Screening/Giving up info

[The Drummer]

Everyone makes valid points here. Both parties do have legitimate concerns.

And, yes, fake personas must certainly exist on the Board.

So, I guess for the ladies; the two most important elements of ECCIE are Reviews and Private Messaging -- especially since some "clients" are reluctant to tender personal information.

As in business and our social lives, networking stands out as the best way to communicate, glean information and, as a result, gain whatever foothold we need to ascertain in certain circumstances.

As Victoria says, "...I send a quick pm to the most recent lady they've reviewed asking for a reference." But this practice leaves a few of us at a disadvantage.

As many of you know, and as I've stated on the Board many times; I stopped doing reviews quite a while ago, and wished I'd never done them to begin with. I do understand they may serve a purpose, but I can't bring myself to objectify women by rating service and spinning sophomoric yarns.

What a few select women and I do remains between us, and they're aware of my attitude and fine with it.

By no means am I judging right or wrong or the guys who do reviews, but it just ain't me.

Respectfully to all,
TD

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by The Drummer

I can't bring myself to objectify women by rating service and spinning sophomoric yarns.

I feel the same way about omelettes. I stopped doing reviews because it isn't obvious to me what value PA has.

[The Drummer]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

I feel the same way about omelettes. I stopped doing reviews because it isn't obvious to me what value PA has.

[alphonse1948]

TD/Huggy, your two posts are thoughtful,once again you have accomplished the mission of hitting the nail on the head with your hammer.Your just you!!

[Guest061315]

I think many providers have their own level of screening that covers their
Level of comfort..I then choose to decide if that is good enough for me.
As some providers process is to see the guy with no screening, and if she
Hasnt been arrested..welp he's good tp go...I have to say im not really
Confident in that provider and when a client uses that lady as a ref I go
Into alternative screening method s...
My alternative screening is how I handle my biz, as I prefer my biz to be
Strictly between the gent and myself...noone else..
There have been pleanty of gents that refuse to oblidge with my screening
Process...and thats okay..there are pleanty of providers out there that
They can contact that would rather fly on the wild side..I was asked once
If I had those ladies numbers..lol...im not the yellow pages suga..I replied..
Ive been screamed at..called names, and been
Cursed out, told I better be worth the hype, and hung up on...lol..
Basically I was at that point relieved as I wondered how they would have
Treated me once they had arrived...
The gents have to be very careful the ladies they give their info
Too..as the devious providers have outed them and I have been told
Of hobbiests lives crumbling around them because a provider
Let the lines of the hobby be crossed into real life..
And then there are those gentlemen that do trust me, and I am very appreciative
Of them as they are the ones that help my bizness to continue to grow as this
biz we all Know is about variety..and I cant expect my sweet clients to come back
Every single day..lol..although some of yall I wouldnt mind..lol..
I think for a new lady comming onto the scene asking for reffs is
The best way to start until your reputation can speak for itself..and
even then expect a guy to yell, scream, trip out, and call you nuts and hang up
On ya...its just the way of this biz..
Goodluck..Sincerely, aj....

[The Drummer]

Originally Posted by alphonse1948

TD/Huggy, your two posts are thoughtful,once again you have accomplished the mission of hitting the nail on the head with your hammer.Your just you!!

I'm a sensitive sod!

Some of the guys are meeting at The Rat's Nest this Saturday night. Why don't you make one of your rare appearances.

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by Victoria Anne

Make it a very easy process for them, If they pm me through eccie I check their web presence to see if they're active on the board. If they are, I send a quick pm to the most recent lady they've reviewed asking for a reference. I can usually get a guy screened without any more personal info than a handle and phone number. Become acquainted with Google, because your going to be needing it.

Getting verified was easy...
Now... me getting to Utica, or VA getting to Buff.... well... I'm going to keep on tryin!!

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by Victoria Anne

Make it a very easy process for them, If they pm me through eccie I check their web presence to see if they're active on the board. If they are, I send a quick pm to the most recent lady they've reviewed asking for a reference. I can usually get a guy screened without any more personal info than a handle and phone number. Become acquainted with Google, because your going to be needing it.

Do take care.

Though if a lady can find clients in Utica she can probably hang anywhere.

[generalbob]

If a verified provider who works from her home, I will give her my name and number. Never to an unknown.

[Guest061315]

Jc...so funny you posted that link..a couple of times I have had someone
Texting me saying he was a well known member here..asking me abt services
I dont offer and rates ..
I then pm"d the menber asking him what his deal was, cuz we had seen
each other before, and he knew I didnt offer bareback..
By comparing the numbers we then realized what was goin on...
So make sure ladies you have the gent send you a courtesy pm through
Eccie if the are contacting you by email or tele, or text.

[jokacz]

First rule of fight club, don't give ANY personal info.

VP means nothing, more than one of them have snapped and spilled the beans.

[Guest061315]

Originally Posted by jokacz

First rule of fight club, don't give ANY personal info.

.

Yep and we all know how that movie ended..

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by aj14620

Yep and we all know how that movie ended..

I'm not sure I ever made it all the way to the end. Always thought it was one of the stupidest movies ever made. But hookers and strippers seem to love it. smh Edward Norton is a fag. Meat Loaf was good though.

[Guest061315]

Well then you probably shouldnt use the
Movie as an advocate for not giving personal info..
The guy was nutts!

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by aj14620

Well then you probably shouldnt use the
Movie as an advocate for not giving personal info..
The guy was nutts!

Nah, it's just a cliché now. Let's call it GP's first commandment, tell nothing! lol