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Originally Posted by petiteassman
i always admire your brutal honesty it is refreshing. that being said you on occasion make note that sex is not that important to you and without commitment not important it makes it seem like what your doing is kinda a pain in the ass something you just as soon not do. other women on here seem to have the attitude hey i love this might as well get paid for it. it would seem in choosing one might lean towards someone who might actually or at leat pretend to enjoy the activities. just a thought.
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You should not read so much into what I say lol. "Sex" is enjoyable as I said, but don't be naive to think that just because it feels good that someone can't have self control. Any woman getting you to believe that she adores
every client she sees regardless of how disgusting he might be, is doing exactly what it takes to get business lol.
If I did not enjoy this, I wouldn't do it love. I also would not get all in a tissy every time some lame brain said he wanted gfe yet just laid there like a dead fish for me to service him. If I actually "want" a guy to kiss me and go down on me, that should be your first clue that I am all about the entire experience. You can just ask one of the hundreds of guys who have reviewed me. Just because I don't need constant approval by saying what I think the crowd wants to hear, does not mean I don't enjoy what I do.
It simply means I don't have to go that far to get business. This may come as a shock, but sex is not my LIFE! I don't think about it non-stop and live for nothing but that. I have far more significant things to obsess over than busting a nut, and I don't see anything wrong with having a healthy balance...that's why I don't get burned out every other month.
So who needs business and who chooses to be here? If I don't like a guy, I won't waste me time seeing him again...that's the point. It only becomes " a pain in the azz" when you have to screw just anyone and everyone because you have a bill to pay. I can assure you, that's not me.
The point is that sex on demand is a freaking fantasy. No one is horny and ready 24/7 and anyone buying into that notion needs a reality check. It's simply not possible. People get sick, tired, stressed, etc. and all these factors contribute to how they feel about having sex. Even a broken heart can alter your sex drive, so it's ludicrous to think that providers who "talk a good game" are sex machines who have no other lives. If someone chooses not to see me because of what is said on a SHMB, I can assure you no love would be lost as I doubt someone that sensitive and unrealistic would get along with me anyway.
Hmmmm
Awwwww! If you asked me to marry you Ed, I'd say yes Yes YES YESSSS!!!
). How's that for honesty, love? 