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Old 07-06-2010, 08:22 PM   #16
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....There are a few who got burned a few times while helping, and some others who still do it but stay off the radar.

Unfortunately, with many of those guys fading into anonymity, a vacuum has been created and the characters attempting to fill in the void are not the best of the bunch. The new guys are trying to use perceived powers to get discounted or free sessions...
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I couldn't agree more...too many guys out there that try to take advantage of girls that there are some girls that just prefer not to expose themselves to that risk. Some want more favors in return. Some providers will take advantage of the situation altogether and become entitled or just lazy and expect that help to be on-going. When I meet a newbie...I will always offer to teach them to fish. I give them my number and ask them to call. Some take this and some don't. I have always said, that I will NOT beg to help anyone...


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wow laylonie you are hawt
Jules---without a doubt she is the hottest one IMHO...easy my ATF and she knows it...

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...Maybe not as many as there once were, but still some good dudes. However there are also more hobbyist that want something in return for their help. And there's definitely more dudes who are unfair, manipulative, and preying on young providers.
to my earlier point, I think it has become a self-fulling prophecy...too many providers get burned thus not trusting anyone...the hobbyist get burned by providers taking advantage of them...thus the perpetuating cycle.

quote=cookie man;405659]So what's a girl to do? Talk to the helpful experienced providers, see or talk to some of the more senior members, and screen. Still it's all about trial and error, taking your lumps, and with experience you get better and wiser...[/quote]

probably the best advice that can given on the subject...


Oh and Laylonie...since you are the seasoned vet now...have them talk to you...haven't had a bad session with you yet and I've seen you for several years now...
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Old 07-06-2010, 08:25 PM   #17
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FIRST...THANKS 214JULES! SEXY YOURSELF! MMMM LOL AND THANKS PRECISION45 HOPE TO SEE YOU! AND THANKS FOR ALL YALL OPINIONS...

I UNDERSTAND THE HOBBY IS NOT WHAT IT ONCE WAS....BUT MAYBE BY HELPING EACH OTHER IN LITTLE WAYS WILL HELP US ALL IN THE END. I HAVE BEEN AROUND A WHILE AND DID TAKE IN THINGS THAT I WAS TOLD TO MAKE MY PERFORMANCE BETTER SO THAT I AM WORTH WHAT I CHARGE BELIEVE ME YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE DRINK WATER BY HANDING THEM A GLASS BUT IF YOU TELL THEM HOW GOOD AND REFRESHING IT WILL BE, IM SURE THEY WILL TAKE A SIP AND EVENTUALLY GET THIRSTY ENOUGH THEY WILL DRINK IT, BUT I UNDERSTAND NO ONE WANTS TO BE THE ONE WAITING TRYING TO GET THERE CUP BACK SO THEY CAN ENJOY TOO LOL

I KNOW ALOT OF LADIES HAVE STARTED TO BE ALL ABOUT THEM...BUT SOME HOBBIST ARE JUST AS GUITY......BUT THERE ARE SOME PROVIDERS THAT STUCK AROUND THANKS TO THE MEN THAT TRULY APPRECIATE THEM...CAUSE WITHOUT US THERE IS NO HOBBY...AND BEING A HOBBIST THAT REALLY SUCKS LMAO THOUGH I DO WISH SOME PROVIDERS WOULD UNDERSTAND GENTLEMEN SPEND A GOOD AMOUNT OF $$ SO THAT THEY CAN SMILE ABOUT 'HER' LATER AND SAY CANT WAIT TO SEE THAT LADY AGAIN!!!

BUT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A FEW BAD APPLES BUT THE ONES WORTH EATING ARE THE RIP SHINY DELICIOUS LOOKING ONES AT THE TOP.....REACH FOR THEM BOYS LOL...


THANKS EVERYONE I GOTTA DO THIS MORE OFTEN ITS SO MUCH FUN!!! MUAH
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Old 07-06-2010, 08:40 PM   #18
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HOW DO I DO THE THING YALL DOIN WHERE YOU CAN QUOTE THE PERSON YOU ARE REPLYING TO?

