Catching feelings?

[slowmover]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

For 90 mins at a time!

90 minutes is pushing it with me. Most girls can only fake it for 60 minutes with me, that's why I'm a 60 minute man. Keeps my ego intact.
--The Love Doctor

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by Mavic TX

To the johns & ladies. Have you caught feelings for a client? Vice versa for the the johns.
I have a SB that confessed hear feelings for me, just curious if thats a common thing.

Have a lovely day ladies & gents

Yes

We're all human, and we're taking part in a an extremely intimate act that can create a false sense of closeness. And occasionally it's even real. I think we escorts, who see several men a week, do a better job of being passionate during the session and then turning it off afterwards. The men however, the ones who don't hobby often, can be susceptible for getting attached and thinking it's real. Especially if we do our job right! I for one, rarely had to resort to IOP. I really get into it and find it easy to have real, actual passion.

I always took my GFE policy very seriously.

Like right now. I'm living with my client; now my SO, since Sept 2018.

And I did the same thing with another client who became my SO. Divorced his wife and moved me in. We were together from Dec 2012 to March 2014 when I came back to work.

And I have actually, truly care for my regulars who became friends as well as regular clients, and would text just to check on me sometimes and see if I needed anything. I've had some pretty amazing, awesome men. Good men.

The major problem I've found with living with a client who becomes an SO/fiancé is that men tend to fall in love with Ginger Katt; but they wake up with ****y, who is a real person. Ginger Katt is a fantasy; always fixed up,(hair makeup and waxing and picking an outfit and jewelry; takes at least an hour and a half), wears sexy clothes and (uncomfortable) lingerie, and caters to a man's every need. She's always happy and in a good mood and is always feeling sexy and horny.
Whereas ****y is a real woman with real moods and needs. Sleeps in a comfy old T-shirt and wakes up with no makeup and messy hair. And has wants and needs like a real person. And while I still give attention and affection, I expect it too.
Not a lot of clients are up to the challenge of a real woman. And not many want to give up the fantasy woman who who's only need is to please her man and make him happy.

And of course there were always the clients who just wanted to "date" in RL. A few of them may have been truly serious about wanting a real relationship, but it just didn't work for me. I couldn't get over the feeling that they just wanted free sex on date night, and that they were ok with me still working.

I want my man to want me to be exclusive with him,(except when we mutually decide to play with others together; a 3some or 4some!).
Monogamy is hard for me, but I'm really trying to make it work this time. I'm treating my man like a King and taking very good care of him. And he's taking very good care of me too.

[Randall Creed]

I’m in love with every provider I see.

Then that condom starts filling up...and a few minutes after that it’s, I feel like we need to see other people.

It’s not you, it’s me.

Or, it’s perhaps, all you ladies are my girlfriends, and we have very open relationships.

[EastTexasGrown]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

I’m in love with every provider I see.

Then that condom starts filling up...and a few minutes after that it’s, I feel like we need to see other people.

It’s not you, it’s me.

Or, it’s perhaps, all you ladies are my girlfriends, and we have very open relationships.

I love it!! Good answer!!

[Guest122922]

There is nothing wrong with being "exclusively special".
Most of the time it's like that teenage crush we had back in high school.

You CAN'T put someone on a shelf here in this hobby world. Don't ever expect to.

For a large majority of the GALS and GUYS here .... it's a manipulation game to either get more cash .... or get free pussy.

Keep the emotions in check and see it for what it really is.

Being best BED buddies always turns out better than being love struck buddies.

Just sayin....

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

There is nothing wrong with being "exclusively special".
Most of the time it's like that teenage crush we had back in high school.

You CAN'T put someone on a shelf here in this hobby world. Don't ever expect to.

For a large majority of the GALS and GUYS here .... it's a manipulation game to either get more cash .... or get free pussy.

Keep the emotions in check and see it for what it really is.

Being best BED buddies always turns out better than being love struck buddies.

Just sayin....

I'm thinking you're in love with a trick here, Am I assuming correctly? And guys always want free pussy from any woman we find attractive

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

Yes, big time.

[Jessica Temptress]

GingerKatt, I thought of Harlem Nights after I read your post. "Barbara, its Richie..lookit, I ain't ever coming home. Take it easy". Sounds like you got that "sunshine" effect lol
https://youtu.be/hjlE9ayXGX0

[winn dixie]

I swear to God the next person who "falls for some one' in this game. I'am gonna take em' out in the yard and turn the hose on!!! jeez

[BLM69]

You can like a person and think they're cool and have a great time with them, but feelings? As in love as a RW partner? This is a hustle fantasy hobby and lines should never be crossed

[FLWriter]

Agreed to all the above. I've been on this board(s) since it was a wee-little board and one of the most common questions I've seen over the years is, can I/should I/what if I fall in love (date, hang-out, have dinner, etc.) with a provider/hobbyist? Everyone who asks is thinking they are an exception to the rule. Turns out, they aren't.

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

For 90 mins at a time!

Exactly!!!

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

I’m in love with every provider I see.

Then that condom starts filling up...and a few minutes after that it’s, I feel like we need to see other people.

It’s not you, it’s me.

Or, it’s perhaps, all you ladies are my girlfriends, and we have very open relationships.

Greatest post ever!

[grean]

Originally Posted by Mavic TX

To the johns & ladies. Have you caught feelings for a client? Vice versa for the the johns.
I have a SB that confessed hear feelings for me, just curious if thats a common thing.

Have a lovely day ladies & gents

Buy her a new car. She'll really love you then.

[rexdutchman]

Here we go again, ( at best some level of friendship with bennys ) that's all run run fast

[fred_flinstone]

Free pussy is a little overrated. Sometimes you just wanna pay for some strange. I’m sure a lot of guys can relate to that