How do you get a mans attention in here?

[guest031012]

Originally Posted by Chelitotito

Jenny Craig and lifetime fitness. Come back in 90 days with new pics.

Ohh the ignorance, not to mention disrespect. Contrary to what you believe Chelitotito, bbws get their fair share of appointments/business. You can trust me on that one





to the OP, I think you should get your old reviews linked to your new handle. Men are leary about TOFTT if there is not a reputation already built. They want to know that they will be satisfied with the quality of service you offer and the rate they are paying for it.

And if you don't mind me asking, why did you change your name/handle? Sometimes something as simple as that can scare away potential clients...they may think you are trying to hide from a past on here.

Best of luck to you
xoxo

[HunterGrace]

Maybe big girls attract a more private type of clientelle. But, I remember when Betsy was staying with me. She was as busy as she wanted to be! Maybe it was those bj's she gives, I think it was that plus her bodacious ta-tas.

[mrbobw1]

free samples will get their attention

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by HunterGrace

Are you kidding me? You probably know this already but more men watch bbw porn than anorexic fake tittie porn.

Are you kidding me that is? I can't bring myself to watch BBW porn. Furthermore you could not pay me enough money to go there BCD.
No offense to you Naughty as you are a beautiful woman and I am a petite loving guy. This is directed at an ignorant remark.

Hunter.. Chelitotito's comment was quite insensitive and uncalled for but it clearly is his honest opinion and not an uncommon sentiment judging from the many thumbs up he received.

Originally Posted by HunterGrace

The BBW's attract the straight men. Spinners went out of style like ten years ago.

I must be gay AND behind the times because my GF is a petite fit spinner with serious womanly hips, apple shaped bubble butt and 100% natural perky breasts and this has always been and likely always will be my fantasy body type. I never knew there was a decades time frame affiliated with men's preferences in women.

Originally Posted by HunterGrace

The reason skinny models are in the magazines is because gay men design the clothes and skinny girls look like prepubescent boys.

What has his remark remotely got to do with skinny girls who look like prepubescent boys? There are a WHOLE lotta healthy, sexy, fit foxes somewhere in between BBW and skinny prepubescent boy bodies.

Originally Posted by HunterGrace

I have a strap on, does it make you tingle?

Some serious ignorance is showing here. I guess both my uninhibited GF and I are Extremely gay because she gets off more than I do using one on me.
She's the one always asking if she can pull it out of the toy drawer. Besides what does a strap-on remotely have to do with gay sex or tendencies?
One doesn't usually hear a provider making such an asinine remark. A homophobic sexually inexperienced guy perhaps but certainly not an experienced provider.

[guest031812]

It was most likely her prices that kept her so busy.... 90 percent of my boyfriends around here prefer spinners.... but back to the OPs original post.. Try p411, backpage, eros, cityvibe, pm me for more....

[Britttany_love]

Everybody has there own tastes and preferences. You have a type that you like that's fine.. But why is this turning into a BBW bashing thread seriously now can we all act as adults.

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Everybody has there own tastes and preferences. You have a type that you like that's fine.. But why is this turning into a BBW bashing thread seriously now can we all act as adults.

I personally was neither bashing BBW's as individuals nor as a group. I would never bash any group. My apologies to any BBW's who took it that way.

I was however stating my preferences in response to Hunter's ridiculous comments that the majority of straight men now prefer BBW's and BBW porn.

The OP asked a very specific question regarding why she was receiving NO attention which Chelitotito responded to bluntly. His comment was as I stated insensitive and IMO inappropriate but the high thumbs up response he got shows it should not be totally dismissed as useless advice.

The nicest and most likable people on the board appear to be BBW's from what I can tell but the OP is basically asking what will get her phone ringing as no one is calling based upon her photos and ads.
Aside from offering ridiculously low priced BJ specials what better advice would you give? Lack of exposure is clearly not the problem.

[Chelitotito]

Ladies.... She wanted honesty and i gave it to her. BBW is one thing, dangerously obese its a disease is very different.

