Letting everyone know that I'm back!

[Guest040313-1]

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Eew, Blad, no offense Mr. chan but that is something I never ever wanted to think about. LOL

I actually took Blad’s remark as compliment (metaphorically speaking of coarse) towards Mr.Chan‘s uncanny ability to so eloquently put his thought process into written words.
But don't worry. I'm sure no one here on the board will mention your comment to others on the board

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

None taken. Having never performed fellatio I have no frame of reference, and like yourself I prefer not to allow my mind to dwell on the topic. The honorable gentleman bestowing the above mentioned complimentary thunderbolt may have more experience in such matters and I would have to defer to his expertise.
Some things like some people we do well to remain happily ignorant of.

Ditto Chan, as always, well said

Originally Posted by Lazrback

Given the age of the "saying" You use your tongue prettier than a $20.00 whore, and the rate of inflation,, I'm thinking that equates to a $2000.00 whore,,, which I have never experienced, but I assume would be very good.

oh,, btw:

And I might add,, welcome back Mega, and thanks for the timely reminder. I hope everyone reread the whole post.

With inflation figured in, and if Mr.Chan was somehow officially nominated eccie’s proverbial “Eloquently Written Post Whore” and he were to be compensated accordingly for his time composing said posts (back pay taken into consideration) … holy cow man … He would be standing side by side with Donald Trump, LOL.

After I had carefully read & reread the Guidelines probably 5 times, and researched the references and the hobby acronyms that I was unsure of … I feel much more confident in making posts and contributing to the threads than I did before.
I would recommend to one and all, to take a little time to truly read through the guidelines and learn the do’s and do not’s of posting in the forums. Most are simply common sense, but there are several twists thrown in, in which one can easily stump their toe. There are also several gray areas, which in my opinion will lead you back to the common sense factor of simply being respectful of the others around you.

[Rockydoc]

Most of the guidelines are common sense. The only difficult one is giving everyone equal respect, when some posters seem to go out of their way earning disrespect, LOL.

[Guest040313-1]

Originally Posted by Rockydoc

Most of the guidelines are common sense. The only difficult one is giving everyone equal respect, when some posters seem to go out of their way earning disrespect, LOL.

I couldn’t agree with you more RD. I think that MrH & Lazr are spot on when they have talked about trying to make the eccie boards lean a bit more to the friendly and lighter side rather than all of the drama and BS that is tending to keep the majority of the eccie members silent from the fear that they will be ridiculed and harassed if they post.
I think that one of the best ways that I have heard this put here on eccie is a statement that I’ve heard MrH make several times. Might not be an exact quote but this is close enough that everyone should get the general idea. “We’re all here to have fun fucking, and to have fucking fun”

[offshoredrilling]

you can never have 2 providers in a room and not have drama. Add any number of hobbyist for a real mess. errrrr just sayin ahhh imo

sometimes, it only takes one provider

[Sexy_Brittany]

All this talk of ECCIE drama -- If ECCIE world is bothering you or causing you grief while you are away from your computer then maybe it's time to take a break from the hobby. Most of the "drama" (I hate that word) is escalated when hobbyist/providers involve themselves in issues/situations where there presence in neither needed nor appreciated.

Still waters run deep and no one benefits when an uninformed outside party comes along waving their hands and ranting about drama. All the WK'ing (hobbyist) and co-signing (providers) is counter-productive and irritating. We are all big boys and girls and I don't think any of us need a bodyguard to protect us during verbal combat.

Voicing opinions or ideas in open forum invites other opinions and ideas. If everyone is afraid to post then thats their problem. Every time I post anything I run the risk of offending someone; it doesn't stop me from posting. All this effort to protect the weak. Why? If they're too afraid to post then I doubt they have anything worthwhile to say. I feel strongly on various subjects and I am fully capable of defending my logic if challenged. If a member is taking the time to post an opinion or idea then they are responsible for the context of that post. If another member doesn't agree then it becomes a discussion (sometimes heated, and thats ok too) and we all have a chance to view the issue from 2 different perspectives. I enjoy witty banter. I like hearing the opinions of others and when they differ from my own then I admire a person who is willing to trade insight and explain the logic behind whatever issue is causing the controversy. I don't expect to be handled with kid gloves and I don't need anyone standing on the sidelines cheering me on. If I'm wrong on an issue then I'm woman enough to admit it. If someone doesn't agree with something I say then should I pout and snivel or retreat into hobby solitude?! I feel no sympathy for anyone who is "afraid" to post nor do I feel sympathy for those who recklessly interact and contribute nonsense but are incapable of defending the logic or reason behind their thoughts.

