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mellobugler · 10-28-2017, 10:35 AM

Stay the fuck quiet unless you want to explain why you were looking on backpage. Why are you even asking this? Never, NEVER mention it to anyone in her family.

noober · 10-28-2017, 12:08 PM

Well.. that's funny I had a friend who's gf was on BP. I've known him since grade school so I straight up told his ass bc he's like a brother to me. He still stayed with her and she deleted her account after denying that it wasn't her lol and the question came why were u on back page. I said to find hookers what else is back page for? Haha

And for those that wanted to know what happened between them she cheated on him and left him maybe 4 months later.

Why did i get involved??? Bc I consider him family. I wouldn't get involved in anyone's business unless it's my own family.

Now for u since it's ur gf, who cares I bet she might even know but is in denial.

And can u post the link she is obviously in need of help.

So let us eccie guys help haha

suiram77 · 10-28-2017, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by xhardcorex

Or do I even tell her? Yeah,it's a long story,she's being "managed" by her unemployed homeless ex-con boyfriend. Should I even tell her or should I just keep my mouth shut? Advice anyone?

Fuck her ass first, then tell her you saw her sister on BP while you was looking for a couples massage for you two. Lol

BLM69 · 10-28-2017, 12:28 PM

Ask yourself if you're in it for the long haul with your GF, if the answer is yes, her sister is family and you must look out for her

Asking a bunch of hookers and tricks what you should do, will always get a stupid response such as "go fuck her" or "don't say anything"

hotindallas · 10-28-2017, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sir Axl

Easy. Don't say anything. If you mention or hint anything, gf will be wondering how you knew. She will have two ruined relationships. She will be pissed her bf browsed back pages and she will be pissed her sister is a provider.

So don't say anything. If things blow up for the sister and your gf is super upset. You will be there to comfort her and support her through a difficult time rather than another broken relationship where her bf is a cheating asshole.

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Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

1) Why would you?
2) Does it make anyone's life better?

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Originally Posted by TinMan

Unless she's in danger, it's none of your business.

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Originally Posted by Analeese

To answer your question...dont say anything...mind your own business or you'll be the idiot who has to answer why you're even on bp in the first place.

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Originally Posted by mellobugler

Stay the fuck quiet unless you want to explain why you were looking on backpage. Why are you even asking this? Never, NEVER mention it to anyone in her family.

Listen to the above advice, unless you want your own secrets to come out...Nobody wins in these situations.

Billogoods · 10-28-2017, 01:26 PM

If she's on BP, she may be here and thinking, "Oh, shit. Sis's BF knows about me....[chuckle]...and now I know about him!"

Guest070818-1 · 10-28-2017, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by xhardcorex

Or do I even tell her? Yeah,it's a long story,she's being "managed" by her unemployed homeless ex-con boyfriend. Should I even tell her or should I just keep my mouth shut? Advice anyone?

Be ready to explain to your girlfriend why you're looking on Backpage.

noober · 10-28-2017, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Be ready to explain to your girlfriend why you're looking on Backpage.

Simple just have a buddy of urs meet them and then just blame everything on him. Say he remembers seeing her from somewhere and boom ur saved from looking at back page. But ofc u got to have a buddy willing to do that.

Analeese · 10-28-2017, 02:58 PM

A woman is not stupid enough to believe it was your buddy on bp. That's complete bullshit....and you've gotta be crazy if you think your wife is falling that. She might not say something right then...but now she will be on to you and watching your behavior

filbone · 10-28-2017, 04:28 PM

Keep checking backpage because she's probably trying to recruit your girlfriend.

micktoz · 10-28-2017, 04:29 PM

So many freaking high school drama queens here. Leave her alone it's none of your business. If she didn't tell you, it's none of your business. If it was your business, she would tell you.
All the rest of the answers are from emotional children.

mdub · 10-28-2017, 05:00 PM

Is the sister under the age of 18? If so than anonymously report the ad to the feds. If she is over 18 but you have serious evidence that she is being coerced than report anonymously to local police.

Skankhunt915 · 10-28-2017, 07:28 PM

Tell us first we know how to thoroughly investigate

noober · 10-28-2017, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Analeese

A woman is not stupid enough to believe it was your buddy on bp. That's complete bullshit....and you've gotta be crazy if you think your wife is falling that. She might not say something right then...but now she will be on to you and watching your behavior

Idunno about all that I have some single buddy's and openly go to strip clubs and get girls off of BP. He always tells us about it. He's kinda the reason I'm in the hobby actually haha.

Analeese · 10-28-2017, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by noober

Idunno about all that I have some single buddy's and openly go to strip clubs and get girls off of BP. He always tells us about it. He's kinda the reason I'm in the hobby actually haha.

Well I stand corrected.....