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Originally Posted by Strangedays
i hate that other people ruin my good time.
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No one can blame a lady, unfamiliar or new to the area, wanting to avoid any drama.
The fact remains, that our respective cities are much SAFER for hobbyists and providers than other cities, it is just that we have one Kick Ass alert section with very clear, current and relevant information shared.
We are unlike some other forums, where the ladies are intimidated or afraid to post on hobbyists and the gents don't bother reporting, Our forum is very active and accurate.
One way to address this kind of challenge, and to bring new ladies to one's area, is to seek out the lady on her home turf, have a great appointment, and then see if she would be interested in coming to your town.
Many members (such as SwordMaster and CoachPaul, among others) will tell you that ladies they have previously met elsewhere, have no problem coming to town to see them.
So, I cannot blame a lady who has no established clients in a strange town of not wanting to stop by, period. But, you can effect a remedy. Overall, our corner (Killeen/Temple/Waco/BCS) is much friendlier than much of the larger corners of the hobby.
What we do have to overcome is the fact that we are a SMALLER corner, and that often does not make bu$ine$$ $en$e to a lady who is an independent contractor and taking a lot of expense and risk to be in town, where she knows no one. Additionally, Waco and BCS have a bad reputation of the gents NC/NS and/or cancelling once the ladies show up.
So, go meet the new ladies on their turf, or at a social, and you have a much better chance of getting them to drop by your home town.
Respectfully,
OldSarge