If you can't take the heat then stay outta the kitchen.

[Guest040313-1]

Well hi there Brittney
I’m glad to see that you’ve given a few moments of your precious time to enlighten us as to how much you enjoy stimulating conversation. I can only assume that your post was directed at me due to your lack of addressing anyone else here, and me being the OP. So here you go.
I’ll start by saying that I’m really not sure where you have read into any of my posts that I am spending any of my time off eccie struggling with all the BS and drama that goes on here on the board. I truly appreciate your concern and your recommendation that I should take a break from the hobby Doctor Brittney, but if you don’t mind, I think for the moment I will simply continue along with my affairs as I see fit and enjoy the hobby in the way that I feel best suits me. But thank you for the suggestion anyway, as it’s always nice to know that someone has taken their time and shown concern for someone else’s well being.

All this talk of ECCIE drama -- If ECCIE world is bothering you or causing you grief while you are away from your computer then maybe it's time to take a break from the hobby. Most of the "drama" (I hate that word) is escalated when hobbyist/providers involve themselves in issues/situations where there presence in neither needed nor appreciated.
See your statement above!

Still waters run deep and no one benefits when an uninformed outside party comes along waving their hands and ranting about drama.
See your statement above!
All the WK'ing (hobbyist) and co-signing (providers) is counter-productive and irritating. We are all big boys and girls and I don't think any of us need a bodyguard to protect us during verbal combat.
I don’t think that I have ever been accused of WK’ing but I guess if Brittney the Great want’s to make that accusation towards me, then I should what … sit in the corner and tremble? Beg for mercy … LMAO, that’s probably not going to happen Britt … Sorry!

Voicing opinions or ideas in open forum invites other opinions and ideas. If everyone is afraid to post then thats their problem. Every time I post anything I run the risk of offending someone; it doesn't stop me from posting. All this effort to protect the weak. Why? If they're too afraid to post then I doubt they have anything worthwhile to say.
I feel strongly on various subjects and I am fully capable of defending my logic if challenged. If a member is taking the time to post an opinion or idea then they are responsible for the context of that post. If another member doesn't agree then it becomes a discussion (sometimes heated, and thats ok too) and we all have a chance to view the issue from 2 different perspectives. I enjoy witty banter. I like hearing the opinions of others and when they differ from my own then I admire a person who is willing to trade insight and explain the logic behind whatever issue is causing the controversy. I don't expect to be handled with kid gloves and I don't need anyone standing on the sidelines cheering me on. If I'm wrong on an issue then I'm woman enough to admit it. If someone doesn't agree with something I say then should I pout and snivel or retreat into hobby solitude?! I feel no sympathy for anyone who is "afraid" to post nor do I feel sympathy for those who recklessly interact and contribute nonsense but are incapable of defending the logic or reason behind their thoughts.
You are a very intelligent young lady Brittney and if there was anyone that I would expect to encourage outside input from some of the new and sometimes shy members … it would be you. Intelligence is a wonderful thing to be blessed with, but not nearly as useful on a hooker board as good ole Common Sense.
It would seem to me that rather than ridiculing new members, you would go out of your way to make them feel comfortable if for no other reason than to harvest new quality clients. But then again … what do I know?

If you can't take the heat then stay outta the kitchen.
Very sound advise! Do you cook too? LOL

[tuckahoe]

Hhhmmmmmmmm . . . . If you can't take the heat then stay outta the kitchen.
Very sound advise! Do you cook too? LOL

If her cookin is even half as good as her reviews, she can start a restaurant. Maybe she already has - I hear she is quite tasty! Maybe she should have said "if you can't take the heat, stay outta my bedroom"!!!!

I don't always agree with Brittany, but she does have spunk, and I am glad she ain't afeared to post.

