Domination??? becoming a dominatrix

[berkleigh]

BDSM is definitely not for everyone.

I would agree educating yourself, then venturing out with those like-minded individuals in the Lifestyle.
You're curious.
Discover your interests.
Experience.
Know your limits.
Push yourself beyond those, but be safe.

Join Fetlife.
Have fun.

[txlonghornfan811]

You should find someone who can introduce you to it bit by bit. Its like riding a roller coaster blind folded plus some fun pain. I am more light - medium bondage myself if in the mood

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by Zippo1000

That sounds good

[Jake Perman]

Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

thank you everyone, i'll check it out

You're a redhead, which makes me totally submissive already. Who needs nipple clamps and safe words?

[dfw harley]

I have some knowledge of this because I have always tried to seek this out. Wulf is correct that there is a majority of doms that don't perform sex. These doms get off other ways. However there is a minority that does offer both dom and PSE. Most wont because the other doms will shun them.

I would say this though, it is funny if you google dom sex videos and you see many doms forcing men to have sex with them. So another question would be is why do they perpetuate the forced sex domination scene that everyone sees and then say they aren't into it.

To back this story there is a couple of professional doms in Texas that do all the dom conventions and dom parties but they also have active porn sites showing them domination and forcing men to please them sexually.

Just something to think of. One of them will probably chime in here because she is or was a member of this board...lol

Harley

[Halfbad]

I get the sense from you that you have sensual domination more in mind rather than "pure" domination.

Take a look at some of Nina Hartley's sensual domination videos. Good stuff!!!