To Review Or Not Review

[MontanaM]

THANK YOU!!!!I absolutely agree!What burns my a** is when one does leave a review and contradicts himself...especially when a provider has no way of defending or explaining her character in being judged by someone else...

[burkalini]

After you have done a lot of reviews you get to the point where only something different will make you write a review. I always review a bad experience but I only review about a third of my sessions now because most of them look just like the last one.

[MontanaM]

As a Provider,I never looked at it this way and I appreciate the way you put this....It makes perfect sense!!!!!
However,it is NOT fair when a Provider is made to look bad without defending her character.

[Lia88]

I do agree it's a hit or miss w/ reviews. Sometimes it causes a negative if it's a No review. Either way I dont mind a Review being done but I don't bring it up either. I ddnt start worrying about it till recently honestly.

But for the Gents that see you multiple times I think one review is enough.

[greyghost48]

I most often tell her that I will do a favorable review and most say ok and I will proceed. If she doesn’t want one I don’t. I do prefer to write one if it has been several months since once was written. Seems like this is good for both her and other clients as well. It makes me wonder what has happened if there is a considerable lapse in reviews.

[SneakyCancer]

I write a review if that's in the terms and conditions.
I write review if I saw something worthy in SC.
I write review if lady ask me to. I agree that a few don't want to see read reviews of older thicker girls likewise many of us don't want to open the can to have a lady bashed because of what we might like. Now if you're seeing someone over and over....obviously the review angle is skewed.

Good time, first time, bad time, misleading service, outdated pics, pimp in closet, scary area, due/threesome, .....and many more....it's review time.

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

I think reviews are disrespectful. Kiss and tell is not right, it is degrading to a lady. I wrote one due to an agreement I made. I get that it is good advertisement but these are very personal acts and really do not need to be public knowledge, just my two cents.

List your menu, your rates and I have no need for reviews. Actually prefer lady to have few or even zero when I see her. I cannot see ROS any way. Too degrading to a woman to me.

I get what you're saying but there's no getting around the fact that positive reviews help these ladies. Especially if they're higher priced. I'd be hard pressed to spend 3 bills on a lady if I have no reviews to go by.

[gentlemantoo]

Cowboy, I realize as I stated reviews are good advertisement for them. Also if their desire for a review and being disrespected publically all for the dollar, well, that says a lot itself right there. Plenty of UTR women. I have had a few providers ask me to review afterwards, never see her again. Money is important but so are non financial aspects to one's self.

Reviews seem to be mostly bragging by a dude, and seems untrue to me. No woman has six orgasms in an hour, these ladies are not hungry for your cum, they have more sex and cum than usual woman. Menu items and prices and when I see her the experience will be different than described in a review. Menu items and prices seem to he only consistency.

I see no reason to disrespect her and the one woman I wrote a review for I have never seen again. I liked her and could have been a regular but the review thing was too much for me.

I love women, the whole woman, not just their outer beauty. And if I am to stay true to that I have to respect them as well. A lady typically does not want her sexual activity revealed publically. A desperate woman seeking more cash does but she has to sacrifice something of herself to do it. I know I complicate it, lol.

[SxySpanishMia]

Reviews have been a great help to me with the type of clients I wish to visit with and especially because I have not advertised in many years.

Sometimes I'm asked if I want one written, other times I don't care to have one since most are repeat visitors.

Reviews will not always capture the amazing time that was had. If the review doesn't say "BBBJ and CIM" and the gentleman pays over $300, they get backlash as if they broke hobby law. Very childish and I do agree some men will use reviews just to suck up to others and impress each other. It's quite entertaining, but true men do not need bragging and do not need to be told how to spend their money.

Some gentleman rather just get an "Ok" on P411 and not write a review.

Overall, reviews are helpful at times, but I honestly rather keep things between my visitor and I.

[Lia88]

Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

Cowboy, I realize as I stated reviews are good advertisement for them. Also if their desire for a review and being disrespected publically all for the dollar, well, that says a lot itself right there. Plenty of UTR women. I have had a few providers ask me to review afterwards, never see her again. Money is important but so are non financial aspects to one's self.

Reviews seem to be mostly bragging by a dude, and seems untrue to me. No woman has six orgasms in an hour, these ladies are not hungry for your cum, they have more sex and cum than usual woman. Menu items and prices and when I see her the experience will be different than described in a review. Menu items and prices seem to he only consistency.

I see no reason to disrespect her and the one woman I wrote a review for I have never seen again. I liked her and could have been a regular but the review thing was too much for me.

I love women, the whole woman, not just their outer beauty. And if I am to stay true to that I have to respect them as well. A lady typically does not want her sexual activity revealed publically. A desperate woman seeking more cash does but she has to sacrifice something of herself to do it. I know I complicate it, lol.

