to tip or not to tip!

[xxxalyssaxxx]

Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

No trying to be rude : ) but...
What about the girl who constantly begs wines and guilts a client into seeing her, should she be giving him a tip or discount? Is he wrong to ask for a discount?
JW

I don't know of anyone that behaves that way. To me that sounds like a guy trying to feel or sound overly wanted by a lady. I'd imagine if she wanted to see him that badly that she is supposedly begging then he wouldn't have to ask for a discount so it sounds like BS to me right from start ….

[Next Best Thing]

The begging, whining, guilting, over-complimenting, shaming, etc, are all rudimentary forms of basic hooking silly.

[Next Best Thing]

Creating doubt in the mind of the properly hooked customer is another one, usually accomplished through overt attempts to contrive jealousy.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by tinylatina

I don't know of anyone that behaves that way. To me that sounds like a guy trying to feel or sound overly wanted by a lady. I'd imagine if she wanted to see him that badly that she is supposedly begging then he wouldn't have to ask for a discount so it sounds like BS to me right from start ….

I have heard of a few that do that regularly, so not thinking bs.. I think that some beg bc they need the $ not necessarily bc they want to see the guy.. so I would think if she needed the $ that bad she wouldn't have a problem with a guy asking for a discount/ haggling a bit.... maybe she isn't so upset about haggling but the fact that he may not see her regardless of the amount she begs/ wines to him..

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The begging, whining, guilting, over-complimenting, shaming, etc, are all rudimentary forms of basic hooking silly.

I must have missed basic hooking 101
Lol

[Next Best Thing]

The impression I've been left with is that you're a frigging expert.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Creating doubt in the mind of the properly hooked customer is another one, usually accomplished through overt attempts to contrive jealousy.

How would a hook go about doing that?
I need a few more tips to add to my "The art of hooking" book

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The impression I've been left with is that you're a frigging expert.

Not an expert but learning as I go, and always willing to learn new things : )

[Next Best Thing]

Make snide, off-handed comments implying that you enjoy fucking one (or numerous) of your other victims more.

Kayla I need some advice. I'm having a problem with a hook.

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Make snide, off-handed comments implying that you enjoy fucking one (or numerous) of your other victims more.

Kayla I need some advice. I'm having a problem with a hook.

Maybe, but I'm sure that may hurt the relationship more then help

I'm willing to give advice?
Not sure I can help but I'm willing to try : )

[xxxalyssaxxx]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The begging, whining, guilting, over-complimenting, shaming, etc, are all rudimentary forms of basic hooking silly.

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Creating doubt in the mind of the properly hooked customer is another one, usually accomplished through overt attempts to contrive jealousy.

Hahaha. Touche. Perhaps for some, at times, I'd imagine.

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

Maybe but I'm sure that may hurt the relationship more then help

I'm willing to give advice?
Not sure I can help but I'm willing to try : )

What it does is force the hooked customer to try to please you in other ways ie with what you want most, the contents of his wallet.

That way you'll want him just as much as the customers who have bigger cranks, are in better physical condition, etc. Mentally weak men fall for this kind of thing once you have them good and hooked.

[xxxalyssaxxx]

Originally Posted by KaylaRyder

I have heard of a few that do that regularly, so not thinking bs.. I think that some beg bc they need the $ not necessarily bc they want to see the guy.. so I would think if she needed the $ that bad she wouldn't have a problem with a guy asking for a discount/ haggling a bit.... maybe she isn't so upset about haggling but the fact that he may not see her regardless of the amount she begs/ wines to him..

If she needs the money so much that she's supposedly begging then why is he having to haggle? Still sounds like BS to me or a distorted story at best …. but then again, as NBT stated above, apparently it is more common that I had thought so who knows...

[offshoredrilling]

ask once only, if no move on.

[xxxalyssaxxx]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

ask once only, if no move on.

Exactly! And asking respectfully goes a long way.