Question on tips and gifts

[C_Manners]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Tip for the day .... No flowers BBB. Have you ever seen flowers listed on the gift page of a providers website? I never have but maybe i'm not in the know ....

What does BBB mean? This lady doesn't list any gift ideas on her website. I gleaned some ideas from some gift lists on other ladies' sites but I asked her and she said she loves flowers. If a lady doesn't list any gift ideas does it basically mean she just wants the cash instead?

As far as carrying them down the sidewalk, I guess I am a little apprehensive because her incall is in a somali area, which is fine, and I feel conspicuous as a white man even when empty handed, but to be dressed well and carrying flowers I was a bit anxious about it. I'd have to believe that some of the neighbors know about her.

Anyway thanks for all the input!

[Lil Oral Annie]

BBB means BigBaldBlack. The dude who commented on your thread on the first page. Get the chick a sephora gift card. Get her a bottle of her favorite perfume. Those things last forever compared to roses that will die in a week or two. I don't have a green thumb, so I would prefer Bath & Bodyworks body washes or a gift card from there, sephora gift card, Lush gift card (or soaps and massage bars at lush), or my favorite perfume. Gift cards are better because then she can go choose. Good luck, hon.

[cafriend]

Originally Posted by ridgecrest

I just put it in the envelope beforehand with the rest of the donation.

How.. she most likely has put it away before the end of our session?

[BigBaldBlk]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Tip for the day .... No flowers BBB. Have you ever seen flowers listed on the gift page of a providers website? I never have but maybe i'm not in the know ....

Yes, I have P, but I will heed your advice moving forward and move onto other gifts the lady prefers!

[giantbourbon]

I prefer to do outcalls in my own place. I always have a bottle of wine and fresh flowers in a vase on the coffee table, and offer the flowers to her as she's about to leave. They help to set a nice romantic mood, which nearly always translates into a better experience. And the flowers are always enthusiastically and gratefully received.

[Guest123018]

In this type of case giantbourbon flowers would be kindly accepted. IMO bringing flowers to a providers incall
draws attention, as i never forget that discretion is one of my golden rules.
I'd say always ask a provider first if flowers is an appropriate gift to bring IMO.