Do working girls care about looks of their clients?

[oldbutstillgoing]

Originally Posted by Joddxxx

Depends on your connection and personality. I’ve dated several providers and became very close.

Me as well. I have dated several providers over the years, including 2 highly respected ones from here. I also became friends with a couple more. Used to shoot pool with one every week and sometimes go to the swingers club. As in no PTP. While I am no super model, most women outside the hobby complement me about how I dress and my looks.I always prepaired myself like I was going on a date with a hot girl.

Key for me both for social engagements or get maxmium perfomamce from a session has been to always treat them as a lady until they prove otherwise. Respect goes a long ways especialy in this business. I get what I want without having to order them or demean them.

Unlike one guy that posts alot about it, I can't recall the last session when I had to order them to or get mad because they did not moan enough at the right time. No issues with IOP or not getting the servies advertized. No YMMV issues, in fact, quite the oppisete. I have had NSNC or issues outside the bedroom but that is just part of the hobby world.

Kind of makes you wonder why a few guys are always complaining about things when most, often with the same providers, have no issues. Clear, polite communication, looking the best you can, and respect go a long way

[The Queen Sophie]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I don't think that providers care about looks. Gorgeous stud of a man is not going to be paying a provider so if she waits for a guy that looks like that, she's not going to make any money!

Wrong.
I've had several drop dead gorgeous jaw dropping dudes AND still made money.
Some guys just don't want to deal with the club scene while trying to get laid or don't b have the time to invest it looking, so they turn to the hobby .

Happens all the time...

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[Peyton Daniella]

Agreed! I've had and still have extremely attractive clients. All kinds of men hobby. It's not limited to a certain style or look at all.

[oldbutstillgoing]

Trus professionals are able to deal with unpleasant and unattractive guys to a point.

But of course it helps if he is. And of course, good looking guys use escorts too, for many reasons. The commenter thinks because he matches his description of John's, they all must look like him. That attitude goes a long way to explaining his poor results in the hobby he is always complaining about

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by oldbutstillgoing

Me as well. I have dated several providers over the years, including 2 highly respected ones from here. I also became friends with a couple more. Used to shoot pool with one every week and sometimes go to the swingers club. As in no PTP. While I am no super model, most women outside the hobby complement me about how I dress and my looks.I always prepaired myself like I was going on a date with a hot girl.

Key for me both for social engagements or get maxmium perfomamce from a session has been to always treat them as a lady until they prove otherwise. Respect goes a long ways especialy in this business. I get what I want without having to order them or demean them.

Unlike one guy that posts alot about it, I can't recall the last session when I had to order them to or get mad because they did not moan enough at the right time. No issues with IOP or not getting the servies advertized. No YMMV issues, in fact, quite the oppisete. I have had NSNC or issues outside the bedroom but that is just part of the hobby world.

Kind of makes you wonder why a few guys are always complaining about things when most, often with the same providers, have no issues. Clear, polite communication, looking the best you can, and respect go a long way

1000000000000000000000000% spot on with this same guy you better be spot on with eye to eye with this one or you are getting a bad review ..Dose he think he's a Porn Producer ( telling you how to do this or that way )

Unlike one guy that posts alot about it, I can't recall the last session when I had to order them to or get mad because they did not moan enough at the right time. No issues with IOP or not getting the servies advertized. No YMMV issues, in fact, quite the oppisete. I have had NSNC or issues outside the bedroom but that is just part of the hobby world.

Kind of makes you wonder why a few guys are always complaining about things when most, often with the same providers, have no issues. Clear, polite communication, looking the best you can, and respect go a long way
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[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I have seen very handsome men nice body's and good looks
I'm like why is this guy paying for sex , he's so good looking he can have any woman he want's ( then I giggle ) oh NSA guy ... Someone for every one !!

If you are having same issues with providers over and over that you keep bitching about all the same issues, you just might take long look at yourself and how you act when BCD ..

