The Art of Slow Sensual Lovemaking

[SleeplessJer]

Originally Posted by zme

Definitely slow, sensual and intimate for me. With lots of touching and stroking and kissing. But as evie says, the right connection has to be there.
A beautiful woman is like a fine wine that is best when sipped and not gulped.

+1

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by evietaylor

I'll guess you'll have to come here.

You know.. life is just NOT fair. I've been going to St Louis for a convention every year since 2000. Then I discover THIS place and your profile, just after the convention stops. <mutter> Story of my life.

[evietaylor]

Originally Posted by RedLeg505

You know.. life is just NOT fair. I've been going to St Louis for a convention every year since 2000. Then I discover THIS place and your profile, just after the convention stops. <mutter> Story of my life.

Surely you can come up with another excuse to travel to my fine city.

[plainjoe]

Evie is a very popular lady. I scheduled a session with her, but my flight out to STL was delayed - we could never synch our schedule while I was in STL, so I was unable to meet her. When I was available, some other lucky gent enjoyed her company. This thread brings out more reason she is so popular. Yup, RedLeg, like you, Evie (as well as Schaflys - the local brewery) are great reasons to visit the Gateway to the West.

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by evietaylor

Surely you can come up with another excuse to travel to my fine city.

Yes, I can probably use the same excuse since my SO doesn't know the conventions have stopped. But after seeing you, what do I do with the OTHER 3 days and 23 hours?

In an event, just wish I'd known about the hobby community a couple years earlier.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Always Horny

It depends what mood I'm in and the type of girl, which includes her personality, I'm with.

I'm a slow and easy, AND an orgasm-seeking missile.
I'm a Gemini, so my moods swing a pendulum depending on the chemistry of the moment.

[evietaylor]

Thank you Plainjoe!

[rlowden]

Slow is the way to go.

Zabrina - Sorry i missed you on your last trip to Houston. If you ever come back please let me know :-)

[pyramider]

Slow and easy is how I roll ... some call it rodeo sex, 8 seconds and you are done.

[Zabrina Sarafina]

Originally Posted by Satyrrical

The best experience I’ve had was with a woman who advertised herself to be tantric. To this day I have little idea what tantric is, but I would describe what she did with me as cock/body/booty worship. It was slow, sensual, and decadently luxurious. Movements were glacial. Sounds were soft but seemed sincere. Beginning with a massage which included dalliances with FUMA and TUMA, the action seamlessly flowed into an extended oral session which can only be described as worship. When the first orgasm finally hit with force, she did not change tempo or technique in the slightest, continuing in a deliberate manner as if nothing had happened. So rather than my orgasm peaking and coming back down, she was able to send me into an extended orgasm that lasted several minutes. Her manner was such that she believed she could keep me in that astonishing place for as long as she liked, and I believed her manner. Eventually, she let me come down and moved right into another professional quality massage which led into another oral session ending in another body quivering orgasm, etc, etc. She never seemed to tire.

Taking it slow and making it pleasurable for the entirety takes skill and practice though. It can get boring for either person. It can be even more fatiguing than going fast (those who practice Tai Chi and/or yoga can attest). If it was tantric techniques that made her special, then I hope to find another practitioner someday. Unfortunately, those advertising as such that come through my area are L1 only. Guess I'll just try to enjoy the search as best I can.

Wow ...sounds like you were blessed to experience the touch of someone who puts their heart & soul into it. Hard to go back to the superficial after that. Your standards are now carved higher. Reminds me ... I'm seeking an authentic tantric provider myself ...I would love to be sensually nurtured and pampered by another woman. and to learn experience new techniques

Originally Posted by evietaylor

Talk to me. Kiss me. Take your time. Make me NEED you. Your patience will be worth the effort.

Indeed. I'm blessed to attract a majority of gentlemen who are attracted to me because ...of my apparently 'unique' approach and they will compliment me on everything I write about it. I'm always flabbergasted Wow since when did these guys started actually reading the words I write (and not just look at the pics). Amaze!!!

On another note! Evie I would love to enjoy a slow sensual time with you and perhaps plainjoe, Little Caesar, RedLeg505 can join us in one slow sensual orgy. We'll last up to 4-5 hours before climax

Originally Posted by Always Horny

It depends what mood I'm in and the type of girl, which includes her personality, I'm with.

Funny thing is, when I looked at your pictures the other day, I immediately thought, she's a slow girl.

The word slow has such a negative connotation in our world ....I'm proud to be a 'slow' girl

Originally Posted by Fratelli

Interesting... I think a lot of provider's don't feel comfortable with it, either. Perhaps afraid the guy has the wrong idea, perhaps just haven't achieved that level of comfort with him (ok, me), perhaps just used to the guy just wanting to prove he's a "champ in the sack", but many just don't seem comfortable with the level of connection that slow, sensual lovemaking engenders and requires. Maybe slow and sensual is reserved for the guy in their real life, I dunno.

I think it takes a certain level of maturity (which isn't necessarily defined by age)

You reach a stage in life where you begin to see everything you do in the bigger scope of things ... you want to make sure everything you do is meaningful to you. What else are you going to look back on from heaven?

Sorry if that's too deep lol

Originally Posted by evietaylor

I just try to give them what I assume they're missing & needing.

You give the best you can ...but be careful not to give too much away and be burned out/jaded. I personally recommend taking frequent breaks from the hobby to rejuvenate ...and stay in a sexy healthy state of mind ;0

Originally Posted by zme

Definitely slow, sensual and intimate for me. With lots of touching and stroking and kissing. But as evie says, the right connection has to be there.
A beautiful woman is like a fine wine that is best when sipped and not gulped.

Yes but what do you imagine to be the right connection? I feel the simple ingredient is openness. And that fine wine quote applies to men too. I do like having enough time to thoroughly discover all parts of you

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I'm a slow and easy, AND an orgasm-seeking missile.
I'm a Gemini, so my moods swing a pendulum depending on the chemistry of the moment.

The One thing I know about geminis is they love talking about it plenty of 'dirty talk' before getting together...it really turns them on almost as if that is part of the sex. Well of course

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I'm a slow and easy, AND an orgasm-seeking missile.
I'm a Gemini, so my moods swing a pendulum depending on the chemistry of the moment.

Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

Wow ...The One thing I know about geminis is they love talking about it plenty of 'dirty talk' before getting together...it really turns them on almost as if that is part of the sex.

Just how I remember it....

[RedLeg505]

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The idea of a slow, sensual orgy with you and Evie is enough to make me say "Tell me where and when.. I'll find a way to get there and make up an excuse to be away from home long enough for it".

Slow and sensual rubbing, grinding, worshipping, taking at least an hour before arriving at the first climax sounds heavenly.

Nice to fantasize about even if it is unlikely to happen. But thanks for the visual, I'll cherish it.

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[Guest052913]

Hate, hate, hate being rushed!!
Complete turn off!!

[pyramider]

I even get the bum rush on real life dates.