What to do when an angry wife texts you??

[heidilynnla]

Happened to me twice. One woman knew my real first name and it scared the crap out of me. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Deny, deny,deny. They go away eventually!

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Brmike1963

I put you providers phone #s down the front of my pants. That way I know my SO won't find them.

I had that happen in New Mexico once...the guy's girlfriend found my number on a paper in his pants....she was going out of town and wanted to make sure he behaved,so she went and had him fastened with a chasity belt!
{funny thing was that he stole the key to it before she left}

Then another time in Beaumont,I had a wife call me and ask who i was...she even put her husband on the phone to ask me who I was! Poor guy was actually one of my atfs and he had left my number in his phone! he called later to apologize.I have never seen him again!

I would just ignore her....she will go away

[havinfuntwo]

Does she know that you are a provider, is your number searchable on google?

I would def alert those folks, with the last couple numbers of her phone...A heads up could go a long way.

Poor guy

[Bababoeuy]

Quite simple solution. Next week is Valentines Day. Next time she calls answer you're phone with "PajamaGram, this is Kelly, may I help you?"

Instead of a divorce, the guy will get a big kiss and a great dinner when he gets home.

[DallasRain]

lol---good one
http://www.pajamagram.com/

[Guest041817]

Lol i ignored her and she stopped but if she does call again I may take your idea Baba!! Your so smart!!!

[ilovedatass]

Originally Posted by Brmike1963

I put you providers phone #s down the front of my pants. That way I know my SO won't find them.

[stavinChain]

What should you do?

Don't just do something, stand there...

[harley3535]

This happened to me one time and I played it off like the guy was arranging a private secret massage for himself and his wife as a surprise for her... I immediately emailed and texed him {if he still needed me to pick up the roses to lay on the bed for her and did I have it right that white was her favorite color???} Then i answred her tex to pretend that I knew what was going on and was she ok with the time that he had arranged... and when she acted surprised... opps i hope i didnt ruin the surprise...
moral of the story.... gets him off the hook and then hopefully you now have a double call and more money in your envelope...

[barrybarry39]

Harley, that sounds like fun, maybe I'll leave your number laying around, then you could convince my SO into a session, I know that shell never go for something like that, then I probably could arrange for a session for me with or with out her approval and her having full knowledge.
Not that makes a difference or not. LOL...

[ElisabethWhispers]

Depends. It happens. I wouldn't have ignored it if it had gone on and on.

"I'm sorry. Someone must have written a number down wrong. Please don't bother me again. Thanks." Then ignore.

It's very disturbing to me to have people text me on and on and on and on.

At least if you say that it's a wrong number, and people write down numbers wrong all of the time, he could possibly cover it from his end.

But then you're out of the loop.

At some point in your career, or many, you're going to have a woman call you and be upset for one reason or another. And it's always going to be when you least expect it. So have something in your mind.

Denial is always best. Even if you're caught red handed.

Hope this helps.
Elisabeth

[Guest041817]

Thanks guys for all the great advise..its helps me out alot... Ok so two things totally off subject for a minute...1.) I miss the south so much right now we just got hit with a bunch of snow and its so cold here need to be in the nice warm weather with someone keeping me warm..2.) I just saw a girl driving a car and her license plate says ESCORT...made me laugh she has no shame in her game lol..

[kindafun]

Tell her you are a nun and were offering spiritual advice!!

[TwistedTiger]

I agree with all those that said ignore the calls/texts. Nothing good can come from answering or responding. She will soon turn her anger to him and forget about you. Come on down and I'll keep you warm, I'll also do a better job protecting your number.

[TwistedTiger]

Originally Posted by rpmsouth

Keeky. Ignore her is the best way to handle it. If you have a smartphone there is an app to block text and calls. It's SPC, super private conversation, it's a free app and it works great. You can put her the number in the block section and all text and calls will go there. You'll still see them but only when you open it. Hope this helps.

I can't find that app on any of the app search apps I have. Are you sure that's the correct name for it?