Omaha Is Most Frustrating Hobby City

[Lolove]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I'd just like to chime in here you contacted me and gave me different boards that you are on one of the boards which is shut down I tried to find you on the other board and asked you for you to give me the references and you never did then you told me you were going to see a well-established provider and that she had already screened you and everything was okay so I messaged her and she acted like she didn't even know who I was talking about. Then you messaged me and explained explicit details about what you wanted to happen and you wanted me to come to your hotel late at night. Then I asked you what happened to the reference that you were supposed to get from the wall established provider and he told me that she got sick eating some oysters and you're going to have an appointment the next day so I waited then you told me you saw a local girl me thinking that you saw the well-established provider that you told me you're going to see you came out with a girl that has been known to be established with LE numerous times and has been caught numerous times. I asked you what happened to the other girl you were supposed to see and you told me she ghosted you this girl that you said that you were going to see has a very very well reputation and I have not really heard of her doing that so I figured there's a reason behind that. Then you gave me a girl as a reference who hasn't been active for 2 years almost 3 years. And told me that she's told you that I could contact her.

I really hope that I'm not one that you're saying is ghosted you because I never once set up an appointment with you because I could not get you verified and screened there was too many red flags. And I don't know about anybody else but I don't need that many red flags for me to decide that I just don't feel comfortable.

Luckily I saved all of our messages so if anybody has any questions they can p.m. me or message me and I can definitely back my side of the story up. Not only was a very respectful I let you know that you should probably look into the local girls who are newbie-friendly that I was not comfortable seeing you. No amount of money is that important to me when my gut is telling me something's not right regardless if you're a great guy and everything you were not giving me the proper information I needed to feel comfortable

Ditto , I think he tried to get every girl scheduled that is on the boards . Unfortunately I couldn’t work around his schedule since he had atleast 2 girls visitinf him back to back? Also sent screenshots of his messages between a cpl girls he talked to. Stay safe.

Bliss

[Unique_Carpenter]

What I'm hearing guy(s) say is: Whine

I pre-book. More than a few days ahead and with known reliable gals. And that includes a couple Nebraska gals.

In my most recent decade of pro dating, only one cancel (nice amount of notice), perhaps a handful of minor schedule changes, and zero ncns. Respect can easily go both ways.
Maybe I'm not doing it correctly.

[farmstud60]

I think I've only had one NCNS experience, and they did get back a day or two later and apologized. Also made it up on the next visit. Been long enough I don't remember the details now. I've had a few that got sick or had something come up the day of, but they always called or texted to let me know as soon as possible. I've seen most of them after this, and things went well.

I've had good luck with most of the Omaha ladies or ladies traveling to Omaha, generally I schedule a day or two ahead, and used P411 a lot. I let my P411 account lapse as I've slowed down and still have a few I see on a semi-regular basis that I don't need to get screened.

I think Shayla posting a detailed message of a guy that whether he knew it or not was sending all kinds of red flags. Just personal safety, and feeling a guy won't respect her boundaries is enough for most providers to turn guys down. Mutual respect for time and boundaries goes a long way in this hobby.

[Thermodynamic]

Can't say I don't feel his pain. Happened to me last year, but in the end if they ncns they are the ones missing out, at least it seemed you had shayla, attempt to contact you and schedule. (Wouldn't have missed out on that chance btw.)

[DallasRain]

I only cancel my tour if theres not requests to visit

[Lolove]

I tried to schedule as well , times didn’t work hope you had fun & got to see a few . Probably your timing , this weekend has a lot of us on high alert .

[Luxie]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I'd just like to chime in here you contacted me and gave me different boards that you are on one of the boards which is shut down I tried to find you on the other board and asked you for you to give me the references and you never did then you told me you were going to see a well-established provider and that she had already screened you and everything was okay so I messaged her and she acted like she didn't even know who I was talking about. Then you messaged me and explained explicit details about what you wanted to happen and you wanted me to come to your hotel late at night. Then I asked you what happened to the reference that you were supposed to get from the wall established provider and he told me that she got sick eating some oysters and you're going to have an appointment the next day so I waited then you told me you saw a local girl me thinking that you saw the well-established provider that you told me you're going to see you came out with a girl that has been known to be established with LE numerous times and has been caught numerous times. I asked you what happened to the other girl you were supposed to see and you told me she ghosted you this girl that you said that you were going to see has a very very well reputation and I have not really heard of her doing that so I figured there's a reason behind that. Then you gave me a girl as a reference who hasn't been active for 2 years almost 3 years. And told me that she's told you that I could contact her.

