Let's tackle this from a different angle, OP.
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Why do you clients say you read my reviews , then come in and ask for things I don't offer?
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Are you saying that you only offer whatever has been in a review? What if the client doesn't put every-minor-subtle-detail? Is there no possibility that someone could ask you to do something with them you haven't specifically outlined that you'd be even remotely interested in trying? Would you rather it be assumed if not specifically outlined and performed rather than asked to see if you're into it?
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Then, yall act like assholes when I turn it down.
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How did you turn it down? Did you consider that maybe you were being insensitive to what they were asking when you replied, made them feel bad, etc?
Ex: If we're going at it k9, and I slip out and say it hits your poopshoot. I say "Oops, sorry! Got a little too excited... unless you're into that
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?" Then you reply with "No! That's fucking nasty and can't believe you'd even think about that. Gross!" Overreaction can occur from both parties, and lead to rudeness on either end - intentional or not.
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Why don't yall put what yall did wrong? Or what caused me to be distant on our date?
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Are you politely talking with the client about what they're doing wrong and causing you to be distant? How do we know what we do wrong if you don't tell us? That should go without saying that you can tell us in different ways - some being better than others. Is it going unmentioned until they review you and you see what they put in their review?
Which leads me too:
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And also, from my last review he said I up charged .
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Where are you seeing that he said you up charged?