[Rockydoc]

Mgl, I had a different take on Brittany's thesis. I read it as a more general statement addressing what has happened in the past. Thus, there may be an issue between two posters. A post addresses that. That post is invariably followed by posts defending or stacking either side. Brittany suggests that is what leads to the escalation of a somewhat private argument into a full scale hobby war. Brittany stated she can handle herself and when discussing a private or prior issue with another poster that may have had many other posts and PMs leading to this interaction, to leave the posters alone to settle their differences, without others with limited knowledge of the arguments history to chime in and stir the pot. I understand why you took it personally, mgl as you started the thread, and hence take responses more personally, but from another perspective it did not appear to be personal, but a more generic position statement.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by megustalatina

I couldn’t agree with you more RD. I think that MrH & Lazr are spot on when they have talked about trying to make the eccie boards lean a bit more to the friendly and lighter side rather than all of the drama and BS that is tending to keep the majority of the eccie members silent from the fear that they will be ridiculed and harassed if they post.
I think that one of the best ways that I have heard this put here on eccie is a statement that I’ve heard MrH make several times. Might not be an exact quote but this is close enough that everyone should get the general idea. “We’re all here to have fun fucking, and to have fucking fun”

The friendliness and respect go both ways. Respect is earned.

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by pyramider

The friendliness and respect go both ways. Respect is earned.

I think I owe all men respect. It is up to them if they choose to keep it.

[Logan135]

Brit - you go girl ......wait, nevermind....

I do agree that basically on any forum where you are dealing with anonymous posters that it is hard to avoid drama. Lots of keyboard cowboys and with just an internet presence civility seems to go by the wayside quicker than a physical conversation would.......plus one's amusing sarcasm (in that poster's mind) might come off as jackassery from another perspective.

Thanks to the moderators that volunteer their time to referree the sometimes heated discussions....

[Guest040313-1]

Hey guys,
I didn’t blast into one of Britt’s thread thumping & bumping. She in fact introduced herself into my thread and began her rant, a slams directed at me. As she stated in her post here, she is a big girl, and pretty much stated she would say what she wants, when she wants and if someone doesn’t like it … That’s their problem!
@ tuck
As to rather or not I think Britt would be a tasty treat, I feel certain that she would be.
@ Rocky
As to misinterpreting what she was saying in her post … I think not. I’m not going to waste my time digging through the threads & posts over the past few days, but do a little research & you’ll find that this was not the first time that she has directed her bile in my direction.
@ Pyramider
I’ll be damned. I had came to the conclusion that we might never agree on anything, but I have been proven wrong with your post.
Welcome to the Arkansas Forums.
@ Mr.Chan
A truer statement could not have been made.
@Logan135
Considering that since this past March you have only posted 2 reviews and both have been on Sexy Brittany and you really don’t have a dog in this hunt. It could be considered in some circles as WK’ing. It’s your call but ijs.

All the WK'ing (hobbyist) and co-signing (providers) is counter-productive and irritating. We are all big boys and girls and I don't think any of us need a bodyguard to protect us during verbal combat.
Voicing opinions or ideas in open forum invites other opinions and ideas. If everyone is afraid to post then thats their problem. Every time I post anything I run the risk of offending someone; it doesn't stop me from posting. All this effort to protect the weak. Why? If they're too afraid to post then I doubt they have anything worthwhile to say.

[Sexy_Brittany]

Originally Posted by megustalatina

Who else is completely “FED THE FUCK UP” with the “Texas Harassment Crew” (THC?) … High Jacking threads here in the Arkansas forums?
I’m sick to fucking death of trying to gain insight? (Insight, eh? Does the request for taint actually effect your ability to gain insight?? Or is it Pyramider's avatar that is causing the insight blockage?!) from a thread that has been posted and having to rifle through waist deep “HORSE SHIT about TAINT” in a thread that was posted in an attempt to help keep us safe or someone asking for information.

