providers online dating on the rise

[mirandalee]

Im with you on this Roxanne for some this is just to save up and get ahead for others it could be a career. I miss have a bf to cuddle with and spend time with but I would not be doing this if I were to meet a great guy and it gets serious.

[Datura]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

The catch is finding a civie who is willing to faithfully commit on any level to a woman who spreads her legs, butt cheeks and sucks dicks all day before coming home to bed.

For this reason I would Never attach emotionally to a provider. .

Cody, in the interest of honesty and fairness, do you disclose to the women you date that you pay for sex?

As for the original poster, you really find it odd that a provider might seek out an actual relationship not based on a dynamic that involves an hourly fee with a stage name?

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by Datura

Cody, in the interest of honesty and fairness, do you disclose to the women you date that you pay for sex?
?

I cant speak for Cody, but I have told every girl I have dated that I have paid for Providers, most of them do not care but a few of them just could not understand..
and this is what they actually said to me..

" why didnt you just go to a bar and pick up drunk girls for sex"

I could not get that at all, you would rather me prey on drunk women than simply pay for it and be done with it no emotions attached???? needless to say we did not date long...

[knotty man]

there is no greater love....than the love of "NQNS"

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by Datura

Cody, in the interest of honesty and fairness, do you disclose to the women you date that you pay for sex?

Well considering that I haven't hobbied for over a year and a half it's a moot point but to answer that question I NEVER would hobby nor have I EVER hobbied while in a committed relationship which is why I haven't hobbied for so long.

In fact I've never even cheated in the civie world because I've never believed in staying in any relationship which doesn't provide what I need in the bedroom.
At present I am unattached and am considering hobbying again but can't get past how risky the hobby has become.

Would I ever tell a serious relationship that I have hobbied in the past? I would discuss that no more than I would my past lovers. Neither is healthy for nurturing a new relationship.
Nor would I need to know or care if she had hobbied in the past. I wouldn't mind if she did because at least she would know how to please me in bed. I would reap the rewards of that past.

In fact I once married a retired high end escort which I knew about before we married. The marriage only ended because she was bipolar and her Mr. Hyde personality started providing secretly on the side.

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by knotty man

there is no greater love....than the love of "NQNS"

+1

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by knotty man

there is no greater love....than the love of "NQNS"

Well they do say the bird of liberty is the eagle, bird of peace is the dove and off course the bird of true love is the SWALLOW.

[Mr Blonde]

Originally Posted by Datura

Cody, in the interest of honesty and fairness, do you disclose to the women you date that you pay for sex?

As for the original poster, you really find it odd that a provider might seek out an actual relationship not based on a dynamic that involves an hourly fee with a stage name?

We pay for it one way or another.

Do I find it odd... No. I find it odd that I can recognise a woman I have never met. Meaning...if I saw u bcd... Then see u online and recognise Ur pic...that's one thing. But if u are one of the girls with Ur face splattered all over a site like this... Why put it... All over a site that has real info.... Like Ur exact place of employment...bla blah blah.

Not to mention... We have some pretty sick puppies in the world...besides myself. I do worry about a girls safety... Even tho capt morals missed the sarcasm on the 200 overnighter.

[Mr Blonde]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

I cant speak for Cody, but I have told every girl I have dated that I have paid for Providers, most of them do not care but a few of them just could not understand..
and this is what they actually said to me..

" why didnt you just go to a bar and pick up drunk girls for sex"

I could not get that at all, you would rather me prey on drunk women than simply pay for it and be done with it no emotions attached???? needless to say we did not date long...

The ones that didn't care probably sucked for a buck once or twoce in there life.

[Mr Blonde]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

+1

That... And the woman that will wipe ur ass for u when u no longer can is a close second.

[agentx]

I've known at least two former providers who found their 'true loves' - told them about their work in the biz, etc. They got married to good guys who accepted who they are (but they did retire...). People need love (or affection/respect/acceptance) as much as they need sex...

[Codybeast]

Originally Posted by agentx

I've known at least two former providers who found their 'true loves' - told them about their work in the biz, etc. They got married to good guys who accepted who they are (but they did retire...). People need love (or affection/respect/acceptance) as much as they need sex...

No one is saying it's not possible for a provider to find potential true love, be honest about what she does and quit hooking so it can blossom.

I don't believe true love can become realized when a provider continues to sell her body to other men out of choice. Of course that is just my opinion.

There are many stories of providers quitting the hobby to nurture potential new love and succeeding.
The key phrase is quitting the hobby immediately upon find it.

When it comes down to it, what kind of woman would really want a man who was perfectly fine with her continuing to have sex with other men while they are supposedly in love?

[Mr Blonde]

Let's not forget the other 'key' to quitting the game for a man... He better have money. Just ask LL. worked great for her.

[Datura]

Originally Posted by Codybeast

Well considering that I haven't hobbied for over a year and a half it's a moot point but to answer that question I NEVER would hobby nor have I EVER hobbied while in a committed relationship which is why I haven't hobbied for so long.

You haven't hobbied while in a committed relationship? That sounds like you continue to hobby until things become committed, which means you aren't acting in the interests of full disclosure, yet you think a provider needs to quit providing immediately to allow the relationship to "blossom"?

That's a lot of hair-splitting and cognitive acrobatics in order to justify the premise that it's a problem for a woman to whore, but not for a man to be a whoremonger, while dating someone. Fascinating!

[happybanana]

Datura, becareful, your intelligence and rapier wit are starting to show...

HP