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Guest011214 · 01-07-2012, 05:30 PM

I like all men (as long as they are kind, respectable and clean!). Looks are so overrated. I have been with smokin hot 25yr olds who were rude, immature and selfish. A man who is confident, intelligent, funny and has a good personality, but is maybe over average looks, is way sexier to me than a selfish, immature young hottie.

rharley · 01-07-2012, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel in KC

I like all men (as long as they are kind, respectable and clean!). Looks are so overrated. I have been with smokin hot 25yr olds who were rude, immature and selfish. A man who is confident, intelligent, funny and has a good personality, but is maybe over average looks, is way sexier to me than a selfish, immature young hottie.

well said, i have no desire to see a few of the ladies on here just because of their attitudes, one or two are actually good lookin on the outside, but to me, they're all ugly on the inside.

old-tyme-racer · 01-07-2012, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

I am in 2 weeks and id gladly see the older mildly fat guy! Just not morbidly obese. And as for on topic- This is what is great about the hobby... everyone has different tastes and so many choices available. Rharley- not everyone dislikes the bigger gals.. if they did then the bigger gals wouldnt be here.. Some like spinners, some like BBW. I think both are beautiful as long as they are clean and take care of themselves.

Got to love the ladies over 30

Guest082513-02 · 01-07-2012, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel in KC

I like all men (as long as they are kind, respectable and clean!). Looks are so overrated. I have been with smokin hot 25yr olds who were rude, immature and selfish. A man who is confident, intelligent, funny and has a good personality, but is maybe over average looks, is way sexier to me than a selfish, immature young hottie.

PErfectly said! +1 !!!!

kc.canam · 01-07-2012, 09:12 PM

BTW, does skin color matter to providers?
I see a lot of providers don't like AA males

guest010313 · 01-07-2012, 09:30 PM

There is really long sticky thread in the national main forum on that topic KC.canam

astroker · 01-10-2012, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by KCQuestor

What the...?

If a provider only dated fit 25-year-old guys she'd quickly go broke. young in-shape guys don't need to pay for it.

That's a pretty big generalization there KCQ, I'm young and in-shape and I consider myself good looking (not bragging or being arrogant) But like a ezgoindude said dating is expensive and time intensive and right now I'm in my prime and don't really see myself settling down anytime soon. If I have to pay for it then it's whatever I'm financially stable right now so why not have some fun? Half the things I do with providers I'm sure would take some time to convince a girlfriend to do.

Plus, I love supporting local businesses

Tragore · 01-10-2012, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by KCQuestor

What the...?

If a provider only dated fit 25-year-old guys she'd quickly go broke. young in-shape guys don't need to pay for it.

Yes its true that young guys wouldn't need to pay. As in my example, I am in my early 20's and I don't look like an ogre or overweight or have any physical or sexual issues and can definitely go and score in bars easily. But frankly there are a lot more problems, which are not just limited to the fat old guys as the op posted. There are also those people who aren't looking for serious relationships because of some specific reasons, and they turn to providers to help them out. I also believe generalizing the younger guys as being rude is also not fair, as every pea in a pod isnt the same size .... cheers

equation · 01-10-2012, 09:34 AM

I beg to differ on this point. Guys who hobby aren't necessarily unable to wrangle civilian women "for free", it's just cheaper (in more ways than one) this way and you cut right to the chase. A dinner at a nice restaurant, drinks, and a nice no-tell hotel can cost more than an hour session with most providers AND you don't have to deal with the crap afterwards. As Charlie Sheen said, "you pay them to go".

KCQuestor · 01-10-2012, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by astroker

That's a pretty big generalization there KCQ, I'm young and in-shape and I consider myself good looking (not bragging or being arrogant)

I said you don't NEED to pay for it. I said nothing about choosing or wanting to pay for it. And by "it" I mean sex with a hot, young girl. I am old and fat and ugly, but even I can get laid for free if I work at it and stick to age-appropriate women. But there's no way I could fuck a hot 19-year-old without giving her something in return.

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Originally Posted by equation

As Charlie Sheen said, "you pay them to go".

My point was simply that a provider who only dates guys like Charlie Sheen or young, good-looking, in-shape guys will go broke pretty quickly. There aren't enough of them. There are lots of guys like me.

JayceeRivers · 01-10-2012, 01:09 PM

Just a hopeful side note for you KCquester I was married when I was 19 and he was a very large 42 year old man. Some women even young are just attracted to whats inside. literally physically attracted to the very good qualities that some "mainstream attractive" men do not seem to have or show. So don't count yourself out from what I hear you are a epic guy therefore if the right 19 year old came around I am sure you could snag her right up

rharley · 01-10-2012, 01:17 PM

I'll take a 30 yr old over a 19 year old ANY day, especially if she looks like Jaycee

KCQuestor · 01-10-2012, 01:28 PM

To be honest, it is Jaycee's sig that is as sexy to me as any of her pictures.

BigMikeinKC · 01-10-2012, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by rharley

guys do it, most of us don't like really fat women, quite a few obviously don't like older women. So how about a fat 50 yr old guy? date or no date?

Fairly large generalization. What do you consider fat? obese or curvy?

Many of us like Rubenesque women. As quoted "Real women have curves."

Age? What do you consider old?

And what is fat on a guy? I mean I'll admit to a bit of a beer belly, but my wallet's fatter than me....

guest010313 · 01-10-2012, 01:42 PM

Hobbying is not dating, I saw that thread about the dating websites too. It doesn't matter what you look like if you are paying. At all. I've had people offer to send me pictures and assure me that they are good looking. Don't care. I provide the illusion of genuine attraction and you don't force me to break character. Not to say that there isn't any attraction ever. But really, it doesn't matter. Are you prompt and accurate in the envelope? Cute enough for me.
I don't like to lie and sometimes this issue forces it a little bit. I have a very specific type of guy that I usually date and rarely does a client meet that type. Asking questions about whether I'd date you in real life just makes things uncomfortable.