I actually partially agree with you. When I First joined here and seen the review process. I actually was Quite turned off. Lol. I was like Gosh they're rating us like Cattle. Like LiveStock on a Farm. It was actually kind of Disgusting at first. I'm not going to Lie. I will be completely Honest lol...

BUT as I observed and watched a little more. I grew more understanding to the Whole processs I understood more and Actually Seen How it Benefits us. Because when it's all said and done.

Yes this board can be Entertaining.
But this is Still a Business for some.

And Although their are a Few braggers it's all in Fun as long as it's not Disrespectful I don't see the issue in Guys having a Little fun with a Experience they've Had. Ya know. But that's just my opinion.

But I do Get where your Coming from. Trust me I do

[KandiiCakesXXX]

From my experience it’s just the Gentleman. All the above reasons are valid. I’ve heard and experienced I feel all the “types”. It’s comes down to imho if he feels like writting one. It actually takes a lot of work writting a detailed review I assume. I’ve had a client send me my review he was writting on me (to approve of disclosure on activities) before he posted and it was like 10 paragraphs. I commend my serious review writers.

[finman56]

When I 1st started hobbying I reviewed every lady every time. With plenty of info in ROS. Been fortunate enough and only had a couple YMMV sessions. Both gave both an yes, because just a lack of chemistry. I generally ask if it is ok to review, all have said yes it was.

Now I only review a person I have never seen before or a favorite who I haven't reviewed in a while, plus I just don't hobby much lately. I now try to keep ROS informative with out being graphic. Mostly because our time is between us.

A lot of good info here.

[gentlemantoo]

How many guys just in this thread alone responded with "I write a review if she says it is okay?" What lady will say it is not okay if going to be a bad review? So, only good reviews, which means his credibility and review is worthless, menu items and price all anyone gets from that and she can put that on her showcase.

Restaurants, hotels, and other services are rated but no one asks permission or allows Holiday Inn to improve their post. Those reviews have more meaning, plus reviews are on a 5 star system, not just yes or no. I would stay at a three star hotel for the right price and I would see a three star provider for the right price.

Only yes reviews and only good reviews means the reviews are worthless. Only purpose I can see if bragging for men and some wimpy men trying to get provider to like her. Hey honey, I will do you a favor and write free advertisement for you. All in hopes she will give him just a little more attention make her like him just a little more or at all, lol.

Problem with writing a review because she is special to you is:
1) A lot of providers will only like you as a client, I mean you pay women for sex, not that appealing to a woman.

2) You are acting wimpy and unmanly when wimpering over to write a good review for attention. She usually knows this and utilizes the power of her pussy to get you to advertise for free. Again not very appealing to a woman in most cases. Be a man, give honest review, do not ask for permission or PM her for that extra attention "hey I wrote you a review." Lmao! She will see it, be a man, more attractive to women.

3) If you want her to like you, giving her free advertisement to have sex with men that are not you seems kind of unproductive in your quest to be more of a lover to her, lol. I like you so here honey go fuck three other men I helped you get. Can you not see the paradox in this?

4) if she promotes or agrees to her sexual activities being plastered all over internet, is this who you want to bring home to Mom? And what if Dad meets your new friend and he has fucked her or your brother, would she even tell you or maybe an adult son, lol. Great family and friends BBQ, lol.

5) She typically wants cash, only reason to want reviews. No self respecting person wants their private crap all over internet and if the man does, how do you think a woman feels about a man that enjoys boasting about her private activities, not too good usually.

6) if writing as to help your Bros, that is just bullshit, lol. So you have more loyalty and friendship with a bunch of guys you never met, never seen, never hang out with, only know from posting on some little hooker board than the woman you just fucked?? You got real big problems, dude. What a loser is all I can say.

The list can on and on. Bottom line is the reviews on this website are worthless. After I wrote my one review, I was told as I had PA that I would continue to write to get access to what? ROS which is all bullshit, lol. Get access to men's lounge and see grown men nitch and whine like pussies? Not for me. I wrote one due to an agreement, I regret it. I do not like being disrespectful to a woman.

Hooker reviews are useless.

[1blackman1]

Reviews should be done if they add information that may help a guy determine whether he might want to see the lady. Otherwise it’s of no real use. The whole “I check with the gal first” or I let her see the review means I can’t and won’t really trust that review because it’s counter to the whole reason reviews should be done.

Add information. If there’s nothing to add, stay quiet.

[dj8rocks]

I seldom ever write reviews, when I do, it is usually because it is either a new provider or one that has not had a review written in a good while. My last 5-6 reviews were because I was asked to write one by the provider, and no, I will not ask for permission to write one before I write it, nor will I submit it to her for approval before I write it. I usually give the basic facts without trying to associate it with a porno blog post. If I pull up a review on someone I'm interested in, if it's more than a couple of paragraphs, I don't bother to read it. I'm basically looking for consistency in the activities.