They have their own taint thread here now … But they continue to high jack our local threads!
I am EXTREAMLY DISAPOINTED in the ladies that have encouraged this childish crap (Pft. You think you're disappointed?!? Go ask my dad how he feels regarding my life altering decisions!!! The TX guys are on the same team you're on. You aren't doing anyone a favor by pounding your fists on your chest and jumping up and down. as well as being EXTREAMLY DISAPOINTED in the Mod’s for allowing this to continue. (What're they gonna do? Spank em'?? Spank them because they asked for a picture of a pussy? On a hooker board?? Wait -- Who is offended and why??)
We all walk a tight wire here on an “Information Exchange Board” and I personally thought eccie was here for that reason and not to encourage 14 year old behavior!

VITAL??? information is being lost from these high jacks as threads are being swayed from their original content!!!

I wonder how long it will take them to HIGH JACK THIS THREAD .. as they did MacThe Knife's thread?? And their numbers are growing!

Originally Posted by megustalatina

Well hi there Brittney
I’m glad to see that you’ve given a few moments of your (oh so very) precious time to enlighten us as to how much you enjoy stimulating conversation. I can only assume (you can, but you shouldn't) that your post was directed at me due to your lack of addressing anyone else here (I didn't address any specific member because I was speaking to the general audience. My post had nothing to do with you specifically. As a matter of fact, I had several tabs open and my post ended up in your thread by mistake. While it is still relevant and I stand behind the things I've said, I was actually responding to another thread in AR COED.), and me being the OP. So here you go.
I’ll start by saying that I’m really not sure where you have read into any of my posts that I am spending any of my time off eccie struggling with all the BS and drama that goes on here on the board. (It's not all about you. You're projecting.) I truly appreciate your concern and your recommendation that I should take a break from the hobby Doctor Brittney (childish and unnecessary), but if you don’t mind, I think for the moment I will simply continue along with my affairs as I see fit and enjoy the hobby in the way that I feel best suits me. (by all means) But thank you for the suggestion anyway, as it’s always nice to know that someone has taken their time and shown concern for someone else’s well being. (Overestimated sense of importance.)

Originally Posted by megustalatina

Hey guys,
I didn’t blast into one of Britt’s thread thumping & bumping. (True. You thumped and bumped in the privacy of your own thread, not for the first time. At least you're consistent.) She in fact introduced herself into my thread and began her rant, a slams directed at me (The assumption rears it's ugly head). As she stated in her post here, she is a BIG girl, and pretty much stated she would say what she wants, when she wants and if someone doesn’t like it … That’s their problem! (You're paraphrasing, obviously. Less hostility, more tact. Like this...

@ tuck
As to rather (Whether. Just sayin') or not I think Britt would be a tasty treat, I feel certain that she would be.
@ Rocky
As to misinterpreting what she was saying in her post … I think not. I’m not going to waste my time digging through the threads & posts over the past few days, but do a little research & you’ll find that this was not the first time that she has directed her bile in my direction. (Projecting again. I'm not going to dig through posts because I don't need to. If I had animosity or bile to spew [ew] then it would be blatantly obvious. I have no problem expressing my opinions or getting a point across. The context of my post were my own personal OPINIONS and were directed towards the GENERAL public. I didn't even intend for the damn thing to end up in your silly little thread... shit.)
@ Pyramider
I’ll be damned. I had came to the conclusion that we might never agree on anything, but I have been proven wrong with your post.
Welcome to the Arkansas Forums. (Extending the olive branch and saving face? Why not apologize for your outburst in your "FED THE FUCK UP" thread? Painfully obvious that your animosity is boiling over from my comments regarding that issue. Those comments were also not directed to you specifically but rather to AR hobbyist as a whole.)
@ Mr.Chan
A truer statement could not have been made.
@Logan135
Considering that since this past March you have only posted 2 reviews and both have been on Sexy Brittany and you really don’t have a dog in this hunt. It could be considered in some circles as WK’ing. (You saw it as WK'ing?! Shit, I thought he was accusing me of jackassery!) It’s your call but ijs.

Originally Posted by Logan135

Brit - you go girl ......wait, nevermind.... (( ))

I do agree that basically on any forum where you are dealing with anonymous posters that it is hard to avoid drama. Lots of keyboard cowboys and with just an internet presence civility seems to go by the wayside quicker than a physical conversation would.......plus one's amusing sarcasm (in that poster's mind) might come off as jackassery (Touché. I have, at times, been guilty of what could be perceived as jackassery. Betcha won't say it to my face! ( - - ) from another perspective.

