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Originally Posted by exoticentyce
Wow, there's a lot more to pro-domme than I expected! I'll learn all of the rules of play before diving in and see if I can find a few instructors here in the Houston area. I've messaged a few, but as of today I dont have any responses. I think being a pro-domme is a very interesting world and I am looking forward to learning all I can about that side of life as a sex worker.
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You may run into more than a few pro-dommes who will not be happy at all to help you learn the business. First you are competition, and not everyone is happy about training competitors, especially in some of the smaller mid-country markets.
But I think the biggest obstacle you are going to find is that they (and this is a generalization here) are against sex workers plying the domme business. Some believe it gives all dommes a bad reputation, others believe that when providers do it, the pro-dommes then have to field and screen out men looking for sexual play with light domination added in. And some are just purists who don't think sex belongs in pro-domme work.
In my mind providers and pro-dommes both engage in sexual play. If it's not sexual, why do they wear killer corsets, stockings and heels?
Not that I'm complaining about their outfits! But I think they are being quite narrow in their definition of sex work. It's all sexual in my mind, or at least 99% of it is. Now I won't go down the path of the pro's and con's of offering sex during a play session. In my mind that belongs between the individuals involved. But others would disagree with me on that one.
My advice is if you are going to be provider, AND you want to do pro-domme work, keep the two worlds separate. Different websites, different places you advertise, and keep things on the downlow. You may find it will cause you less grief in the long run.
