Looking for a relationship with a provider?

[just4funindfw]

Dammit, Lana. I thought I was your main squeeze.

LOL

[macdan]

LOL! Lana...Now why didn't I think to throw up this thread!!! ;-)

[tjs8488]

I think I understand what TGS means. As I would have a relationship with a provider no problem for the way I am wired. But of course it would have to be the right girl as in any relationship the everyday interaction. Sex is Sex to me the rest of life is what makes up the relationship. Oh well.

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by just4funindfw

Dammit, Lana. I thought I was your main squeeze.

LOL

Do I see a ring on my finger? You best get busy, bud!

[Guest082216-1]

I dated a provider for 5 months. We really clicked early and she decided to move our relationship from hobby to personal. Best 5 months of my life but it came to an end. Still not completly sure why but I think she became concerned of where we might be headed and wisly broke it off. Hurt like hell but she did the right thing.

Consider:
She still is going to be a provider. She still has to make a living. So how will you feel when she has to take time from you to have some other guy fuck her and all the rest she may do? Has to breaks a date with you at the last minute because one of her regulars wants to see her? She may get calls and texts at odd times from clients that she has to take. How is she going to feel about working instead of being w you? What if she wants to quit and be with you full time?

This is not an easy thing to do. Far from it. It had better not be about just the free sex or it will be over real fast. There are several providers I see that, when I am with them, I could swear they really do wish they could date me. But, afterwords, when they pick up that donation, I know they might actualy like me and enjoy my company but its their job to make me feel that way.

I think the major reason my relationship worked as well as it did was that SHE wanted it enough to be the one to suggest it.

[just4funindfw]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Do I see a ring on my finger? You best get busy, bud!

Working on it, Lana honey

[legman+]

Bubba,
Your considerations are very similar to my PM to him.

[Guest022315]

Kitten has a nice thread you should read imho http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=341960

[Clouddancer]

Originally Posted by Lana Warren

LOL! Believe it or not, but yes, some of us do!

okay, define normal.

[Lana Warren]

Originally Posted by Clouddancer

okay, define normal.

<---------Normal

[London Rayne]

If it "happens" fine, but I would never advise anyone to go looking for something real here...as if. Why do you want to only date a hooker? Do you plan to financially support her when she misses work to be with YOU? Or, do you want her to support you? Sorry, but this just sounds a bit odd to me. Men seek out women as individuals based on certain traits unique to each one, not because of one general thing.

[Clouddancer]

TGS,

I think many of us have thought about the possibility. Is this a particular provider you've met that you're thinking about?

I have met a few ladies that were a lot of fun and just great to be with. One lady in particular, that I thought about wanting to spend more time with other than BCD, and like you, not for free. It was always incredible to spend time with her. She always enjoyed seeing me. I did bring the subject up once, she was receptive but hesitant. I also noticed this lady's reviewers, for the most part, all seemed to be smitten with her.

In reality, she made me and the other guys feel this way because she was one of the best in this profession. She's pretty much retired now but I have some of my best memories with her. As much as I wanted to think she had the same feelings as I did, I seriously doubt that was the case.

I think the problem with mixing the emotions with the hobby is it would be extremely difficult if not impossible to know and understand where the person's heart really is.

There are a few other ladies I am very fond of. We get along great and its fun to be with them, not only for the sex. I just try to see them as much as I can and do my best to do a little extra for them. (remember b-days, bring special gifts etc.)

When the feelings start to get deeper, its easy to lose perspective that this is a profession for these women and though they may also develop a fondness for a client, he is still a customer.

Just like in any business, some customers are much for pleasurable to do business with.

Good luck with your search

CD

[TinMan]

*sigh*

Despite all the evidence, people never learn....

[Kleinkopf]

Gotta step in with TinMan.

Ain't gonna happen.

[Guest091314]

I am the worst girlfriend in the world but I make the best temporary one!