Hunter, I agree 100% with you. Sticks with fake tits are not my thing. Healthy I say. Healthy does not mean obese. I am not saying a girl can have some junk but it should be proportionate to her height. I think your pics are beautiful. I think Ms. Fran is beautiful. I find girls Macy and Kelli Love beautiful. All of these girls are not runway 95 lb models. They are good looking girls With healthy bodies. There is a major difference.

[kingorpawn]

Offer a buy one, get one free.

[Chelitotito]

Among others in my fancy I would add. Athena Love, Unfortgettable Ana, Christina Cutie, and Jaylene. None of these girls are tits on a stick or runway body type models.

Fine, I agree insensitive yes. Truthful? Yes.

[Britttany_love]

She asked for marketing advice, where to post and what not to help her gain clientele. I'm sorry but your post telling her to get to Jenny Craig and lifetime fitness is completely uncalled for and has nothing to do what so ever with the subject of the post. Opinions such as yours rude and hateful should be kept to yourself. This is a grown up (adult board) why do some still act as bullies picking on people as if your in junior high.

[Chelitotito]

Arguing this point with some of you ladies is a fruitless venture. Weight here is like discussing politics or religion in real life. Let's agree to disagree and if it makes you feel better than I am ok with being called an ass.

[GRIN OF SIN]

Moving past some of the comments, I'll try to offer some advice from my perspective.

Seeing as you would be considered a BBW, you cater to a certain group of men. I suggest you find out what these men look for in a BBW and try to focus on those things in your ads and photos.

I wouldn't consider myself a BBW man, per say, but when I think of a BBW, I think they are very giving and more willing to please a man, as they tend not to be as self-absorbed as a woman with a more "commercial" body-type. This isn't always the case; I'm just going off my own personal experiences.

A man who isn't comfortable with his own body, for example, might consider going to a BBW provider to help build confidence, as they may feel less judged. Play on that, maybe.

I've heard that men with large members enjoy seeing providers with more junk in the trunk, because it's easier to just go all out -- less worry about hurting the girl. Can't say it's true, but it's something to think about when advertising.

So on and so forth. Know your market and cater.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by HunterGrace

Are you kidding me? You probably know this already but more men watch bbw porn than anorexic fake tittie porn. The BBW's attract the straight men. Spinners went out of style like ten years ago.

Such a ridiculous and unfounded statement Hunter....

BBWs may get their fair share of business.... But They are by no means in demand.

They tend to be more prolific posters... many tend to believe that is the result of not being as busy as others and needing to rely on personality and time spent to breed familiarity....

There are far more height weight proportionate providers and spinners then BBWs....

I've attended hundreds of socials and parties where the ladies in attendance are those invited by men.... I've seen very few BBW ladies get invited....

The review section is dominated by reviews of ladies that are not BBW...The idea or concept that men are not interested in spinners is ludicrous.

She asked for an opinion and got several... One of which some consider offensive... others consider a fair response.

I am an obese man... I would never consider dressing the way many obese women in this business do.... I would never upload pictures of myself on an internet website and not expect ridicule from some....

I am comfortable with myself... She must be with herself....

But she opened the door....

Most of you are out of line in criticizing him for his opinion..... Like others said.... It is one supported by many....

Threads of this nature play out VERY differently in locker rooms and men only forums across the internet....

and most agree... There is BBW.... and there is obese....

In many markets Agencies have strong presence..... there are never more than a token 1 or 2 BBWs with most Agencies.... and I have never seen an obese one marketed...


Thousands of young ladies take to the stage of strip clubs all over the state every night.

I can't imagine a single one of her physique in play....

If there was a market for it you would see it addressed to some extent.....

Instead... Blonde Barbies..... and Spinners dominate the clubs with other body types having token representation...

[boobs mcgee]

im with Whispers on this one. not too many big or overweight women in the strip clubs. and the ones who are there probably dont make as much money as the tits on stick girls. just like the 40-year-old dancer probably doesn't make as much as the 20-year-old.

but when it comes to porn, who knows. there is all kinds of fetish porn. people like to watch others shit on each other, but there certainly isn't a large market of live shit shows either.