MSOG why is it an upgrade?

[pjpenner]

Originally Posted by Natalie Reign

....I request a specific donation for my time, and let the session unfold as it may, without rushing the client out before his time is up. I never feel pressured to perform any acts that I wouldn't be comfortable with, and if I did feel pressured, I am secure enough to convey that to the client maturely....

Natalie, I appreciate and understand your thoughts because I don't schedule time with a lady with an "agenda" in mind. In enjoy the "intrigue and mystery" of letting the session flow to it's own destination without specific requirements of acts or volume of activity. If I've done my due diligence and homework, I already know the type of experience the lady will provide.

Due to the length of time I've been in the hobby, the number of beautiful and accommodating providers I've seen, and my personal preferences; there are sessions I don't get off once ... let alone multiple times. Yet, I consider some of these sessions to be quite successful and fulfilling.

I'll use my ATF as an example. This lady has been blessed with one of the most responsive bodies I've ever seen. I've seen this lady "enter into another dimension" and even pass out from DATY and the use of a particular toy. There have been sessions we entered into together with the sole purpose of seeing how far I could push her over the edge without having to call 911. She is totally incapable of doing anything after a certain point. She can't talk, sit, walk ... or even go to the bathroom. It takes several hours of "after care" with her to come back down and regain her normal senses and functions.

Do I feel cheated at the end of these sessions because I didn't have an orgasm? No way! We both enjoy testing the limits of sexual pleasure, release and surrender.

While I realize I'm in a minority, some of us gents don't measure a successful session on the number of times we get off. There are so many other levels and dimensions to explore and satisfy.

I truly believe that "surrendering to the flow of the session" rather than having an agenda provides a far more satisfying experience for the hobbyist ... and the provider.

[Paige Hunter]

i dont charge extra for msog i kinda think thats dumb just my opinion!! if you can go more than once on that hour then ill do my job to get you there lol!!

[ErectionDemolitionSpclst]

Ummmmmm, hellllllllo! Isn't it one hella more than a good thing for one to be left happy, more than once! Better yet, to be left happy in as much as possible in time allotted? Welllllll...dah, of course!

[BadWolf]

IMHO, I pay a donation to a provider for her time...whether it is HH, HR or more...the rate is set. Likewise before I set that appointment I have done my research on the particular lady. I know what I like, and from my research I know what type of appointments other people have enjoyed. If it seems compatible, then I book the appointment. Then we meet - and our unique time and experience unfolds. If I can pull MSOG during the allotted time, I should be afforded that benefit...if we would rather spend any remaining time chatting, making sandwiches or playing cards - that's fine also...research and respect are paramount.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by BadWolf

IMHO, I pay a donation to a provider for her time...whether it is HH, HR or more...the rate is set. Likewise before I set that appointment I have done my research on the particular lady. I know what I like, and from my research I know what type of appointments other people have enjoyed. If it seems compatible, then I book the appointment. Then we meet - and our unique time and experience unfolds. If I can pull MSOG during the allotted time, I should be afforded that benefit...if we would rather spend any remaining time chatting, making sandwiches or playing cards - that's fine also...research and respect are paramount.

I'll have a roast beef on rye and two cards please

[BadWolf]

nope, Go Fish! hahaha

[Cpalmson]

I agree with Charles. I'm vary wary of a lady who states donation is only for her time. Unless there are plenty of reputable reviews that give a good indication of what to expect, I, too, will shy away from providers who advertise in this manner.

As I've mentioned before, MSOG is an absolute must for me b/c I have a history of premature ejaculation. If MSOG is not part of the standard donation structure, I will not see a provider. Usually, I will ask a provider directly about this. I will say something like this-- "I want to have as much fun as possible during our time together. Is this a problem?" Most of the time, the providers know what I'm talking about. Again, most of the time, they have no issues with it.

Now having said that, I did have a conversation with a provider concerning this matter. She didn't mind how many times a client climaxed. Her only concern was that she didn't want a guy pounding her for 1 or 2 hours. Personally, I can appreciate that reasonable concern. That why there are multiple ways for guys to cum without penatration.

[memdal]

I think multiple should be a given with any appointment. The arrangement is for a set period of time, and how that time is spent will likely be different for every encounter. Plus, some of us are rather quick to take a shot (whether we like it or not), while others can be like the energizer bunny – going and going and going (so I remember from younger days). For the lady, the actual time “in the saddle” so to speak might be less for a multi-shot appointment than for a single shot with one of the stamina guys.

I think of it like an amusement park (this is after all done for personal entertainment). The admission gets you in the park until the gates close. Some will ride the roller coaster the entire time. Some will want the roller coaster plus a few less strenuous rides. Some like to just enjoy the environment. Some will want to ride, rest and if everything still functions ride again.

Inexpensive amusement parks and county fairs still charge for each ride (streetwalkers), while the quality parks know they offer much more of a total experience (the fine escorts of eccie).