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jaydalee · 12-30-2011, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by WorknMan

Had this happen recently, where a lady referred to me as 'daddy' a couple of times during the session. First of all, I'm a middle-aged white male who is not quite 40 yet, and I personally found it a bit off-putting. I'm guessing that blacks or really older men might find this kind of thing appealing, but at LEAST wait til I'm like 60 before you start calling me that

I have never called a gent "daddy" but maybe some guys will ask to be called daddy in a role-play situation I never had this happen.
What I do not get is why do you think african-american men or really older men might find it appealing?
I find that comment a little uncalled for what are you trying to say about african-american men that they like to play the "daddy role"?I agree with another reply you could have asked this question and left out the part about race which has nothing to do with being called "daddy"

guest010313 · 12-30-2011, 09:21 AM

Some people really like it. The first time someone said to call him daddy in bed, we were both early 20s lol. This was civvie life too.

And for some people it can be a really erotic role-play. It's not even an uncommon one.

Biomech · 12-30-2011, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I think its creepy ..

I think it's a bit creepy too.

Old-T · 12-30-2011, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by WorknMan

I'm guessing that.....really older men might find this kind of thing appealing, but at LEAST wait til I'm like 60 before you start calling me that

First, I take exception to "really older" and 60 being used together.

But as one who as passed into the "more experienced" category I can answer it very easily: NO. I do not like it.

WorknMan · 12-30-2011, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by jaydalee

What I do not get is why do you think african-american men or really older men might find it appealing?
I find that comment a little uncalled for what are you trying to say about african-american men that they like to play the "daddy role"?I agree with another reply you could have asked this question and left out the part about race which has nothing to do with being called "daddy"

I'm sorry, you're right. I forgot that anytime you make any sort of generalization about blacks, somebody is always going to get offended, even if your intent was not malicious. In this case, it was merely an educated guess, based on what I've heard and seen. Case in point:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zK1lSBSJVH0

Count how many times the female in the song uses the word 'daddy'. It's something I hear in rap songs and see in pornos all the time, almost always where blacks are involved. So don't assume an insult where none is intended. If they like it, then they like it. If they don't, then they don't.

Tori Hastings · 12-30-2011, 04:09 PM

I'm a female, and I will never call a man 'daddy'. It creeps me out. I had a date years ago when I was in my 20's ask me to call him that once. Never again. And let me just add, he was white. lol So it doesn't matter if someone's black, white, or whatever.

Jackie S · 12-30-2011, 04:14 PM

Ditto on the "daddy" crap. Hell, I'm pushing 65, one look in the mirror confirms that fact, I don't have to pay somebody to tell me.

That being said, it would beat the shit out of "grand daddy".

Milehigh65 · 12-30-2011, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by WorknMan

I'm sorry, you're right. I forgot that anytime you make any sort of generalization about blacks, somebody is always going to get offended, even if your intent was not malicious. In this case, it was merely an educated guess, based on what I've heard and seen. Case in point:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zK1lSBSJVH0

Count how many times the female in the song uses the word 'daddy'. It's something I hear in rap songs and see in pornos all the time, almost always where blacks are involved. So don't assume an insult where none is intended. If they like it, then they like it. If they don't, then they don't.

The question was do the gents like it when providers call them Daddy. Simple answer would have been no and maybe comment as to why you don't like it. Personally I was not offended as it is not uncommon for people to have to reference race when it really has nothing to do with the subject matter. I get amazed by the need for people to identify with race in a general conversation. But it is the world we live in.
Surely your smart enough to know that what you see in porn and here in music is not how real life is truly presented nor does it apply to a entire culture.

I have seen a few white providers that during the entire session all I hear is "yea I love black cock; give me that black cock" Now maybe they think I enjoy hearing rubbish, but it is a turn off and takes awy from the session. I definately don't think that is the way with all white providers, it's just not good to generalize.

AdventureAdams · 12-30-2011, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Milehigh65

The question was do the gents like it when providers call them Daddy. Simple answer would have been no and maybe comment as to why you don't like it. Personally I was not offended as it is not uncommon for people to have to reference race when it really has nothing to do with the subject matter. I get amazed by the need for people to identify with race in a general conversation. But it is the world we live in.
Surely your smart enough to know that what you see in porn and here in music is not how real life is truly presented nor does it apply to a entire culture.

I have seen a few white providers that during the entire session all I hear is "yea I love black cock; give me that black cock" Now maybe they think I enjoy hearing rubbish, but it is a turn off and takes awy from the session. I definately don't think that is the way with all white providers, it's just not good to generalize.

I was gonna say everything but the BIG BLACK COCK part.

pyramider · 12-30-2011, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I think its creepy ..

It might be creepy . . . but it might depend on how many "Uncle Bills" made a guest appearance.

WorknMan · 12-30-2011, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Milehigh65

Personally I was not offended as it is not uncommon for people to have to reference race when it really has nothing to do with the subject matter.

But it DOES have to do with the subject matter, as the term seems to be used more in black culture than anywhere else. Do you deny this? That's why I said that blacks OR really older men. Meaning, I did not single them out. Just a guess on my part. Nothing more, nothing less.

Basically, what I am saying is that I do not appreciate the insinuation by some folks that my comment was racially motivated. It's like I dared to mention blacks as a group and something they might have more in common than other races, and suddenly I'm being called out like a racist a-hole.

JOHN WILKS BOOTH · 12-30-2011, 05:27 PM

go to pornhub dot com and search "blacker the berry" watch that video

i'va biggen · 12-30-2011, 08:02 PM

Daddy is a no no for sure,the one that chills my ardor is Baby .

Naomi4u · 12-30-2011, 08:14 PM

Um.. Yes. I would never call a gent daddy. Nope. NOT my thing.

bigdaddyhm · 12-30-2011, 08:16 PM

Well, about 25 years ago a couple of stripper friends started calling me "bigdaddy" and the handle kinda stuck. I am late 60's, white,big guy, never been a pimp, never wanted to be a pimp and never will be a pimp. With this being my handle, I don't mind being called bigdaddy, altho have been called Santa, Teddybear and a few other endearing names. Hell, as I long as I can hear them call me, it don't matter what they call me......hahaha....Live...Love. ..Laugh