Suggestions in the ISO...and references....seious issues

[Audrey Astor]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

I know that's always a concern or paranoia but has that really ever been done? That is, on this board or P411? It seems to be a lot of trouble just for nailing 2 consenting adults...now if they think something else is going on or can get to bigger fish, that may be different

Yes, it has, and is being done. And right now for whatever reason, we are the bigger fish. No it does not make sense, but explain the above to those who have had some bad luck over the past few weeks.

[DallasRain]

I am sooooo glad I have a good repeat client base....screen hard everyone!!

[Dondo7]

That's too bad, maybe it will settle down soon

[Guest041919]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

It seems to be a lot of trouble just for nailing 2 consenting adults...now if they think something else is going on or can get to bigger fish, that may be different

The whole premise of stings doesn't set out to nail both parties at once. They usually collaborate to set up one or the other. That way there is a kink in the process that got them together in the first place. Thus, even the most rigorous verification processes can fail.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I am sooooo glad I have a good repeat client base....screen hard everyone!!

Agreed But I will add is screen hard & screen different. Feel free to PM me for suggestions.

[omg_lol]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

I know that's always a concern or paranoia but has that really ever been done? That is, on this board or P411? It seems to be a lot of trouble just for nailing 2 consenting adults...now if they think something else is going on or can get to bigger fish, that may be different

Cops for the most part are still feasting on the low hanging fruit. It’s when they start running low on easy busts and need to justify their budgets for the next fiscal year that they will start to get more creative. I suspect that will happen eventually but every bust I’ve seen has been obvious.

Of course keep in mind that they’re reading every post that gets made in the public and private forums. Nothing here is 100% safe. There is no “guaranteed way for effective screening...cops hate it!” stuff.

I liken this all to the drug war. Someone gets busted buying their first eighth of an ounce; others smoke up their whole lives without ever getting busted. Depends on people’s tolerance for risk at the end of the day. The safest way is not to play.

[DallasRain]

Ok heres the scoop..without me outing or getting in trouble...
I posted a suggestion behind an ISO....trying to be helpful...well backfire!!!...it was merely throwing a suggestion out,not vouching for anyone...just a suggestion.

[omg_lol]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ok heres the scoop..without me outing or getting in trouble...
I posted a suggestion behind an ISO....trying to be helpful...well backfire!!!...it was merely throwing a suggestion out,not vouching for anyone...just a suggestion.

Men and women both need to screen thoroughly. Many ladies do but I suspect many guys don’t think to do it beyond checking out a lady’s pictures and reviews. Nothing is 100% but should be good enough to filter out the obvious issues.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by omg_lol

Men and women both need to screen thoroughly. Many ladies do but I suspect many guys don’t think to do it beyond checking out a lady’s pictures and reviews. Nothing is 100% but should be good enough to filter out the obvious issues.

The guy passed thorough screening.
So when ladies locally start asking for more than usual for their screening.. You all will be understanding..correct

[omg_lol]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

The guy passed thorough screening.
So when ladies locally start asking for more than usual for their screening.. You all will be understanding..correct

Would you be understanding if guys asked for more than their usual for their screening? If so, yes!

[DallasRain]

delete

[JuanDiego]

Personally, if a lady asks me for references, I am moving on to the next lady. The KC area is the only place I have found that is so big on screening. Not knocking your choice. I understand your personal preference and thinking that you're being safe. You have to know you're closing the door on many great guys. But, I'm sure you do just fine without us.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by omg_lol

Would you be understanding if guys asked for more than their usual for their screening? If so, yes!

Please LOL.
You obviously aren't aware what's going on ..and that's ok.

Originally Posted by JuanDiego

Personally, if a lady asks me for references, I am moving on to the next lady. The KC area is the only place I have found that is so big on screening. Not knocking your choice. I understand your personal preference and thinking that you're being safe. You have to know you're closing the door on many great guys. But, I'm sure you do just fine without us.

If you don't like a womans screening, Donations, locations , policies..move forward.
But after what happened here in KC
Expect more women to Up their screening..just know your list is gonna be REAL SHORT

[KatiforYou]

Originally Posted by JuanDiego

Personally, if a lady asks me for references, I am moving on to the next lady. The KC area is the only place I have found that is so big on screening. Not knocking your choice. I understand your personal preference and thinking that you're being safe. You have to know you're closing the door on many great guys. But, I'm sure you do just fine without us.

Um. I’ve worked in a lot of places and references have always been a thing. I need to know who is going to be on the other side of the door, as most other ladies do.
But I’m sure this comment has helped many ladies in their decision to not see you.

[Audrey Astor]

It's scary to know that guys see ladies who don't screen. Wow--- there are so many ways that things could go wrong for them. To each his own though.