SORRY NOT ON HERE MUCH LOL IMA SMART GIRL I SWEAR!!! LOL AND YOU KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY ATF SURGE!!!! {MY FUNNY WHILE GETTIN BUSY COMEDIAN}LOL HOPE THAT WASNT A SECRET LOL
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Old 07-06-2010, 08:43 PM   #19
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AND I WILL HAVE SOME NEW PICKS SOON...SO I CAN BE A AVATAR AGIAN {SURGE} LOL JK KINDA!
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Old 07-06-2010, 09:09 PM   #20
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Maybe ask one of your good clients if he wants a learning double with you and your friend at no extra (or small extra) rate? That seems like it would be the easiest way, you and he could observe and correct.
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Old 07-06-2010, 10:46 PM   #21
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Hi lovely Laylonie, if i understand this question, just click on QUOTE button and it fills in the quote in a reply box. btw, nice post. i would help the new girls but i do not see many new ones. i usually do my homework with reviews and meet the 'polished' ones. but i like the message you're sending. too bad more people are not around to help others but to try to take advantage. keep the faith.

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HOW DO I DO THE THING YALL DOIN WHERE YOU CAN QUOTE THE PERSON YOU ARE REPLYING TO?

SORRY NOT ON HERE MUCH LOL IMA SMART GIRL I SWEAR!!! LOL AND YOU KNOW YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY ATF SURGE!!!! {MY FUNNY WHILE GETTIN BUSY COMEDIAN}LOL HOPE THAT WASNT A SECRET LOL
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Old 07-06-2010, 11:05 PM   #22
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Laylonie,

Good question. I believe some of us here do try and help... And some do listen....

The problem is a lot of new people come on and one of 2 things happen

1) Someone screws them over or attacks them and messes it up for the rest....

2) They have an attitude or do not want to listen to good advice....

One of the big reasons I became a mod it to help and a some listen and do well.....

I hope more read this and be a bit kinder to each other and more helpful...

Thanks,
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Old 07-07-2010, 08:45 AM   #23
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Only real problem I have with guys helping girls get started is that their reviews are usually biased towards the girl. I've seen it first-hand, you get an impression based on her initial reviews then when you see her, she's absolutely nothing like those reviews.....If I was getting a discounted rate so I could promote a new girl with a glowing review...you can figure the rest out. Lots of guys use the "I'm ABC from eccie, I have XX reviews, let me help you" line quite a bit and the new girls fall for it.

I've learned to ignore several known promoters here for just that reason.
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Old 07-07-2010, 12:55 PM   #24
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Laylonie--The first time I ever talked to Surge was a PM on the old aspd board, asking him who the hell that was on his avatar. He used to send me new pic's just to make me jealous. Glad you're still around--take care of them wheels.
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Old 07-07-2010, 02:22 PM   #25
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Old 07-07-2010, 04:18 PM   #26
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Couple points to consider.

1. Those good old guys in the past? Well, time can smooth down the edges and also make one forget the bad things some did to the girls they tried to "help". "Breaking a girl" in or helping her learn the business sounds good on the surface but very few and I do mean very few guys do things for the ladies out of the kindness of their hearts.

A good example of a guy helping a provider was just posted where a client drove to pick up and gal and insure she safely got to her incall.

Many of those who helped in the past oft times expected services that the girls might not want to provide and at rates that would shock many if the truth were told.

Even worse is when a girl decided to try and get away from those helpful guys and on more than one occasion, one or more of them would stalk and harass her so badly so she'd move or even worse, make horrible decisions.

2. Other guys over the years have also tried to help new girls get started. They've run into guys who will trade sessions for reviews, BBFS for reviews, things we can't talk about for sessions, you name it, it happens and has happened.

3. MANY girls think they know more about selling pussy than the guys who have been renting it for decades. Guys who have offered tips on how to screen, how to improve services, better ads, better posting styles etc almost always get met with the "It's my body and my service don't tell ME how to run my business.'

