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Originally Posted by BrookeButtons
First... The lady did not mention anywhere in her headline that she is "bikini ready", that is in her actual ad.... But like Shayla states her idea of bikini body is much different than the norm.
I guess it's a good thing I don't accept bp girls as references  So I don't have to worry either way if she gives me a vouch or not, I won't be contacting her for one  95% of ladies on backpage don't screen.. but that's another topic |
But you can have good references, and still wish you did not meet latter.
Screening in person or over the phone is becoming a lost art. Most gals here rely on references. That's not a bad thing. But talking to providers at the AC. And reading threads in ISO. Where I was screening as we talked, or guys that reply in threads where talking to a provider over the phone and screening. It seems that they(the gals) are not screening or listening for the warnings. All they hear or see is the $ sign's rolling in there heads.
example:
A few weeks ago a new young lady walks in the AC. As she works the bar I do not see any sign of a boyfriend or pimp. As I'm shelling peanuts I keep watching. She was very easy to look at. She get near me and I call her over. Offer some nuts and start to talk. Then I asked her if I could buy her a drink. As she is eating some peanuts. She looks up at me and my buddy and says. "Are ether one of you two ready to go right now." I say after a drink and some chat to see where and what we are getting into. Says forget it. Turns to the guy at a table behind us and asks "are you ready". He says if he, (pointing at me) is not going I'm not going. She starts to rush out of the bar. But one of the many street players in the bar grabs her. As we start to LOL I say "well she did not pass my screening". And the bar can not make money that way.(and she was going from guy to guy much to fast)( a red flag I had noted but wanted to talk to anyways, she was easy very easy on the eyes)(But I had great time with a few that where not all that good looking. Shelby for one. wonder where she is now or doing)
Way to many are to fast looking for the buck. And not what they may be getting into. So she got a date as one guy there did also. But nether one has any idea of the other. Or getting into.
By the way latter the guy that took her. I asked how it went latter when he came back. He said she was ok but to much in a rush. It happens to him a lot. And all I could think of was
No way of screening is perfect. But no screening at all is a no go for me. The way on this board the providers use is ok. I like in person better. I may not or may not go after the first chat. If I have not after the 2 or 3 time. Most likely will not. On this board ya I'm gun shy. To slow to pull the trigger. Even after many posts or PM's or email and what ever over a phone. Most times I watch a night or two in a bar before I even talk to.
Being gun shy here is just me. I'm better with in person. I have a old review on the old board as prof. She was a good provider, I think I'm ok but the two of us should have never never meet each other. So I had one bad time out of 4 meet. I have had much better odds of having a good time if meet in person first. edit: guessing 1 bad meet out of 30. ouch been at that long time 30 years
Ya she shelled two peanut shells and gave up on me
so I gave up on her
. Come on ya need the time of at least one rum and coke or a beer whatever. Way to many in a rush on both sides, now days for me. no matter how ya met. But here its looks to be to many guys in a rush. Where I'm looking its both.
Most here have never seen Hunter turn a guy down over the phone or in person. Its not pretty. Its funny if your not the one getting it. And pure hell if you are the one getting it. And shes the nice one I see. And back in the day it was heaven to watch all 3 work a bar. Even with the fact each did not like me seeing the other two.
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