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youngatheart · 11-03-2011, 10:31 PM

Jen,
Glad you stood your ground and made him leave. Hope you let the other ladies know, especially the ones that vouched for him.
Guys: It's not for us to tell Jen how to run her business. If she felt the hh rate was appropriate then that's her decision. We can give advice but ultimately it's up to her. Having said that, short-changing her was truly a low class move.

JEN OF SYRACUSE · 11-03-2011, 10:32 PM

I did reporrt him to the ladies and if anyone else wants the info let me know...And I will be back in Buffalo soon and look forward to seeing you again

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Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Jen, I am so sorry to hear that. You should report him to the ladies.

Please come back to Buffalo soon.

JEN OF SYRACUSE · 11-03-2011, 10:34 PM

I will see you real soon

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Originally Posted by onlyyoungonce

It's good to see you stood your ground!! Looking forward to seeing you soon

JEN OF SYRACUSE · 11-03-2011, 10:36 PM

I try to be as fair as possible because I know if I paid and didnt ultimately get what I wanted then I would be pissed

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Originally Posted by tsmtogo

jen sorry to hear that happened to you. i agree you should have kept all. you are a sweet heart. from what you said "He didnt finish so I didnt think that would be right taking the whole far..." shows much you are going to take the extra steps to make sure the person you are with has the perfect time. in the end it is still a business. if your 40 into it and he is causing you to be uncomfortable by trying to get you to do some thing you dont want to do after telling him no. then he is causing the session to end and should expect to pay full fee. then to rip you off in the end. person like that should be perma banned from site to be honest. that is why it is a good thing im not a mod. he would be gone. hope rest of your visit to roch goes great.

damien3 · 11-03-2011, 10:53 PM

Jen,

Im sorry for your experience but glad you stood your ground. As for this douches request its dangerous for all of us and I for one appreciate a woman with rules and standards. Thanks for a great time. You made my night and I hope I helped make a shitty night better for you after that d bag left

JEN OF SYRACUSE · 11-03-2011, 11:04 PM

You really did turn my frown upside down

thank you for the great time as well

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Originally Posted by damien3

Jen,

Im sorry for your experience but glad you stood your ground. As for this douches request its dangerous for all of us and I for one appreciate a woman with rules and standards. Thanks for a great time. You made my night and I hope I helped make a shitty night better for you after that d bag left

qixerotic · 11-04-2011, 04:01 AM

Jen, IMHO, he should have been shown the door on the first request. Clearly you are a kind lady trying to make the best of this situation but moronic requests put everyone at risk. I'd leave it to the savvy ladies out there how to advise on handling the situation best. Diplomacy only works amongst the civilized and rational. This guy was neither

Quail · 11-04-2011, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by qixerotic

Jen, IMHO, he should have been shown the door on the first request. Clearly you are a kind lady trying to make the best of this situation but moronic requests put everyone at risk. I'd leave it to the savvy ladies out there how to advise on handling the situation best. Diplomacy only works amongst the civilized and rational. This guy was neither

Qixerotic,

You summed up this situation perfectly. NO MEANS NO.

Jen,
It is too bad that a few members do not understand this .Hopefully by you sharing this issue with the rest of us will help make others see your point more clearly.Thanks

BrookeButtons · 11-04-2011, 06:35 AM

Jen you should have taken the full donation!! I have taken the full donation only for a guy to be rough with me with digits. Some men don't know what they are doing is wrong, others are just used to ladies not standing their ground and will continue this behavior until someone does stand up to them and call them out on their risky behavior. Hell I kicked a kid out once who said he had a cover on, 5 mins into the appointment, I knew it didn't feel right, change positions and BAM no cover. Kicked his ass out too and kept the entire donation (appointment lasted only 10 mins top). Think of it this way... say client X has an STD.. do you really think the $$ or whatever a lady is charging is going to take care of your medical bills when you catch that... nope not even close especially if it's one of the gifts that keeps on giving.

I know where you’re coming from; I used to be too nice too or think it was wrong to take the donation just like you in situations like this. But when the appointment starts, both agree to get down and dirty... they are agreeing to pay for your time. Once activities start to happen and you are enjoying one another they have locked into that price. Even if all that happens is a BBBJ or digits. FS or not, any gent knows this.

Jim Fett · 11-04-2011, 07:52 AM

I ask every provider I am with, about bareback at the first visit. If they say yes, I never return. So Please don't get mad when you hear it the first time. It is part of my rules for finding a regular.

Nataleelovesyou · 11-04-2011, 08:06 AM

Good to hear that you do not put up with malarkey.NO ONE deserves cooties b/c of lack of judgement! Kudos!!!! Keep the bar set high!

NYGman · 11-04-2011, 09:31 AM

Thats an interesting idea. And Jen good for you for standing your ground. That must have been uncomfortable and it sucks that people try to pressure you like that.

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Originally Posted by Jim Boscoe

I ask every provider I am with, about bareback at the first visit. If they say yes, I never return. So Please don't get mad when you hear it the first time. It is part of my rules for finding a regular.

JEN OF SYRACUSE · 11-04-2011, 10:47 AM

Yes it was very uncomfortable.I get alot of people that ask but once you say no they usually drop it but this guy was very persistent and wouldnt let it go

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Originally Posted by NYGman

Thats an interesting idea. And Jen good for you for standing your ground. That must have been uncomfortable and it sucks that people try to pressure you like that.

BOATMAN · 11-04-2011, 11:10 AM

Jen I have never met you but you handled the situation with class, your reviews reflect that you are a classy lady and the way you handled the situation certainly reflects that. You ladys don't need to put up with a situation like that, what the hell was he thinking! Job well done.

djscape10 · 11-04-2011, 01:49 PM

Jen I think you handled it very well right down to reporting it to the other ladies. It's also a good reminder to us gents here it's just one of the many piles of BS that the ladies have to deal with.