it, she really worked it well and left a lot of havoc and carnage in her trail. She's yours now, so enjoy her!

OP, there have been some good and bad stories, both ways. Latest I heard of is a fem I met who told me her goal was to find @4 guys and settle with them as her "regulars" as she worked her normal professional job. She had just moved here but all of a sudden disappeared from the normal hobby landscapes. I assumed she reached her goal. She was new, young, gorgeous but very sexually able!!! All pluses right? Recent intel is that she evidently found herself in a Pimp/My bitch now scenario and is now gone. How unfortunate!

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Originally Posted by Nick11796

I see comments from Jemma and Brooke that are right in some instances but wrong in others. A girl just has to be careful and prudent in dealing with guys. My wife had been an escort. Before retiring she received gifts, some of which were quite expensive from regulars. However, she turned down requests to go further. I met her from a recommendation from an agency. We had two paid sessions but became friends. Shortly thereafter she had two risky experences that made her feel uncomfortable. I offered to pay her for a period of time so that she could take a vacation from work. She agreed on the condition that the offer was from a friend and not from a guy who looked to be her only customer. The amount involved was pretty expensive, but I thought that it would be short-term. Our relationship went from friends to lovers.

Well one thing led to another, and the arrangement went on for several years. Then she said that she thought that I loved her and if I wanted things to continue I would have to divorce my wife and marry her. Although it caused a lot of family and other problems, we did get married.