Sometimes, i find it amazing how people and me included are the makers of their own doom and then we, me included make up crap to excuse our misbehavings. A man cannot get caught for cheating if he does not cheat. A man will not seek out sex if all his desires are satisfied at home.
A woman assumes her man will just be there without her giving to him sexually. He will seek it out elsewhere, simple. She is the maker of her own doom.
A man gets caught hobbying, that one is pretty self explanatory. He is the maker of his own doom. If he did not go out he can not get caught, simple.
I wanted so bad to cheat on my wife, but I chose not to, I chose instead to leave her first and then hobby, just me. She wonders why I left, that's a funny one.
But we as humans tend to think we are smarter than the other guy or gal that got caught and it could never happen to us, until it does.
I am not judging, I just think if I do not want to get caught in a lie, the simplest way for me is just not lie - that simple. Then I have no worries, but play out that situation, hey honey I need some strange? what do you think? Please!!!
What is the answer IDK. I just try to keep me clean and guilt free, not always successful but I try. Just my .02
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