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OliviaAllenDSM · 06-19-2023, 08:45 AM

Unless I'm putting my own money on the line, I won't ask for a deposit. I've been asked if I need one prior to meeting and I've always declined. I'd rather we both risk as little as possible when meeting.

That being said, if I'm booking a room or traveling just for you, yes I will require one which I feel is a reasonable ask.

For ladies who travel, they take a risk of going negative when traveling so a small percentage of cost is reasonable. This is where you look into their history and research. Yes, there are people who will steal money, but I'm betting they have done it before and it's documented on a forum somewhere. When in doubt, go with your gut.

Verified · 06-19-2023, 02:21 PM

I’ve paid deposits. Only to established providers with great reputations, and I’ve never had any problems.

SinOrSwim · 06-19-2023, 02:33 PM

For those that ask and/or have paid deposits, are you doing so via cashapp or venmo? I think that would be my biggest concern. Having an electronic trail to a known escort. That concern is for both.

I do get a laugh out of the ads that say if you cancel within so manyhours you will be charged 50% of the rate. Not sure how taht is ever collected. I guess if it was someone you really wanted to see?

Redton2751 · 06-19-2023, 03:39 PM

I can see both sides to the deposit question. Guys doing the NCNS to ladies, especially traveling ladies ends up not only wasting their time, but reduces the amount of profit from a trip.

On my side, my time and money both disappear if I get ghosted after paying a deposit. We both suffer from other bad apples who have tainted the pool for the rest of us. I for one have been burned and leery about pre-paying, helping, or paying a deposit. Too many times this ends in a poor situation. I typically do not contact people asking for a deposit of any amount. It is your right to ask for one certainly, but if I really want to see the person, I do hope my P411 ok’s and time spent here will ease a provider’s concern. I will ask them if these verifications will suffice. If not, I am probably going to stay with people who know me and know that if I make an appointment, I will do everything in my power to be there. There is a great deal of trust we share, and we need to respect each other’s time and money.

HoustonRiley · 07-11-2023, 08:16 PM

I've never offered deposits.... from a provider standpoint it seems to have popped up for two reasons... one for a lady to feel like she's guaranteeing an appointment and not a no-call no-show, waste of time, and two I've seen some ladies use it as a collection. And then stand everyone up.
I don't ask for one ever. But I'm old school. I screen. And if you canceled ahead of time like a gentleman. Then you remain good to good.... but it you cancel right before or do a ncns. I just safe the number as such, and don't waste time on them again. Be smart with your money fellas.

Stephanie_Lynn · 07-13-2023, 08:06 AM

Thoughts on this, its best if you know how to screen your provider tryst has a lot of issues with girls getting hacked because they are clicking on emails sent by scammers and they change numbers and ask for deposits, a lot of times not always it’s not even the girl you are trying to see. Make sure you look up your provider make sure that number matches. Deposits i don’t think are a bad thing, these days we have multiple people playing on our end as well, scheduling and not showing not responding or shutting off the fake number. After a certain time i have to prioritize my day as well so for night appointments i do ask for deposit. This is why reviews are great in helping with this or knowing the provider before the appointment.

FatCity · 07-13-2023, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by SinOrSwim

For those that ask and/or have paid deposits, are you doing so via cashapp or venmo? I think that would be my biggest concern. Having an electronic trail to a known escort?

Venmo and I'm the same as verified. If they are 10s and legit on Tryst, I'll gladly drop a deposit for a pro.

Most are smart enough that their account isnt a person or sex ...its some type of 'consulting' avatar you are sending money to

Yama220 · 08-02-2023, 08:23 AM

You have good points on your side. But as one that’s been taken a few times by deposits and sob stories, some gals don’t see the big picture of taking $40 and missing the rest of the donation. By the time someone gets on here or elsewhere and posts a don’t see review, they could have gotten a lot of $40 deposits. I think most of them weren’t planning on meeting anyway. Or it’s a guy with stolen pics that’s obviously not going to show.

CPFBurner · 08-05-2023, 12:33 PM

I don't pay it due to the near certainty of being scammed, as well as the digital trail connecting me to a provider. I've never not shown up for an appointment but providers flake all the time. Some more than others.

Just my .02

Forfuqs · 09-04-2023, 06:22 AM

Was out of town this weekend, paid a deposit as I had a gal coming from a neighboring town and traveling to me.

Only paid a deposit AFTER she showed me a gas receipt from a town between us so I could be somewhat sure she was heading my way and for real.

She sent me a pic of the gas receipt, $42, i sent a deposit of $50 as agreed and never heard from the person again.