[BLM69]

Hookers care about getting the tricks $ and that's it, anyone who believes otherwise needs a reality check. Everything else is a show and BS

[Wile E Coyote]

The question by the OP is, do providers care about looks when it comes to whether or not they will see a client. The very simple answer is no. All they are really worried about is if you have the proper donation and you are not going to hurt them, then your personal hygiene once you are there in person, which is why they have a screening process they follow. There are some who do not care what the client likes in a session that he pays for, so as long as you do not let her know what you like and just go with the flow and hope for the best, you are going to be able to set with just about any provider once you pass their screening, regardless of how ugly your face is or grotesque physically, aka, so fat that whenever you're standing up she has to lift your belly up to give you a BJ.

Clearly, the other posters who have posted on this thread and not talked about the subject, but rather to throw out insults about another member who posts on topic on the thread is quite pathetic to say the least. What's more, they really have no idea what they're talking about, they just like to see themselves post.

[Tsmokies]

I was told years ago that a lady "wants to feel safe and not be grossed out" and we still play on occasion when she has time to book me. She is a hott blooded Italian I picked up from the infamous, years ago, BDFW. She was a waitress (too young to dance) that asked a dirty old man for a ride home to Arlington. Then she introduced me to the pay to play game and I was like holy shit, I can pay a hott young babe...

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Look who's calling the kettle black lol

[Tsmokies]

Well damn Lusty (not) sorry I posted butt ima long way from any kettle. You can have issues with me though. I b fine

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by Tsmokies

Well damn Lusty (not) sorry I posted butt ima long way from any kettle. You can have issues with me though. I b fine

sorry love that was not about you at all

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Tsmokies

I was told years ago that a lady "wants to feel safe and not be grossed out" and we still play on occasion when she has time to book me. She is a hott blooded Italian I picked up from the infamous, years ago, BDFW. She was a waitress (too young to dance) that asked a dirty old man for a ride home to Arlington. Then she introduced me to the pay to play game and I was like holy shit, I can pay a hott young babe...

Hot young babes are the best! At least she wasn't a granny selling pussy. Yuck

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by 123ksalter

I've lost some fat, gained some muscle and got a new haircut. My sessions have been better and more intense versus when I was skinny fat with a bad haircut.

I always thought they should just provide good level of service to everyone no matter the clients looks.

Sounds like lookism is very real, even amongst people who are paid to fake intimacy.

If they did, then they would not be prostitutes in the traditional sense. They are being paid for the very reason of ignoring your looks. Otherwise, why not just walk into a bar and hook up with someone for a one night stand? That doesn't take money, that takes the ability to impress a woman with appearance and charm of various sorts. Whether that's smooth talking, being a talented dancer, wearing well recognized brands of clothing or jewelry, etc... Any number of alluring things. If you are missing even one of those two factors you will probably go home alone.



That being said, you will find some girls who do not see men of certain races, or morbidly obese men, etc... Most of the traits outside of excluding certain ethnicities are not common. Pretty much everybody is bothered by poor hygiene, but that's not an appearance issue; even a "Fabio" looking stud could neglect to shower, despite his muscles.


So in my mind the answer to that is "no" well over 95% of the time. Because if someone is looking for traits other than money, then that's what you call a "girlfriend or wife" or someone who could potentially be one. 95% of the time they are looking for things in addition to me, be it certain religious values, an advanced degree, etc... But probably most commonly "good looks." Mind you, 95% of the time they want money to go with it... That's often times what makes sex workers superior; the potential complicating factor being they don't tend to stick around long, or get too deeply involved. But hey, isn't that often what guys are looking for?

[TheShocka]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

The question by the OP is, do providers care about looks when it comes to whether or not they will see a client. The very simple answer is no. All they are really worried about is if you have the proper donation and you are not going to hurt them, then your personal hygiene once you are there in person, which is why they have a screening process they follow. There are some who do not care what the client likes in a session that he pays for, so as long as you do not let her know what you like and just go with the flow and hope for the best, you are going to be able to set with just about any provider once you pass their screening, regardless of how ugly your face is or grotesque physically, aka, so fat that whenever you're standing up she has to lift your belly up to give you a BJ.

Clearly, the other posters who have posted on this thread and not talked about the subject, but rather to throw out insults about another member who posts on topic on the thread is quite pathetic to say the least. What's more, they really have no idea what they're talking about, they just like to see themselves post.

Is there ever a post that you dont sound like a whiney girl?