The guy with 125 OK's.....??

[bigdog0311]

Originally Posted by Anastasia Roberts

I believe that the more okays a guy has (in his length of membership) just tells me that he likes variety or is searching for something specific and hasn't found it yet.

How would you like it if our Partner count was displayed and guys chose us off of that? Lets no go there...please no. Not being bitchy, just something for you to think about.

I understand your rational, but I will tell you that I have "found" a couple of ladies that I have reviewed, and I have had sessions with them multiple times, however, I still like to see different providers as well and that will never change as long as I am hobbying.

As far as your "partner count" goes, it is displayed, just click on your ECCIE reviews, but also keep in mind that you have had MANY other sessions as well, from the guys that do not ever do reviews, the ones that did not want to put a review of you up and lets not forget about RL "sessions" outside the hobby.

But you are right, there is not accurate way to measure how many men you have been with, and the same can be said vice versa.

Point is, those are just numbers and does not reflect anything as far as if a guy is a "STUD" or raises red flags for providers.

[Hercules]

I've had a lady tell me matter-o-factly that I had too many OK's. I bit my tongue in that she had 3X more reviews then I had OK's.

Since then I have edited my profile to take off some of the older ones who aren't around anymore and one that's gone a little batpoop crazy and I don't want to be associated with anymore.

[Guest122922]

Originally Posted by TheBizz

Have you fucked 125 guys?

Hey Bizz....well, I can understand your rebuttal.

Just a note....this is our occupation. Your remark resembles....for the typical secretary....how many cups of coffee did you serve today? Oh....and how many has her boss served? of course she has served a buttload more coffees than her boss!
Think about it.

I will admit that....yes....OMG....I've probably seen OVER 2000 clients in my four years of service.
How would you respond to seeing 2000 reviews on me?

I'm not the REVIEW girl type....never have been. My clients know what I offer....and they keep coming back. No reason to make it outrageously public.

I DO get all of what you guys are saying.....but hey....50 oks on a guy....sends me the message that he is definitely O.K.!! beyond that....what's the point? Altho....in light of that....they should have one every so often to keep their status updated.

You know me.....I always say it like it is. Don't hate me for that!

Hugs!
Torre

[Guest122922]

AND ONE MORE NOTE.....I do not give OK's.....unless asked by the client to do so.
For the reason implied.

xxoo
TT

[LazurusLong]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

AND ONE MORE NOTE.....I do not give OK's.....unless asked by the client to do so.
For the reason implied.

xxoo
TT

Not sure but seeing as how the CLIENTS are the ones paying for P411 and providers are the ones using it, if an appointment was done and you used P411 for screening, it seems there is an implied action on your part to do that if the guy is OK for other providers to see.

Reviews on sites like this allow other clients to see who has she seen and get some details not found in ads alone.

I'm not really clear on what you said.

Are you saying you just don't give OKs or you only give them if you get a request from the client?

[TheWanderer]

I think it depends on how you use them.
Was he "brandishing" that number like it was an award badge that deserved VIP treatment? Maybe it just indicates that he really likes to hobby, has been at it a while and has built up a very solid track record.

There once was a hobbyist here that quickly racked up 95 reviews and began to think he was the authority on all subjects such as how to write a review, how to respond to a review, how to respond to a post, how to not create redundant posts and pretty much every topic under the sun. He seemed to feel his reviews were his rank.
Then he either lost his mind or his inheritance ran out and he quit.

My point is that having a lot of OKs or a lot of reviews (male or female) is not in reality a medal of honor and should not be distorted in the owner's mind as one.
It's just a report card and probably not one that you want to show your parents.

[Guest112916]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames - I will admit that....yes....OMG....I've probably seen OVER 2000 clients in my four years of service.

Sigh, Oh Well, Shucks...Another one to add to the DNS list.

[Guest062124]

The only thing I can come up with that MAY be a negative for a guy with a lot of "Okays", would be, that it could possibly mean he isn't looking to be a regular. I want regulars. I am not into the the "Wham Bam thank you maam"...but I would never not see him because he has a lot of Okays..

[Waldo P. Emerson-Jones]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

I will admit that....yes....OMG....I've probably seen OVER 2000 clients in my four years of service.
How would you respond to seeing 2000 reviews on me?

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Sigh, Oh Well, Shucks...Another one to add to the DNS list.

If that seriously bothers you, then you may want to consider another hobby, as this one does not seem right for you.

[CoHorn]

I had heard about some ladies complaining about hi OK totals and just deleted a bunch of them. If I don't plan on seeing them again I am probably going to delete her. I've kept some on just because it was a really good memory. I would say I've probably deleted about 50-60 and keep approximately 15-20 OK's currently. Enough to show activity, but not enough to scare them off.

[rylstone]

I think he was making a point, Waldo.

[ItalianaPrincess]

The Bizz - YOU CRACK ME UP!!!

Have you fucked 125 guys?

[Guest071613-2]

Lots of okays are no more of a red flag than ladies who have to change their handle two or three times a year. Just saying.

Welcome back.

AGAIN.

[Guest042715]

I've been told by a couple different providers that they tend to stay away from johns with lots of OK's. they think that it's always going to be one and done and there will be no chance to build a lasting, repeat business relashionship so why bother in the first place?

[Guest122922]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Lots of okays are no more of a red flag than ladies who have to change their handle two or three times a year. Just saying.

Originally Posted by Dannie

Welcome back.

AGAIN.

****************
OUCH!! Thanks Dannie. Luv ya!
******************
People.. I didn't think this would cause so many pantie wads!
You question why the red flag for too many oks? You've responded with reasons why...YES....and reasons why....NOT.

Thanks REESE for your input. Your point of the constant traveling hobbyist is what raises a flag with me. Also that he has to "display" his badge about his habits gives me an indication of his personality. There is something attractive about the hobbyist that makes us feel as special as they want us to make them feel. Nuf said.

LAZARUS….in response to your question…yes, I DO post oks….but only if the client request that I do.

BIGDOG….you made YOUR point….and glad to know that you shop around on a regular basis.

**Everyone has their preference on how to manage their hobby habits. I posted this thread because I wanted to see if I was out of line in my way of thinking. Perhaps so. But, being the stubborn gal I am….well guys….I stick with my initial apprehension of too many oks.

VON S – glad to know I’ve made your DNS list. I have one as well. And Congrats! You just made top 5!

Love to all!
TT