So many reasons for it...
Perhaps you aren't really feeling that great but prescheduled and don't want to back out on the provider, especially if this is a first time.
Perhaps the little pill hasn't clicked in
Perhaps the lady, even if you have clicked before, just isn't doing it for you that day
Had an occasion recently where I got to the room, the provider took the donation and then proceeded to "sanitize" the small couch and wanted to do it there. Asked to use the bathroom first and it was through a set of doors that were closed and she said her doubles partner was in there sleeping, and then she told me I could use the one down the hall (like she would really let me back in)...so anxiety over that strike 1, had to urinate strike 2, was it really a doubles partner or a BF or mgmt strike 3. One of my worst encounters anytime and any place...
Somedays it just doesn't happen, not very often, but when it does, it is embarrassing, no matter what the provider says...unless it is a long time relationship and then you just do other things for the hour that are just as satisfying to both.
BTW, anyone looking for generic V or C, Costco has by far the best price...
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