I have a question for hobbyist and providers

[Judge Smails]

Birdie, I guess it depends what you are looking for.

For me, I am mostly repeats and it seems to work. For sure, you can be more relaxed ( always nervous first session), build on goofy little things, mannerisms and small talk and a damn site easier to schedule.

But hey, given the opportunities in DFW, you can go one new lady a week for several years around here if that is what you want...

[birdiemaker59]

how about some of DFW area's finest come visit and show us the way its supposed to be?

[Garland_Bone]

Originally Posted by Iaintliein

relax, let yourself believe in the fantasy, but never, ever forget that it is just a fantasy.

I disagree.

It's rare, but sometimes there is genuine chemistry.

Also, there are a select few that I could actualy call "friend" and have indulged in non-bcd activity with, where no money was involved.

[PoppyToyota]

I've seen 3 women two times. In all three cases a third time was not in our future. I'm almost nervous to see a woman again because it hasn't voted well yet.

[steverino50]

Originally Posted by Judge Smails

Birdie, I guess it depends what you are looking for.

For me, I am mostly repeats and it seems to work. For sure, you can be more relaxed ( always nervous first session), build on goofy little things, mannerisms and small talk and a damn site easier to schedule.

But hey, given the opportunities in DFW, you can go one new lady a week for several years around here if that is what you want...

I agree with the Judge. I am mostly repeats. Which for me means the whole experience is repeatedly consistently great from start to finish: scheduling, timeliness, session fun, before and after rituals, etc. I agree too with Reese and others. The better you know someone the better it gets. But that is just me. WALDT.

[Donnie Brasco]

Originally Posted by elgato111

I have been seeing my ATF for over a year now and it seems to be better each time we meet simply because we know what we like and we enjoy the mutual pleasure. We have developed a "relationship" over this time that allows us to be at ease with each other, a little more than just someone on the first meeting.

It all depends what you want and what "turns" you on about seeing someone. We all have different ideas about this.

I have seen one of my ATF's over a dozen times in the last year, and WOW! I've seen her twice in the last month and all I can say is, "there's a reason I keep seeing her, she absolutely rocks". She loves sex, has a rocking body, knows what I like and I know what gets her motor running. Guess if I found that outside the hobby, I'd be gone in a minute.