Congratulations -- you are an uninhibited divinity of doin' it, and the man in your life is oh-so-lucky to have you! You're a tigress who loves to bust out daring lingerie, erotic accoutrements, and inventive suggestions. You're more than likely to be the one to make the first move. And when the time comes for satisfaction, you know what to do and how to get there, with or without male assistance.So what do you do with your wealth of knowledge? Share it -- with your girlfriends. "So many women fall into the mistaken notion that long-term love means a death of sexy adventure," say Emma Jane Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey, also known as Em & Lo, the coauthors of Nerve's Guide to Sex Etiquette for Ladies and Gentlemen (Plume, February 2004). "If you let your friends know how great things are going for you (without being boastful or obnoxious about it, of course), they just might be inspired to stoke their own home fires."There's another tack you might want to take: seeing if your guy might want to be the aggressor once in a while. Variety is the spice of life, you know. "If you give him space to take the lead," Em & Lo say, "you never know. He might come up with something you actually haven't thought of."
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