Quote:
Originally Posted by ForbiddenFriend1
P.S. I'm still curious to know if a dominant man can respect, cherish and adore the woman he dominates and must punish at times. Or, does he dominate the women out of hatred and disrespect.
|
This thread has caused some reflection on my part and I can think of a handful of providers who have requested mild dominance from me. In each instance I respected and liked the provider and my response was not to hurt or humiliate her, but rather to cater to her specific desire to be submissive and feel dominated. Quite frankly, I was a bit flummoxed and clumsy in my responses, but I think I will do better in the future.
This may be obvious but it needs to be said. Submissive behavior is voluntary and ends when a lady's limits have been met. That's why you have safe words that signal that playtime is over. It is a fantasy. That's why they S & M encounters are called "scenes". It is also gives the dominant male a license to do things from his darker (though controlled) side.
So, yeah, at least from me, dominant behavior is completely compatible with respect and affection.