Thanks to the moderators that volunteer their time to referree the sometimes heated discussions....

Originally Posted by megustalatina

Ok Guys & Gals,
Things have slowed down a little for me here, at least until the New Years celebration and the celebration of the Three Kings starts …. So I’m back for the moment. (Continued delusions of grandeur? I highly doubt anyone here noticed your absence. That you went as far as to create your very own threAD is beyond amusing. Thump and bump as you see fit my dear.)
First off, I’d like to say that I for one “personally” have more important things to do during the Holiday Season, other than spew vomit & bile at an uninspiring bunch of misfits on a hooker board.(By your own admission you read the ECCIE HOBBY GUIDELINES 5x. That probably monopolized a lot of your bile spewing time.)
Secondly, I will say that I did not contact the mods, but rather they contacted me, and I was politely asked to step away from the “cesspool” and ignore the situation.("cesspool" being my word and not the mod’s, but I‘m trying to be polite). (Oh? But you were so quick to rush to the defense of the frightened and afraid. You have a lot of nerve to chastise ANYONE for not being friendly or helpful. Mr. Combative, I must've missed where you hitched up the ol welkum wagon and gave our TX neighbors the greeting they deserve.)
I would also like to say that I will not waste one second of my time replying or responding to any of the initial crew or to any of the childish bullshit or harassment that has been slung in past threads or might be slung in future threads concerning the matter.(Well, at least it was a nice thought...)
MGL

Originally Posted by megustalatina

All this talk of ECCIE drama -- If ECCIE world is bothering you or causing you grief while you are away from your computer then maybe it's time to take a break from the hobby. Most of the "drama" (I hate that word) is escalated when hobbyist/providers involve themselves in issues/situations where there presence in neither needed nor appreciated.
See your statement above! (Statement revisited. Now what?)

Still waters run deep and no one benefits when an uninformed outside party comes along waving their hands and ranting about drama.
See your statement above! (Revisted x2)
All the WK'ing (hobbyist) and co-signing (providers) is counter-productive and irritating. We are all big boys and girls and I don't think any of us need a bodyguard to protect us during verbal combat.
(Not directed at you. General statement meaning that the provider world is very small. We may not closely interact with one another on a daily basis but we are up to date with the goings on of one another. From mutual clients to recruiting techniques attempted by potential management, we are in the know. How many times do arrogant, childish providers pull ridiculous shenanigans that remain unknown to hobbyist because of all the requests for "less drama and more niceties"? Prank calls? Threats of violence sent from dummy email accounts? Hateful, rude comments and texts regarding appearance, reviews, financial status, etc? But see, you boyZ don't know shit about that because some of us "Drama Queens" choose to bite the bullet and take the high road. When the antagonizers come to view themselves as formidable opponents then the "mean spirited, hateful, bullying" comes into play. The situation only escalates when the uninformed hobbyist sides with the problem causing party. The point I was/am trying to make is this -- Guys, stop involving yourself in conflicts that have absolutely nothing to do with you! You do not know what has transpired in Provider Land and remained back channel. Since when do hookers need clients to fight their battles for them?!? What you may view as bullying could actually be quite the opposite. I thought I'd communicated my thoughts effectively the first time. Please let me know if I need to explain further.) but I guess if BRITTANY THE GREAT (I'm trying to play nice. Give you an inch and you take a mile. This is counterproductive and uncalled for.) want’s to make that accusation towards me, then I should what … sit in the corner and tremble? Beg for mercy … LMAO, that’s probably not going to happen Britt … Sorry! (At first your comments were contemptuous, now they've escalated to spiteful and are bordering on misogynistic...)

Voicing opinions or ideas in open forum invites other opinions and ideas. If everyone is afraid to post then thats their problem. Every time I post anything I run the risk of offending someone; it doesn't stop me from posting. All this effort to protect the weak. Why? If they're too afraid to post then I doubt they have anything worthwhile to say.

