Extremely new to this and need some advice

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Prolongus

Good advice here but DON'T give the girls your real name or where you work. If you joined P411 that should suffice. Give as LITTLE real world info on yourself as possible. You never know when it might be used against you.

Lots of newbie-friendly girls here and on P411. Post a thread in your areas Requests & ISO Forum saying you're new and want to get started. You'll get responses. Research the girls that respond, have a few appointments, write a few reviews and you're on your way.

I require first names, or why else ask it? I definitely wanna know the first real name of a man I've never seen before, (only an animated avi?) walking into my shelter , and entering my body.

What if a man with a handle called " [Insert Crazy Hobby Handle here]" assaults, robs, beats, rapes or harrasses me? What do I tell my aid and law enforcement?

Do I say " [Insert Crazy Hobby Handle Here] just assaulted...etc. me! " ? I don't think that's safe. This is fantasy for hobbyist, So [ Insert Slutty/Sultry/StaXXX Provider Handle Here] is the fantasy and the hyper-sexualized vixen you want to see and meet. Hell, how many of you guys had a poor experience due to a providers' offkey day? Many of you I'm sure. Trouble is, you could've met the "Hannah" instead of the " [insert handle here].

For many providers, this is not fantasy, as it is for hobbyist. Anyone who says otherwise is passing more freebies out than even the worst town slut, for no financial help whatsoever. For many providers, this is real life, and therefore , fantastical handles won't work.

I am not knocking Prolongus' tip, but I'd want you to know both sides for sound advice on how many providing ladies conduct business . Are there ladies not requiring a name? Yes!
Does P411 help SIGNIFICANTLY ? in my opinion, yes, and your name is already listed. I still ask however to know if I'm dealing with a liar - already a negative journey into a negative sexual abyss.

[joesmo888]

these sites are here to help you do your research, read the reviews. don't be lazy and don't expect people to spoonfeed you being new to this. there are newbie providers, I suggest you find them

[A.Reader]

Take advantage of the PM feature on this site. Find a woman who looks interesting or sounds interesting and write to her. Let her know your situation. Listen to how she responds. For your first try to make sure you are comfortable with her, not just in lust with her. You will be nervous no matter what you tell yourself. Recognize the fact and do what you can to be as comfortable as you can.

I'd look for someone who has good reviews on here or some other site. Avoid women with no review history so long as you're a newbie. Then READ them. Know a little about what to expect from her, but realize your session will differ, and that's not a bad thing. Make sure she knows your situation because your nervousness will radiate. You don't want her to misinterpret why you're nervous.

Show up clean and on time, not early or late. Smile, complement her, and bring a small gift (bottle of wine, earrings, etc) for her to unwrap. Remember, the gift isn't for her as much as it is an icebreaker FOR YOU. Then relax and let the pro do her job. She'll take good care of you.

Make sure

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I require first names, or why else ask it? I definitely wanna know the first real name of a man I've never seen before, (only an animated avi?) walking into my shelter , and entering my body.

What if a man with a handle called " [Insert Crazy Hobby Handle here]" assaults, robs, beats, rapes or harrasses me? What do I tell my aid and law enforcement?

Do I say " [Insert Crazy Hobby Handle Here] just assaulted...etc. me! " ? I don't think that's safe. This is fantasy for hobbyist, So [ Insert Slutty/Sultry/StaXXX Provider Handle Here] is the fantasy and the hyper-sexualized vixen you want to see and meet. Hell, how many of you guys had a poor experience due to a providers' offkey day? Many of you I'm sure. Trouble is, you could've met the "Hannah" instead of the " [insert handle here].

For many providers, this is not fantasy, as it is for hobbyist. Anyone who says otherwise is passing more freebies out than even the worst town slut, for no financial help whatsoever. For many providers, this is real life, and therefore , fantastical handles won't work.

I am not knocking Prolongus' tip, but I'd want you to know both sides for sound advice on how many providing ladies conduct business . Are there ladies not requiring a name? Yes!
Does P411 help SIGNIFICANTLY ? in my opinion, yes, and your name is already listed. I still ask however to know if I'm dealing with a liar - already a negative journey into a negative sexual abyss.

Eva, I should clarify: "Don't give out your real first AND last name...something that can get you, the client, in some real trouble". If I make an appointment and see the lady, often I will tell her my real first name; I prefer she call me that. And...most of the time they tell me theirs.

The safety issue goes both ways as well...just imagine what an angry pimp with your real name could do...wreck your life, if he knows it and where you work. The poster who suggested that you give your real name and where you work is a newbie and obviously has a lot to learn.

[trtl360]

all good advice. I will take heed to everything said. Hopefully it will be good and I will be able to post a good review. Thank you to everyone. I have been researching like crazy.