Women of Eccie,
all of you know i'm not a provider, i dont play one on Eccie TV, nor do i purport to speak authoritatively on behalf of any of you.
so, if i am speaking out of line, giving answers/comments that are way off base, or am being an ass as well as a real idiot, please let me know. [i might even let you spank me for any/all of the above :^]
FWP,
what i've been posting is based on many of my experiences since i entered this sub-culture back in 1997 or so. i am not just making this up. if i were, i'd have a reality series on MTV [the non-music television cable station] :^]
it just seems to me that you're essentially asking the same question over and over again and essentially getting the same answer over and over again.
what you think a woman should do, whether you think it's easy for her to do A instead of B, or what you believe is less/more riskier is your opinion only [unless you are teaching Providing 300, 400 (lab included), 500, 600 level classes as well as graduate classes at
http://www.funed.com].
from a specific women's point of view, there might be a difference, maybe not in the effort, but at least in the answer. there might not be a logical or well thought out pattern or framework behind it. and there doesnt have to be. if there is, the woman's business might be a bit more efficient, but again, that's for her to decide.
the thing that truly matters is that
each of the women conducts her business her own way, for better or worse, consistently or inconsistenly, based on her model, a model she got from another woman or on the color of her shoes/hair/stockings/condoms. [that's more humor explicitly interjected to indicate that this is and is not a serious subject].
my general suggestion [about this and most provider/client topics/questions] is to either
a) learn about how she conducts her own business [see below], accept it for what it is, and abide by it or
b) move on.
with all the women here in the dallas-ft worth area [829 provider showcases in dallas, not all active], there's got to be at least one whose business model is closer to what you'd like or can accept.
for your current question and for many others, there probably wont ever be a single answer for ALL of the women who advertise on Eccie, P411, TER, eraps, eros, backpage, the ANE, and elsewhere. [even the oft cried out mantra of "screen, screen, and screen again" is not universally followed]
if there is a specific woman behind your original question, i suggest you pose it to her and find out how she runs her business.
this is tangentially related to the current "Eccie Specials" thread -
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=302228
i suggest you read Zoe Nichole's statement in her 3rd paragraph in post #9 in this thread on swingers clubs.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=301086
in my opinion, it's very applicable to the providing sub-culture, even if she posted it n a thread about swingers clubs.