I really hope that I'm not one that you're saying is ghosted you because I never once set up an appointment with you because I could not get you verified and screened there was too many red flags. And I don't know about anybody else but I don't need that many red flags for me to decide that I just don't feel comfortable.

Luckily I saved all of our messages so if anybody has any questions they can p.m. me or message me and I can definitely back my side of the story up. Not only was a very respectful I let you know that you should probably look into the local girls who are newbie-friendly that I was not comfortable seeing you. No amount of money is that important to me when my gut is telling me something's not right regardless if you're a great guy and everything you were not giving me the proper information I needed to feel comfortable

Looks like you're right. He emailed me about getting together last week. He wanted a late night appointment on either Wednesday, Thursday or Friday. I told him that since I live in Lincoln I would need ample notice to drive to Omaha, especially with it being so late. Never heard back on what time would work so he better not be referring to me either.

I have saved my email correspondences if anyone is interested.

[caferacer]

Sometimes we cause our own frustrations.

[JennaKae]

Originally Posted by Lolove

Ditto , I think he tried to get every girl scheduled that is on the boards . Unfortunately I couldn’t work around his schedule since he had atleast 2 girls visitinf him back to back? Also sent screenshots of his messages between a cpl girls he talked to. Stay safe.

Bliss

As soon as someone sends me screenshots of a conversation with another provider, I explain that I am no longer interested in meeting. Your conversation with another provider is none of my business and I clearly cannot trust you to be discreet and keep our communications private.

[shayla84]

Yes he sent me screen shots of him and a very well known provider here also which didn't sit well with me

[shayla84]

I guess I really don't understand why he would try to visit with so many providers and the same days also to me that says trouble and that they were trying to get anybody and everybody

[farmstud60]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I guess I really don't understand why he would try to visit with so many providers and the same days also to me that says trouble and that they were trying to get anybody and everybody

For some, traveling for work gives them an easier time to schedule fun without having to worry about someone finding out about it in their local area. So it may be a little bit like a kid in a candy store.

I don't think it is uncommon for guys to try and see more than one provider in a day, but like most things, they forget the part of the fantasy that a good provider likes to feel like they are their first choice. So even though providers know they are not the only one a guy sees, they just don't like the info thrown at them either.

[thejerseyguy04x]

I’m just going to say this and then that’s all I’ve got. The reality is that there’s about a 10% change I’m ever back in Omaha anyway, so my opinions are irrelevant. Things are just very different where I’m from and where you all are from. It is what it is.

In regards to screenshots, I was asked by 2 providers for them as verification tools. Being that I was asked by more than one, I made an assumption that this was commonplace in Omaha, that the group of providers were friendly and knew eachother, and so on. My mistake. No harm intended.

And yes, I did attempt to meet with quite a few providers. I don’t shy away from that. When I’m away, it’s time to play, no diffeeent than scheduling doubles or long sessions. Wanted to sample the local cuisine. No harm intended.

The frustration came from me being whitelisted on another reputable site that is used nationally, but maybe not as much in your neck of the woods. I know who I am, and I felt I had enough out there that providers could tell that, and I’ve had phenomenal experiences in other areas of the country with the same verifications with no issues.

Regarding LE in your area, how am I supposed to know that? I was there for 3 days. Didn’t know of any high alerts or why there would be high alerts.

Anyway, I wish everyone out there the absolute best. I did have a great experience with Lexi Layne my last night there. Maybe we will cross paths again sometime. Everyone stay safe.

[Ellieinkc]

Sorry that happened. I LOVE omaha and will be there next week.