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Originally Posted by Big Stig
Expecting someone to offer up private information is just crazy. There has to be a better way.
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True there should be but as of now there isn't. We all know what a rousing success "vouch" systems can be
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Originally Posted by Big Stig
I've asked this question many times and no one has ever answered it. How does knowing someone's real name, employer or anything else make you safe?
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It's the
perceived level of trust that goes along with the name that calms some nerves.
As I've said hundreds of times, I don't care where anyone works and when a gent readily offers that up I get suspicious. I don't believe I've ever asked anything truly personal beyond an address for outcall.
I also don't ask last names
unless it's some random dude who emails me without my knowing where when or how he got my info.
Bottom line.
Some of you mongers know how to ferret out
EVERY bit of info on some of the gals. Especially nowadays with some fools linking hobby numbers to Facebook, twitter and the like.
The smart girl has her stats, a name, means of contact and locale out there for ya'll to see all the time.
Some of us just want a tiny info back to feel secure.
Doesn't mean we always are..... just the assumption.