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waydown · 10-10-2011, 04:27 PM

I'm curious, why would a lady not see a guy who has done several reviews?

I have seen about 5 bbws. The first one I did a review I described her as voluptuously curvy. Glowing review. Gave her a definite see again. She blasted me when the review went up. she said why did I have to mention she was curvy? why couldn't I just give the details and not the description. I pretty much gave up giving reviews period after that. Maybe I'm wrong for thinking that but I'm trying to hobby for fun.

Pink Floyd · 10-10-2011, 04:42 PM

I have reviewed every girl I have seen, except one that would have been too negative to post. I have been away from the Hobby for over a month, just hanging around the local SC. I am a little bummed out on the Hobby at this moment, but I did have lunch with my favorite Saturday.

Laz · 10-10-2011, 05:24 PM

I operate on the assumption that the reviews can help a providers business. So I will write reviews for that reason plus premium access on anyone I see with one exception. The exception is that I did not enjoy the session that much but felt the provider put out the effort and was not to blame.

I agree with the comment made earlier about personality. The BBW is not a body type I would normally choose. However, the personality ladies display in these forums could change my mind.

Still Looking · 10-10-2011, 05:54 PM

I review every new provider regardless, unless asked not to do so! If they are good it’s an ad, if they are bad it’s a warning. It is what it is! I have read reviews where the fee is .20 or .40. I look at the pictures and say OMG!? Hell there is a hobbyist in SA who finds more providers for .60 than you could imagine. Doesn't seem to bother him a bit. Big, small, tall short and crippled. Yes I said crippled, she was in a wheel chair. He is just happy to get laid!

amusemeant · 10-10-2011, 06:18 PM

Of course I review the reviews of the reviewers before I set appts that may one day be reviewed.

I do ask the prospective client to be sure what he's getting himself into when I see that he has scads of reviews on all smaller women and he's making an appt with me. If he's fine with it, so am I.

I have questioned one particular man who wanted to set an appt with me. He had several reviews of smaller women that were great, and had seen one girl who was bigger and gave her a no. He assured me it wasn't because of the size so I did promise I would still see him, but we had run out of time at that moment to get together.

Personally I don't mind if I get reviewed or not. Some of the men here definitely have inner issues, whatever they might be I don't care to expound on, that cause them to do things they way they do.

I'm here for the business, reviews or no reviews. The best clients are always those lurkers who will never write a review.

Still Looking · 10-10-2011, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by amusemeant

Of course I review the reviews of the reviewers before I set appts that may one day be reviewed.

I do ask the prospective client to be sure what he's getting himself into when I see that he has scads of reviews on all smaller women and he's making an appt with me. If he's fine with it, so am I.

I have questioned one particular man who wanted to set an appt with me. He had several reviews of smaller women that were great, and had seen one girl who was bigger and gave her a no. He assured me it wasn't because of the size so I did promise I would still see him, but we had run out of time at that moment to get together.

Personally I don't mind if I get reviewed or not. Some of the men here definitely have inner issues, whatever they might be I don't care to expound on, that cause them to do things they way they do.

I'm here for the business, reviews or no reviews. The best clients are always those lurkers who will never write a review.

wcdann · 10-10-2011, 08:20 PM

imho i would wright a review on a provider if she was a bbw, if she was a spinner, if she was 15 years older, or 15 years younger the number one thing i look for in a provider is #1- her personality, #2 how much im attracted to her, #3 her rates and services( if shes in my price range for GFE) #4 location. I personaly like all kinds of providers regardless of age, race, or body size but i am picky she must have the 3 c's classiness, cleanliness, and use condoms. No bb with the exception of bbbj

Shayla · 10-10-2011, 08:41 PM

Reviews are here primarily to inform the potential "buyers" of the quality of service. There are not written to boost or degrade the ego of a provider. Yes, I know this has not been the case on a few occasions but I'm talking about the principle here.
I can easily see why a guy wouldn't write a review on a girl who has 10+ reviews stating the exact same thing about how great her service is.
On the other hand I'm sure there is some guys who write many (or little) reviews to brag about who/how many they've been with.

amusemeant · 10-10-2011, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by wcdann

imho i would wright a review on a provider if she was a bbw, if she was a spinner, if she was 15 years older, or 15 years younger the number one thing i look for in a provider is #1- her personality, #2 how much im attracted to her, #3 her rates and services( if shes in my price range for GFE) #4 location. I personaly like all kinds of providers regardless of age, race, or body size but i am picky she must have the 3 c's classiness, cleanliness, and use condoms. No bb with the exception of bbbj

Yay!!!! I hear from a lot of men who enjoy all different types of women. Healthy outlook on sexyness IMHO!!! Love this type of man! Indicates a person who has a great outlook and is fun to be around...

simpleton · 10-10-2011, 09:44 PM

There are some dudes that start to think this is more like a frat than a review board. So a dude might be attracted to a certain type of lady but too embarrassed review her in public. He doesn't want to be made fun of!

Shayla · 10-10-2011, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by simpleton

There are some dudes that start to think this is more like a frat than a review board. So a dude might be attracted to a certain type of lady but too embarrassed review her in public. He doesn't want to be made fun of!

Pretty sad... There's now a "class system" with paying for sex. Jeez.

Cpalmson · 10-10-2011, 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by simpleton

There are some dudes that start to think this is more like a frat than a review board. So a dude might be attracted to a certain type of lady but too embarrassed review her in public. He doesn't want to be made fun of!

I wouldn't be too sure about that.

BTW, I think EA said it best. There are some guys who are gentleman when they do reviews. They know some (guys and gals) have hang ups when it comes to issues of size/weight. Some guys just don't know how to be tactful when writing a review on a BBW. Also, some guys may feel it is a wasted effort because once other guys see BBW, voluptuous, or curvy, they just go on to the next provider. I think BBWs are a niche segment in the hobby. There's a small percentage of guys who are into that scene; however, for the vast majority, they are into the hobby in order to score with the hot, centerfold type lady. It is what it is.

simpleton · 10-11-2011, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I wouldn't be too sure about that.
It happens fo sho. I got the pms from some dudes that would say,"you should go see Chantel Or whoever." I would ask why no review? The reply would be," I didn't want to put up with the bullshit." I don't have the time or inclination to find reviews to make my point but they are there. Maybe embarrassed was the wrong word. Maybe not.

There's a small percentage of guys who are into that scene; however, for the vast majority, they are into the hobby in order to score with the hot, centerfold type lady. It is what it is.

There are plenty of dudes that don't want the really hot centerfold chick. They want someone they can feel comfortable around. That comfort zone could be age, appearence, body type. Some men aren't comfortable being naked with a completely hot chick.

burkalini · 10-11-2011, 12:25 PM

If I seeum I reviewum

wcdann · 10-11-2011, 03:34 PM

personaly i like all kinds of girls. If a guy only wants 1 certain type of girl then why bother seeing several diffrent providers he should just stick with one provider that he likes me personaly i like variety. I might spend a session with a centerfold type provider, then 1 with a bbw, then an older 1, then maybe 1 who specializes in fetishes, I might be interested in seeing an amazon then another time with a 5 foot tall petite type. I guess im saying i just dont have 1 preferance and id do a review on all of them