Some of you ladies crack me up...

[Lindsay Lee]

If you have a history together that’s a little different. Maybe she just wanted to acknowledge you when she sent the text much later. Things happen. I have not been able to get back to someone before and sent them back with a apology that I missed them. That’s if we have a history together.

Hopefully you two can make up!! XOXOOXO

[DownForWhatever]

...wondering how many of those nebulous texts the average provider receives on a daily basis???

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

...wondering how many of those nebulous texts the average provider receives on a daily basis???

It's so annoying to get generic type of texts. From somebody who could be anyone.

Best when writing to say more than hello. Text a name, then a greeting and an intention.

EW

[DownForWhatever]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

It's so annoying to get generic type of texts. From somebody who could be anyone.

Best when writing to say more than hello. Text a name, then a greeting and an intention.

EW

...so I guess random "dick pics" are out of the question???

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Sleeping just saying ,,,,

X2

[Modmanix]

Love the excuses ladies. Wonder how these same excuses would float at a real world job? Guess most know the answer already.
Sleeping? lmfao

[funjohn]

Solicitation texts from someone I have seen in the past or a belated text ( responding more than an hour after I sent my text) are big red flags in my book and they can create RW issues. Only if given the green light to text or to respond in a reasonable period ( I’m ok if they don’t respond because the time elapsed) should be acceptable.

[Grace Preston]

Originally Posted by Modmanix

Love the excuses ladies. Wonder how these same excuses would float at a real world job? Guess most know the answer already.
Sleeping? lmfao

Its not an "excuse" if you aren't scheduled. At a "real world job" there is no expectation of an immediate answer when you are not scheduled to be at work.

[Gentlemen Rendezvous]

My experience has been initial contact is difficult but once a personal connection is made responses come much quicker.

Be patient, proactive, and politely persistent

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

a lot , had I guy the other day wanting appt right now, I ask for screening info and said he doesn't give info out I said BYE he just kept texting and I just did't replay back.. so meany in a day , with little or no info just a
( are you available now)

Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

...wondering how many of those nebulous texts the average provider receives on a daily basis???

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Yes it is ..

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

It's so annoying to get generic type of texts. From somebody who could be anyone.

Best when writing to say more than hello. Text a name, then a greeting and an intention.

EW

[BLM69]

Poor guys wasting their time, I'm glad I don't have that problem

[ValenTX]

Send a text asking if she is up. No response. Logical assumption she is not up. Did you expect her to respond in her sleep or maybe have a manager monitoring phone?

I figure most of the ladies work late and thus sleep in. Perhaps she might have responded something like I was not up at 8 am but I am up now. But really I think Hi sweetie gets the point across. You are probably over reacting. Have a little more respect for her and plan further ahead.

[Samhyde]

Originally Posted by ValenTX

Send a text asking if she is up. No response. Logical assumption she is not up. Did you expect her to respond in her sleep or maybe have a manager monitoring phone?

I figure most of the ladies work late and thus sleep in. Perhaps she might have responded something like I was not up at 8 am but I am up now. But really I think Hi sweetie gets the point across. You are probably over reacting. Have a little more respect for her and plan further ahead.

Good grief dude, no I did not expect her to wake up from her sleep. The logical expectation in my mind would be that she not respond at all.

And I wasn't disrespecting her. I don 't know where you're getting that from. Her text responding back with out acknowledging the prolonged elapsed time, gave me a chuckle. It speaks nothing to her character.

[Lindsay Lee]

If YOU have fear of HER responding at a BAD time then you should have TOLD her!!


Example:
Hey seeing if you are up this morning. Please don’t text back after 10am... She can’t read your mind.

It’s simple.