REGETS & MISTAKES...........?

[guest043013-2]

Part of me thinks that actually getting involved in this hobby was my biggest mistake.

I think we do a disservice to a lot of guys & gals on the fence to make them think it is a great thing. Emotionally it can be very difficult, it can destroy relationships, it makes it very difficult to engage in a traditional relationship afterwards.

That said, while I have a few regrets, I have learned a lot about myself, a lot about the ladies, and I find I have a much deeper respect for all people, regardless of sex, sexual preference, race, or their status in life. Despite the negatives, I think for me the positives, the things I have learned, overall make me a better person.

[hobbyprojb]

Originally Posted by tigercat

Part of me thinks that actually getting involved in this hobby was my biggest mistake.

I think we do a disservice to a lot of guys & gals on the fence to make them think it is a great thing. Emotionally it can be very difficult, it can destroy relationships, it makes it very difficult to engage in a traditional relationship afterwards.

That said, while I have a few regrets, I have learned a lot about myself, a lot about the ladies, and I find I have a much deeper respect for all people, regardless of sex, sexual preference, race, or their status in life. Despite the negatives, I think for me the positives, the things I have learned, overall make me a better person.

For me it makes me more critical in getting into a serious relationship. I notice more details about women that I never really never noticed before I started hobbying. It's bittersweet...I'm more picky & judgemental towards women..but now I know exactly what I want from a woman.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by tigercat

Part of me thinks that actually getting involved in this hobby was my biggest mistake.

I think we do a disservice to a lot of guys & gals on the fence to make them think it is a great thing. Emotionally it can be very difficult, it can destroy relationships, it makes it very difficult to engage in a traditional relationship afterwards.

That said, while I have a few regrets, I have learned a lot about myself, a lot about the ladies, and I find I have a much deeper respect for all people, regardless of sex, sexual preference, race, or their status in life. Despite the negatives, I think for me the positives, the things I have learned, overall make me a better person.

FUCKING IS GOOD! THE END!

[amusemeant]

Mistakes are success in progress and regrets are futile bitching about shit you can't change but that should have been success in progress had you utilized it correctly.

[Cpalmson]

I have 2 regrets. First, entering the hobby without any knowledge of activities or protocols for getting the services I desired. Due to my issues with cumming too quickly, I wasted money on providers who were 1 and done even though we never had sex. Essentially, I had about a half a dozen HJs or happy ending massages that ended way too early. Second, actually finally losing my virginity to a provider. This was before GFE had ever been invented. I was just another "John" to her. Nowadays, there are quality providers who might actually be worth losing one's cherry to.

[Still Looking]

Learning how to NOT waste time and be sucessful using BP! Its an art form in its self! I wish I would have figured it out way sooner! I love newbie / first timers! I can all but sniff them out on BP! Some only work a day or so and they are done!