Web pages are a perfect example. There have been rant after rant about music yet the escorts keep putting music on their pages no matter how many guys offer the advice to not do so.

I could go on except I need to go get laid again and then some cold beer served by hot college girls in skimpy clothes.

Hope everyone enjoys the social tonight.
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:43 PM   #27
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Laylonie,

First of all. Wow. You are absolutely GORGEOUS

Now, to answer your question. It seems to me that new providers quickly move to an hourly rate that experienced and well-reviewed providers charge. Why am I going to pay the same rate for a new provider with no experience or reviews when I can book with an experienced older provider with reviews and experience?

There are certainly many hobbyists who will be willing to do this and I commend them for it. Just not my thing.
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Old 07-07-2010, 08:46 PM   #28
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Laylonie,

I agree that guys should make an effort to afford newbies the benefit of their experience, especially with the younger gals who may have had limited erotic interaction with men in general, quite aside from hobbyists. There are ways to communicate these tips which will not anger or demoralize the novice provider. I visited with you a few times when you were a newbie, and could readily see that you were receptive to my advice and suggestions.

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Old 07-08-2010, 02:32 AM   #29
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FIRST...THANKS 214JULES! SEXY YOURSELF! MMMM LOL AND THANKS PRECISION45 HOPE TO SEE YOU! AND THANKS FOR ALL YALL OPINIONS...

I UNDERSTAND THE HOBBY IS NOT WHAT IT ONCE WAS....BUT MAYBE BY HELPING EACH OTHER IN LITTLE WAYS WILL HELP US ALL IN THE END. I HAVE BEEN AROUND A WHILE AND DID TAKE IN THINGS THAT I WAS TOLD TO MAKE MY PERFORMANCE BETTER SO THAT I AM WORTH WHAT I CHARGE BELIEVE ME YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE DRINK WATER BY HANDING THEM A GLASS BUT IF YOU TELL THEM HOW GOOD AND REFRESHING IT WILL BE, IM SURE THEY WILL TAKE A SIP AND EVENTUALLY GET THIRSTY ENOUGH THEY WILL DRINK IT, BUT I UNDERSTAND NO ONE WANTS TO BE THE ONE WAITING TRYING TO GET THERE CUP BACK SO THEY CAN ENJOY TOO LOL

I KNOW ALOT OF LADIES HAVE STARTED TO BE ALL ABOUT THEM...BUT SOME HOBBIST ARE JUST AS GUITY......BUT THERE ARE SOME PROVIDERS THAT STUCK AROUND THANKS TO THE MEN THAT TRULY APPRECIATE THEM...CAUSE WITHOUT US THERE IS NO HOBBY...AND BEING A HOBBIST THAT REALLY SUCKS LMAO THOUGH I DO WISH SOME PROVIDERS WOULD UNDERSTAND GENTLEMEN SPEND A GOOD AMOUNT OF $$ SO THAT THEY CAN SMILE ABOUT 'HER' LATER AND SAY CANT WAIT TO SEE THAT LADY AGAIN!!!

BUT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A FEW BAD APPLES BUT THE ONES WORTH EATING ARE THE RIP SHINY DELICIOUS LOOKING ONES AT THE TOP.....REACH FOR THEM BOYS LOL...


THANKS EVERYONE I GOTTA DO THIS MORE OFTEN ITS SO MUCH FUN!!! MUAH

You are so on point !!
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Old 07-22-2010, 03:13 PM   #30
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Laylonie,

My $0.02 on the subject. I don't hobby just for the exercise. I can get that cheaper at the gym and the dojo. The chance to meet and interact with ladies who are both beautiful and charming is now 60% of the consideration. If we can't laugh together, and enjoy each other's company, then the other is just a pricey workout. I am very upfront at what I like, and actually tell the lady in question that for me, "it is always better to give that receive." I hope that a certain level of mutual exploration/instruction is the beginning of a great session. I always try to learn something from each meeting, even if it's, "I'll never do that again." In this most open/intimate of activities, silence is not your friend.
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