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MastorBlastHer · 07-28-2016, 12:41 PM

I definitely understand the need for discretion, but I prefer to see a face and my guess is that most guys do as well. We all like to "see what we are getting" so to speak. Previous reviews definitely help in some part of the decisions making, but the photography is what's really going to make a difference. I'd say get a great photographer that is experienced in making provocative pics that don't include your face. It can take your "game" to a different level.

Guest092216 · 07-28-2016, 12:45 PM

I would protect your kids privacy. It's not just them, it's their friends, their friends parents, their teachers and coaches. Anyone who has seen you in that world and might also come here will associate you with your kids. Why take that chance?

Some women are totally okay with it and I respect that. It sounds like your concerned about your family though so that should take priority over how many appointments you may or may not miss out on. Take Caroline's suggestions in her last paragraph if you decide to not show your face.

I'm very established and have stopped posting any pics of myself. Some people have said that's crazy but it's my choice. I wouldn't suggest it if this is your full time gig though. It's a big risk.

Pica Flor · 07-28-2016, 12:48 PM

No, if you have a good reputation, good IOP, good reviews, and reasonable rates, you could easily get away to advertising without any pics at all.

BIGSEXY7852 · 07-28-2016, 12:48 PM

I can understand why full face pictures are not shown. Really not much of a problem to me. However, it would be nice to see a date stamp on them. Many don't appear to be current. Sure would reduce the disappointment factor....ijs

looking2havefun · 07-28-2016, 01:45 PM

I think face pictures are VERY important and I prefer not to see a lady without a face picture.
With that said I also understand a ladies need to hide her face due to real life issues.
I was able to reach a compromise with a few ladies that I was interested in seeing based on body pictures, age, reviews etc..
Once she had screened me through here or P411 and decided she would be interested in meeting she sent me face pictures through private email with the promise not to share them with anyone without permission.

River Song · 07-28-2016, 02:02 PM

I have never posted on BP. I haven't even looked in to how to post there. That is very not cool if someone is using my pics.

Was it my name?

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River, I was cruising BP one day and saw your ad, and your face picture immediately got me searching for more information. If you just had a body shot, I would've just moved on. Since you've already posted your facial picture, to be honest, it's really too late to change your mind.

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Guest082824 · 07-28-2016, 02:07 PM

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Does a face pic really matter?

For some of us yes, they absolutely DO matter...

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Would a blurred face change your decision to visit with me or any other provider?

Yes

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Would you be willing to visit a provider's website to view private pics if given an access code?

Yes

tbone77494 · 07-28-2016, 03:43 PM

I'm mostly looking at the top of your head and then your tramp stamp. I mean it's great if your face is like a model but I respect the fact you need discretion.

DEAR_JOHN · 07-28-2016, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by River Song

I have never posted on BP. I haven't even looked in to how to post there. That is very not cool if someone is using my pics.

Was it my name?

Please accept my apology. I had confused your picture with another lady on BP. The mistake was mine.

Perhaps you posted here and I checked out your showcase, saw the picture of your face and probably said, "damn, she's pretty hot."

Victoria of Houston · 07-28-2016, 06:39 PM

I've never shown my face once in 8 years and I have never had issues with this. I am happy with the amount of attention I get and Houston has always treated me well.

I've also very rarely been asked to send a face pic in private. I feel if you have a good reputation here (through co-ed posting, etc) as well as a steady stream of positive reviews, your service and rep will speak for themselves and gents will happily come to see you without seeing "the whole package" beforehand.

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Originally Posted by Pica Flor

No, if you have a good reputation, good IOP, good reviews, and reasonable rates, you could easily get away to advertising without any pics at all.

As said, couldn't agree more.

pyramider · 07-28-2016, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by River Song

I have been around just a little less than a year and I have always showed my face. I believe my eyes, glasses, teeth, and freckles are some of my selling points. But I do have children near HS and JH age and I want to protect them. So I am considering removing or blurring my face going forward. I know what is out there is around forever. I just want to limit my identity exposure.

Would a blurred face change your decision to visit with me or any other provider?

Would you be willing to visit a provider's website to view private pics if given an access code?

Thank you all in advance for your respectful and on topic comments.

If you have others in Real Life, blur the face and any identifying tats. Private photos should remain private. Discretion is important. Children should not have to deal with what adults do to pay for their comfort.

Blurring the face or not blurring the face ... all could be solved if you posted taint photos.

Guest020719 · 07-28-2016, 09:37 PM

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If you have others in Real Life, blur the face and any identifying tats. Private photos should remain private. Discretion is important. Children should not have to deal with what kadults do to pay for their comfort.

This is the sanest thing I have ever seen this person write. River, you would be wise to take this to the internet. Perhaps the title of the thread could be, "Does my family really matter?" Always protect the innocent.

...and here comes the boom

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Blurring the face or not blurring the face ... all could be solved if you posted taint photos.

Wakeup · 07-28-2016, 09:55 PM

If you're not completely comfortable with your kids, family and friends knowing what you do...you should never have started doing it in the first place...

rduke4923 · 07-28-2016, 10:27 PM

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If you're not completely comfortable with your kids, family and friends knowing what you do...you should never have started doing it in the first place...

Said the one who cries about outing every damn day.

Sweet Tebow that one is still flying.....

R Duke

5T3V3 · 07-28-2016, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by River Song

Would a blurred face change your decision to visit with me or any other provider?

Would you be willing to visit a provider's website to view private pics if given an access code?

Thank you all in advance for your respectful and on topic comments.

Yes - everyone is different but teeth and looks are important to me. And It is not how beautiful you are either I like cute! Someone that is an exotic beauty does not appeal to me. Teeth I hate the letterman gap - it bothers me don't know why and I don't have to know I just don't like it, so yes I want to see your smile and won't waste my time if I can't tell or can't easily find out.

No, too much work for me.

Honestly, I will not book a provider that is not as open and honest as she expects me to be. We all have something to hide here and trust is why people are here and not on Backpage IMHO