I feel strongly on various subjects and I am fully capable of defending my logic if challenged. If a member is taking the time to post an opinion or idea then they are responsible for the context of that post. If another member doesn't agree then it becomes a discussion (sometimes heated, and thats ok too) and we all have a chance to view the issue from 2 different perspectives. I enjoy witty banter. I like hearing the opinions of others and when they differ from my own then I admire a person who is willing to trade insight and explain the logic behind whatever issue is causing the controversy. I don't expect to be handled with kid gloves and I don't need anyone standing on the sidelines cheering me on. If I'm wrong on an issue then I'm woman enough to admit it. If someone doesn't agree with something I say then should I pout and snivel or retreat into hobby solitude?! I feel no sympathy for anyone who is "afraid" to post nor do I feel sympathy for those who recklessly interact and contribute nonsense but are incapable of defending the logic or reason behind their thoughts.
You are a very intelligent young lady Brittney and if there was anyone that I would expect to encourage outside input from some of the new and sometimes shy members … it would be you. I don't have time to walk anyone through hobby 101. I'll help anyone as much as I can but I am 24yo with limited life skills and no concept of money or time. My plate is full, big daddy. I have 33 new texts in my phone and 39 unanswered PMs here on ECCIE. When I set aside time to hobby I get overwhelmed with appt. requests, time wasters, solicitations from pimps/agencies. I haven't checked my email is over a week so there is no telling what all is hiding there. Don't get me wrong, I love my clients and I love the hobby but I have serious anxiety issues and that is a lot of pressure to wake up to daily. I have OCD and I absolutely CAN NOT hobby if my incall and my hair/makeup aren't perfect. I have a group of non-hobby friends who I go out with reguarly because I make it a priority to have a life outside of ECCIE world. I try my best to maintain a healthy relationship with my family but it's difficult getting our schedules to coincide so I usually just throw them a little cash to get them off my back. My living expenses are ridiculous and I have a debilitating addiction to retail. Top it off - I have an 8mo English bulldog. I don't have the time nor patience to coax anyone out of their hobby shell. Give me a break.) Intelligence is a wonderful thing to be blessed with, but not nearly as useful on a hooker board as good ole Common Sense.
It would seem to me that rather than ridiculing new members, (Link please. Link or it didn't happen. When have a ridiculed a new member?? I haven't even noticed any new members!) you would go out of your way to make them feel comfortable if for no other reason than to harvest new quality clients. (I can barely maintain my current client load. You leave the marketing side of things up to me, ok? If I want advice then I'm capable of asking for it.) But then again … what do I know? (I haven't figured it out yet either...)

If you can't take the heat then stay outta the kitchen.
Very sound advise! Do you cook too? LOL (There will be an upcharge.)

MGL, I am one person. I am not infallible and no one is more aware of that than I. I do have a high opinion of myself and I won't apologize for that. Ultimately, no one really gives a fuck what I have to say; I didn't get 75+ reviews in one year because guys like my intelligent conversation. I don't want to continue this exchange but we can if you insist. In the end I MAY look like an asshole, but you already do.

Last thing -- I may not always play well with others, but I'm damn good at playing with myself...

[pyramider]

I thinck Brittany is flirting with me, in a tainted sort of way.

[Guest040313-1]

Good Morning Brittany
I’m chuckling because we could go at this for as long as we both wanted to continue the banter. I agree with you completely on not wanting to continue the exchange as this has turned into a pointless exchange on both our parts, and I’m willing to stop lobbing stones if you will afford me the same.
When I offered the suggestion to you regarding building your client base, I should have included the statement that I hold your management skills in high regard, but I was simply offering advise. I apologize to you for handing out unsolicited advise and will try to work on this flaw of mine in the future.
By the way, The pic is super sexy. But with a few of these, I can get all of those I want … LOL … and that’s a joke Britt, and not intended to slight you in any way.
Hope you have a Happy New Year.
MGL

Originally Posted by Sexy_Brittany

MGL, I am one person. I am not infallible and no one is more aware of that than I. I do have a high opinion of myself and I won't apologize for that. Ultimately, no one really gives a fuck what I have to say; I didn't get 75+ reviews in one year because guys like my intelligent conversation. I don't want to continue this exchange but we can if you insist. In the end I MAY look like an asshole, but you already do.

Last thing -- I may not always play well with others, but I'm damn good at playing with myself...