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Originally Posted by Angelina Adams
It began some months ago when a repeat client came to visit me and had told me that at one of the luncheons in a particular city of Texas (the city begins with an "A"), one man described me as fat and ugly and nothing above a "2" on a scale of 1-10. He went on to say that other reputable hobbyists had agreed with his assessment and that I looked nothing like my YouTube videos albeit my videos were uploaded, time-stamped with the newspaper date within days of them claiming they saw me! This intel came from a trusted hobbyist who told me to be careful and to stay away from "this group of men under these several handles who were present/attended the luncheon and smeared me and my image" He personally thought they were crazy out of their minds because he considers me a beautiful woman all around, but when I heard that comment about me from his mouth, I looked at my client and smile and said, "I am not worried....it doesn't bother me one bit" and winked at him. Deep down inside, it killed me!
Angelina
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Angelina........
From what I had heard about you, I would have thought you above buying into something like this......
I run the Austin Luncheons......
Or at least I have for the last couple of years.....
I cannot attest to what is said between other hobbyists that talk amongst themselves for every minute of the events...... But I do make the rounds, visit every table and tend to get involved in a lot of the conversations.
Angelina..... I have never heard anyone utter a negative word about you.
I've been approached on 2 separate occaisions and asked if you could be cleared for an invite as the Luncheons are not open to unescorted providers, and each time the gentleman that asked was told he could invite you.
There are those in the Austin community that disparage myself as well as the Lunch group. We have our "haters".
But the Lunch group has grown phenomenally and represents the largest male and female social group in the Austin market. Many independent Providers have come to the luncheons and from most of them I hear that many of the guys they meet at the Luncheons are the same as those they meet at the occasional evening socials put on by a different gentleman.
What you do NOT see are a lot of the ladies that frequent those socials. We tend to pick and choose whose company we want. It's a "Guy Thing".
There are a lot of people that do not care for me because of my opinions which I am not afraid to share and the fact that I write from a male perspective.
But there is nobody that knows me that over the last 10 years can state that anything inaccurate or dishonest has ever come out of my mouth.
What I Believe you have experienced....
What I would bet MONEY on as having actually happened.......
Is that one of a few pathetic wusses told you what he did to ingratiate himself to you and that it did not actually happen.
If you want to PM me I could probably name 5 Austin Members and one of them would be your "trusted hobbyists"...... I've heard of one particular member that has told other ladies the same
"to be careful and to stay away from this group of men."
You've been manipulated by a guy so he could hold you and "Poor Baby" you and tell you how much he loves and cares about you darling....You've been played..... and hurt.... by someone pretending to care about you.
Considering how much you have shared about your other issues it is understandable that you bought into his bullshit because it feeds yourmoverly critical assessment of yourself.....
Do Local Independent Providers get talked about at the Gentleman's Club Luncheons? Yes. Of Course...... But if there were discussions of older, overweight providers there are a dozen or so that pop to mind that do get dissed..... You are not one of them....
You got played girl.
There are many threads about the luncheons......
Many ladies have accepted invitations and attended......
Reach out to ANY lady that has attended and MET this "group" and ask what they think.
EVERY lady I have spoken too has had a great time, been treated with the utmost respect, and many have been extended repeat invitations.
ALMOST Every lady has been surprised as well at how different they found me in person as compared to the way I post.
But... as I said..... I have my haters and my friends as well get crap....
The Austin Board has changed from being the private playground of a small group of manipulative women and their consorts to being an information rich environment open to all.
Where some BLAME me for running off some people..... others give me credit for helping form the new community.
COMMUNITY is a key word here Angelina..... AUSTIN ECCIE is nothing like Austin ASPD.....
People are having fun..... getting together and partying in a variety of small events with many larger ones pulling more and more people together.....
Our "group" grew to 80+ people that took on a NonProfit Agency raising over $4000 for 40 kids and their families for Christmas....None of that would have been possible without the support of many of your sister providers that stepped up to be a part of it......
Our "Luncheons" have grown to 80+ people and the next Dinner Party has 60RSVPs in the first day of being announced.....I expect it to be larger and better attended than the Christmas Party we did..
From a couple of guys who I know, that know you...... I've heard some pretty good things about you and that your a fairly smart young lady...it certainly shows in your marketing......
Take a step back and take another look at it.....
Speak to a few of the ladies that ACTUALLY attend..... I think you will find some pretty reputable names in the list, especially of repeats.....
You've been played darlin and your feelings manipulated but as I said, I would bet money on it being the guy that told you this than it being anyone at the luncheons.....
There are a few guys around that used TO BE SOMEONE on ASPD that are just a part of the WHINERS now on ECCIE in Austin......Give me a shout and I bet I can name the guy in less than 5 tries....
I empathize greatly for your pain and wish you the best in your recovery.
Brave Girl
